Ever had a platonic paid-meet with escort?

[+ glutes]

And how did it go? Was it just like taking to a therapist, real talk, not small talk?

[+ sync]

Yes, just once eons ago. When he opened his door, his youthfulness was overwhelming. I explained that he looked so young that being intimate was not in my wheelhouse. For the remainder of my time we chatted about whatever came to mind. I remember him being very relaxed and congenial. I left "unfulfilled," but not disappointed.

[Beancounter]

There are several guys I’ve become become good friends with over the years that I’ve met platonically both in person and via long telephone calls. The mention of money never crossed our minds. While our relationships started out as a strictly physical and sexual thing those relationships have evolved into friends first and then sexual business dealings.

[+ purplekow]

A man I met as an escort has been to my home many times for social situations. We have gone out to plays together. I have dog sat his dog and he has stayed at my home while I was away to dog sit for my pack. He was recently hospitalized and I travelled about an hour each way to visit him.

I do not believe that becoming friendly with an escort is unusual. After all, if the escort encounter is fun and satisfying, it is likely that there is a connection beyond the physical.

[+ Mplsgymguy]

For those of you too young to know, Haus Weston had done a number of scenes in porno movies of the 1990s, then lost some “baby fat,” bulked up, and modeled for Colt Studio. The fall of 2001 he was doing some escorting and was in Chicago the same weekend I was visiting. I made an appointment and went to his hotel. When he opened the door I was stunned by how incredibly handsome he was, so much better looking than in his movies or even in his Colt photos. And he was taller than I expected. Anyway, I guess I was just overwhelmed and couldn’t bring myself to get physical with him, even though he gladly kept removing articles of clothing until he was nude. The whole time we were chatting about his career, his family, how he got started in the business, stuff like that. He autographed his page in that year’s Colt calendar, gave me a nice kiss, and sent me on my way.

 

About a year later I read that he had committed suicide. I had the autographed photo framed and still have it.

[dixietony]

I started hiring a specific escort back in 2011. It was rarely sexual. I'm still meeting him now. We sightsee. Eat out. Watch movies. Stay at the hotel together. But I've only ever gave him 3 blow jobs total. Never anal. I'm seeing him again in March for 3 days.

[+ WilliamM]

An escort whom I had hired asked me to visit him in the hospital after a serious illness.

 

As to hiring a guy just to spend time, no. And I took the OP comment was about hiring, not eventually friendships.

[Fyton]

I started hiring a specific escort back in 2011. It was rarely sexual. I'm still meeting him now. We sightsee. Eat out. Watch movies. Stay at the hotel together. But I've only ever gave him 3 blow jobs total. Never anal. I'm seeing him again in March for 3 days.

Why?

[big-n-tall]

I never paid anyone to hang out.

 

However, as I mentioned before, I have befriended a number of escorts and a webcam guy. With most of them, I followed the same pattern as @Beancounter. (The webcam guy and I have never had physical sex. Just what we did via cam.) Two of them are graduating from school this year. So I'll be attending their graduations in the summer.

 

There are few who I no longer have sexual encounters with but we still talk regularly and visit each other.

[Poincare]

Very interesting thread. I find the world of escorts fascinating and many of the guys are so sweet and honest. I wonder how they got into this line of business. I don’t want to sound judgmental as I have a lot of respect for them and what they provide.

 

WRT platonic relationships with escorts I have had a few. A gorgeous Italian escort and I have been very close over the past 10 years since I first hired him in Milan. We are still very clean she and take trips together. I haven’t paid him since our second meeting.....many years ago.

 

Also, I have developed a deep friendship with a famous port star escort. I haven’t paid in a long time...we also hang out a lot, talk and text a lot. We have become very close and haven’t had sex since the beginnng.

[LaffingBear]

Ive never rented a human for conversation-only or non-physical companionship.

 

Ive spent platonic time with guys who escort. Met with visitors to SF Id seen in past, but they just wanted a break from their cllient schedule, to hang out or sightsee. Ive scheduled escorts, decided not to proceed based on the mutual lack of attraction but hung out with them. Very infrequent, but its happened.

 

I had a guy show up in Vegas once... wasnt as described by an agency... he was super understanding, apologized, spent an hour in the hotel lobby bar with me, and even went through the old LV Bugle ads and helped me choose another guy.

 

All in all, its 10-15% at most, but Ive found that being considerate, friendly, has resulted in off-the-clock time such as meals, sightseeing, etc.

[liubit]

I have had a few platonic unpaid meetings with escorts I have become friends with. But platonic paid encounters, never.

[dixietony]

Why?

 

Because I like him. I've helped him financially through the years. We chat online a couple times a week. We cuddle. I've never been a very sexual person anyway. Personally, I'd rather pay to build a relationship with a guy I find attractive and take of my sexual urges myself. I'm not saying it's what anyone else would do. I'm limited to what I can do in my life due to family/religion where I live. I get away from it all 2 to 3 times a year and visit him.

[Kenny]

Ive never rented a human for conversation-only or non-physical companionship.

What? You are sleeping with your therapist?? Shocking!

[+ Charlie]

Yes, but it wasn't intended that way. He was a visiting escort, and we had been canoodling for a few minutes, when he suddenly broke down sobbing, and admitted that he was in town for a family funeral, and realized he couldn't perform. I held him in my arms until he could regain his control, but he was so obviously distraught, that I spent the rest of the appointment time comforting him and counseling him. He didn't ask for his fee, but I gave it to him anyway. He called me the next day and offered a free session to make up for it, but I was no longer available.

[+ purplekow]

Yes, but it wasn't intended that way. He was a visiting escort, and we had been canoodling for a few minutes, when he suddenly broke down sobbing, and admitted that he was in town for a family funeral, and realized he couldn't perform. I held him in my arms until he could regain his control, but he was so obviously distraught, that I spent the rest of the appointment time comforting him and counseling him. He didn't ask for his fee, but I gave it to him anyway. He called me the next day and offered a free session to make up for it, but I was no longer available.

Nice of you to give him his fee. I must admit that I probably would not have as he knew the person was dead when he walked in the door, it was not as though the person died just as he entered the room. He probably should have just cancelled.

But Charlie you are such a kind hearted individual, your generosity does not surprise me.

I tend to be a if we don't fuck you don't get the buck kind of guy.

[LaffingBear]

What? You are sleeping with your therapist?? Shocking!

I dont have a therapist

 

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[+ harey]

And how did it go? Was it just like taking to a therapist, real talk, not small talk?

Yes, several times. Dinner chat and then send them home, trade travel stories over drinks, etc. I went through a period of including talk in all meetings to gain more insights into what types of guys get into that line of work.

[Alexander]

I have, I wanted to meet the star as he was someone I admired both off and on camera. He was a body builder. We met talked about his work and life. It was nice.

[HoseMaster]

Well, I was supposed to have an hour-long out call with a new escort. It wasn't supposed to be platonic, but it ended up being two-hour long platonic one!! Surprisingly he didn't charge me, and we even agreed to make it up the following night as an overnight. He was a poor communicator, and communication is a trait strongly required in this business. What was even more frustrating than the encounter itself was that I spent nearly 2 hours writing a detailed review on it on daddys (so that other potential clients would know that they may be risking their money setting something up with him only to find that communication has the potential to drop off the radar), only to find that the next day I get an email that "Per the FAQ, I tend to hold "No Show" reviews. Why would I want to risk wasting valuable time writing other reviews for future meetings then? It's all just frustrating is all.....