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Whether there are events in those or other places is a separate discussion. The DC event and the Palm Springs weekend are what could be called 'destination' event for the participants, not gatherings aimed at the community where they are held, although they are certainly convenient for those locals. They depend for their success on people travelling from around the country and beyond (Exhibit A for the latter right here), and indeed for this event this year an organiser who lives on the west coast.
Staging another similar event elsewhere would work best at a location that is a drawcard (for whatever reason) in its own right, so a destination city or an airline hub. There have been events attempted in places like New York and Chicago but none has been enduring, so perhaps the key to success is a city that is not too much of a destination: if people really want to go there (or have to) they would do it anyway, and the event wouldn't prompt them to make a special trip, whereas for an event at a place people sort of want to go could be the trigger for them to make the trip.
I can't talk to Philly's status as a drawcard, although I am aware of its historical significance as the first seat of Congress, amongst other things, so I don't know where it fits into the scale of likely host cities. Princeton and I suspect Philly are candidates for locals to organise a meeting, and perhaps advertise it for wider attendance from forum members but I doubt either will become the next, or another 'forum regular' gathering. Don't die wondering, try to organise something local, but history suggests that something more even that a few initially enthusiastic locals is needed for an enduing event. Good luck!

Some people can just read the room straight away!

Plenty of people have been to these events over the years, so in general I don't think that they're lazy. Some of us have missed a couple of weeks of high summer to freeze our butts off in DC. Covid is why I won't be there.

This should not come as a surprise given all that's going on with omicron, but the DC Forum Gathering planned for later this month has been canceled.
Over the past week I've been checking in with everyone who had initially expressed interest in attending. The vast majority have said they are not coming, or are likely not to come.
The timing of the weekend couldn't be worse, with it likely to coincide with the peak of the omicron surge. While it's turning out that the symptoms aren't too bad if you're vaccinated and boosted, it still seems like a bad idea. Add to that the possibility of flight and business disruptions, the mask requirement at MAL, etc. etc.
I'm really sorry about this guys (and gals). I'd been looking forward to this, as I know others had too. I have heard from a couple of guys who will be in town for the weekend nevertheless, and suggested a small dinner together if there are others. In that sense, this would take the weekend back to its roots, which started with a handful of guys getting together for brunch to put faces to screennames. If you're going to be in DC that weekend and would like to meet up, post something on this thread. I'm happy to help coordinate if there's a need, but I will not be traveling to DC myself.
Stay well, and let's hope for better days ahead!

I met up with him and he's very sexy, totally handsome and just like his pics. Dick is 9in uncut. He's a great choice if you're looking for a rough aggressive Dom top. Definitely not the gentle BFE and definitely not for beginners.

Perhaps Jack Benny is STILL alive ?

I’m interested also, as you might be able to tell from my handle or member name.

Pic 4. Who wouldn't want to ride that ride?

Does he offer any extras to compensate for the lack of massage skills?
Thanks, that’s good information. I’ve come to realize if a masseur has been doing this awhile and they weren’t very good they’re not likely to be any better a year later either because they don’t realize the need to improve or they don’t really have an interest or perceived need to improve. 

It’s really disappointing and frustrating given the current rate for massage to have an unsatisfactory experience from the therapeutic component of a massage. 

I remember recently leaving a massage thinking I just spent $160 for an hour to have someone run lotion on me that I could do myself if I could reach my back. 

I think communication is a big thing that a lot of people just lack. Like stated above, clients will book and then not show up, call, or even text back and leave you hanging. I’ve been with clients, who have seem a bit angry at times and take whatever frustration they have going on out on me and I usually don’t pay it any mind.  All around I think people should just learn to communicate and treat people the way you wanna be treated. 

Amen!

Never met him either but therapeutic is grayed out in his Rentmasseur ad and his private pics give you a good idea of what you might expect during the massage session.

That's something I would definitely remember.

What would be life without this Forum? I was almost going to hire him......!

The best anal training is a patient top.

Agreed. I chatted/texted with a guy a month or two ago who promised a premium spa experience in his private "luxurious" apt while charging escort prices. I was up front with him that I didn't mind spending the money but I expected more than just a massage. It didn't have to be sex per se but an erotic experience, MT, and kissing at the very least for the price he was charging. He wouldn't commit to anything beyond the "possibility" of a HE and kept touting his luxurious apt. I don't care about a marble bathroom and high thread count sheets (or whatever passes for luxury these days). Clean and comfortable is fine. I'm paying for the experience with the masseur or escort; I couldn't care less about Gucci sheets. I'm not going to pay $250 for "we'll see what happens..." 🙄

As a teenager, I found the Pearl https://www.globalgreyebooks.com/pearl-complete-19-volumes-ebook.html several volumes of Victorian era erotic.
It resulted in many dog eared pages and many a stiff handkerchief. 
At the time I found it extremely erotic I wonder as an adult if I’d find it as erotic. I used to imagine that the men in the stories were doing me. It was very descriptive 🔥
it also contained many parodies, songs and limericks. My favorite:
”There was a man from Bombay, Who fashioned a cunt out of clay, But the heat of his prick turned it to brick, and Chafed all the foreskin away.”

Two observations:
1. When they post their rates as ‘Ask’ you can pretty much figure out what their rates are from what the reviewers posted as the rates they paid.
2. By being vague on services offered they can feel they can charge escort rates and have the option to decide how far they want to go in providing services resulting in YMMV.
if I’m going to pay escort level rates then I want to know I’m getting sex and clear up front what that sex will be. I don’t want to empty my wallet and leave frustrated because the ‘provider’ determines the chemistry isn’t working for him for whatever reason.
I’d rather pay $60-$120 for a therapeutic massage where the masseur is really going to provide a truly experienced massage — not just rubbing lotion on me and calling it a massage. 
Then I’ll pay the going rate for my escort and know the activities I want will happen and, with a few exceptions, I’ll leave happy, tired and relaxed. Plus some escorts have talented hands and can do some massage as foreplay before the main event 😉

I believe nycboi has left the building. So for those inquiring about updates, probably won't get it.
He kind of left in a huff because he felt attacked in another forum topic (the one he started about becoming an escort). Not to say he won't eventually return, but who knows.

He was great. Exactly as I remembered. He said he's not planning to run his ads all the time but if you've been a previous client, keep his number. I know I will. 

@nycboi Have you made progress over the fall? Excellent  tips on this thread from all! What have you noted about when it feels best? Crowning at its widest?  Slow and deeper? Moving abs and pelvis as it stays in one place?
I believe in confidence in cleanliness, taking time doing kegels (clench-relax-push-relax etc, with increasing the tension to really feel the “relax”, and even if alone, spend time with a lot of finger stimulation and good lube. Often three fingers, just around the rim (not even first knuckle) feels better than a full poke with one, and alternate strong circular motions with soft tickling and slapping. A good top who enjoys ass will do all this and more. This is where “the want” comes from, which as pointed out by others is very important for enjoyment of being penetrated. I love to climax from it, whether it’s stretch or depth or repetition that ultimately pushes the right button (you may have more than one, btw…) And if you’re lucky to enjoy all three 🎇🎆
I will never be convinced that what is biologically an exit portal wasn’t also designed with  penetration as a fun alt use…
Our hands were designed to do the hard work of survival, but they also work great for scratching our balls…
 

Any paricular combo?  Oregano, paprika... just a little salt and pepper? 😁

I never cared for dildos.  The first time I enjoyed anything was an aneros.  From there, I found that lube was my best friend.  The initial penetration is the hardest / most painful for me.  Once he is in, he can go crazy and I'll enjoy every second of it.  Real penises flex and fit better than any dildo and a seasoned top knows how to make it fit for mutual enjoyment.

I also saw him on 12/18 and had similar experience as KensingtonHomo. 
It was my 1st time with him and all the previous reviews were on point. He will definitely be one of my regulars when I travel to NYC. It was like looking at a classical Greek statue come to life—with a lot more below than the typical marble statues I’ve seen. 😄

I also saw him on 12/18 and had similar experience as KensingtonHomo. 
It was my 1st time with him and all the previous reviews were on point. He will definitely be one of my regulars when I travel to NYC. It was like looking at a classical Greek statue come to life—with a lot more below than the typical marble statues I’ve seen. 😄