Would any of your hire an overweight 50 year old escort

[Quincy_7]

Live and let live. I'll keep having my 22 year old twinks and whoever is into Howie can spend however much time they desire with him.

[phildallas]

I've got an extremely interactive massage guy who's in his 50's that I see because he's good at fulfilling a number of my kinks. And I rather like his type. I'm in my late 50's he's early 50's. He's turned me onto some kink that I'd not explored before. But he doesn't charge $300. Don't know that I would see him at that rate, but I'm a cheap bastard.

[Bearman]

I don’t think the standards of “beauty” are regional, but more so demographic, specifically in “straight” world vs. “gay” world.

 

A gay man’s “ugly”, is a straight man’s “average”.

 

A gay man’s “average”, is a straight man’s “good looking”

 

A gay man’s “good looking”, is a straight man’s “unattainably gorgeous”.

 

I always tell people that there are two areas of life where you will spend your entire life being scrutinized for your looks and feel the pressure to maintain your looks until the grave: 1.) being a professional model, and 2.) being a gay man.

 

The reason why gyms are packed with gay men isn’t because they are health conscious... it’s because they have to maintain a certain standard of physical attractiveness in order to have a sex life and find a mate (for a friendship, relationship, random sex, etc.)

 

Those who get out of the matrix of superficial bullshit either do onenof the following:

 

1.) say “fuck it”, and let themselves go and live a happy life, without seeking validation, and just orders escorts.

 

2.) Says “fuck it”, and goes into a vice: (drugs, food, alcohol)

 

3.) Says “fuck it”, and becomes a hermit.

 

4.) Says “fuck it”, and goes into a depression

 

Or .....

Says “fuck it”, exits out of the matrix, reprogrammed his values and sense of reality, lives his life to the fullest and focused of self-value, authenticity, and is clear of seeking the validation of others. ☺️??

 

I agree with you on the demographics but disagree with you on the regional. It's so true what you say about gay vs straight standards of beauty. Here in the USA woman have always fallen all over me, and till this day and my straight female friends can't figure out why I'm single and don't have a boyfriend. Yet gay men here and in northern Europe usually find me less than attractive with some exceptions of course. But in some countries like in the Mediterranean area and in some south American regions men find me extremally handsome and attractive. Some east Asian places as well, yet in south east Asia not at all. So I have to disagree with you on the regional. Different cultures have different perceptions of beauty and value different things. But as far as demographics you are right on according to my own experiences and what I've seen in the world.

[MidwestCoastal]

A very lively conversation that I can't believe went to four pages.

 

To each his own both as a seller and a buyer - he has every right to advertise or not advertise and people have equal rights to buy or not buy.

 

Close the thread.

[Quincy_7]

Look's like Howie's making a trip to Palm Springs.

[johnjohn]

Never try to figure out what someone else likes and wants. I think the problem is there are so many guys that look like him that are looking to have sex for free...Check out any sidewalk/coffee shop/donut shop. Christopher St ..8th St...8th Ave are full of zaftig men trying to give it away. The outfits? Really?

I learned a new word today >Zaftig men< guess thats what i am , LOL