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hi, so you take a pill every 24 hrs after the 1st double dose. below is a hypothetical pill schedule for a friday start and sunday end (meds are effective until 1pm monday):
 
2-1-1 weekend schedule:
friday 1pm: take 2 truvada as directed
saturday 1pm: take 1 truvada as directed
sunday 1pm: take 1 truvada as directed
 
the double dose from friday flooded my body with an enzyme blocker to protect me against exposure to hiv. the medication is completely active & 96% effective with no decrease in protection if i take the the 2nd dose (1 pill) as recommend on saturday at 1pm. on sunday at 1pm i take my 3rd dose without any dip in the enzyme blocker....enzyme blocker has no dip in effectiveness until 1pm monday.
 
99% protection against hiv after 7 days of truvada (7 doses) when taken as directed
96% protection against hiv after 3 days of truvada (4 doses) when taken as directed
76% protection against hiv after 1 day of truvada (double dose) when taken as directed
 
consider also if your partner is on PrEP or positive & undetectable and in both cases taking the meds as directed...you start getting into virtually impossible situations for infection
 
obviously you can adjust your pill schedule to start at anytime you want. do what is right for you and your schedule.
 
also, i gave an example of how i might use 2-1-1 on a weekend with someone i am dating on an earlier post. i used dating as an example b/c that means we talk openly & often about our sexual health, the methods of protection we use & any risks or concerns we may have for each other. i would start the pill at a totally different time (and day) if i'm booked for a 3 hour (min) group session at a client's hotel on a friday night at 8pm.
 
doctors recommend 4 weeks on truvada from the day of any significant hiv exposure - i've done this twice via PeP

https://www.sfaf.org/wp-content/uploads/downloads/PrEP-211-study-info-flyer-ENGLISH-FINAL2.pdf
 
https://www.sfaf.org/wp-content/uploads/PrEP-211-study-info-flyer-SPANISH-final2.pdf
 
2-1-1 PrEP is only for anal sex. Take 2 pills 24hrs before your first sex session. Continue taking 1 pill, at the same time, every day as long as you're engaging in anal sex. Once you've had your last round of anal sex then continue taking a daily pill at the same time for 2 more days.

I think you would just continue to take one pill each day you were active, and for the two days after last activity. The 2 day initial dose is to get your levels up from zero, after that it's maintenance.

Thank you for taking the time to detail your regimen. It's very helpful for new comers and give us an idea on what options we have in moderating the regimen.
 
As for your concern about my liver (or kidney), I am still pretty healthy, and I think the doctors will do some basic lab work to make sure I'm Okay to take PrEP med. I definitely want to get protected before my next encounter to have peace of mind. But it'll have to be after the pandemic is under control.

If you only have about 1 or 2 sexual encounters a year and they are sufficiently planned ahead of time you could start taking PrEP 7 days prior. I've read that after that period you can be 100% sure you have adequate amount of medicine in your system to protect you.
 
I myself have always been on the 2-1-1 regimen but I would get bad side-effects (gastric destress, nausea, headaches, lethargy, fatigue, groginess). So much so my PrEP doctor recommended me to take it daily for a few weeks to see if I would adjust. It was a horrible three weeks as the side effects got worse until one day suddenly I didn't have any side effects anymore.
 
I eventually switched back to 2-1-1 since I just wasn't very sexually active. I started PrEP late 2018 as Truvada and mid-2019 my doctor switched me to generic.

a break occurred in the previous post when i replied to your questions - here they are again (hopefully without the break):
(1) So my guess is that when you are certain you won't be sexually active for a while, you will pause on the daily regimen, and switch to the 2-1-1 method?
 
i remain sexually active whether i am taking a daily dose of truvada (PrEP) or using the 2-1-1 method (aside from the covid-19 quarantine anomaly). i go off PrEP & switch to 2-1-1 when my work schedule is dense/hectic. my sexual behaviors adjust in response to the natural limitations of working 12-15 hr days 6 days a week. i have fewer partners, shorter experiences, don't use apps, i focus on men i know & the type of sex shifts to mostly bjs, rimming, jerk-offs, heavy petting, humping, make-outs all in quick heated bursts on a lunch break, at the gym, heading home after work, etc. there is less fucking & i stop bottoming b/c i do not have the time for preparation & penetration on the days i work. i communicate openly about 2-1-1, PrEP, my status, my intos and my time constraints.
 
below is an example of how i use 2-1-1:
if i am dating someone during a busy work phase, off PrEP & we agree to chill at my place on a friday night, i will take 2 truvada when we confirm our plans on friday afternoon & simultaneously set an alert on my phone for 24 & 48hrs dose reminders knowing it will most likely turn into a sleepover. if one of us cancels or we don't bareback i will either not take the remaining pills (no big deal) or stick to the 24 hour schedule and plan for fun on saturday/sunday. a lot can go down from a saturday afternoon until a monday morning.
 
on 2-1-1 it is recommended to take the double dose a minimum of 2 hours before sex, but ideally 24 hours before sex. after many lengthy discussions with my doctor about the reasoning & flexibly of the 2-24 hour pill-before-sex window we both feel very comfortable when i dose 6 to 18 hrs before sex. i integrated the 2-1-1 regimen years ago & it has been a very successful option for me during exceptionally busy times. it can also lead to getting back on the daily pill (PrEP) or being on truvada for 6 days or 10 days etc.
 
so i am still engaged sexually in a variety of ways without being on PrEP and the rigid time restrictions of my schedule support the break in medication without much risk. i also don't feel like i am a slave to PrEP. i have less anxiety if i am late taking a pill, miss a day or 2 days even or stop for a week and start again. i have a deeper understanding of how the medication works and works in my body. i feel more in control.
 
note: my doctor does NOT recommend barebacking on PrEP or 2-1-1. he recommends always using condoms with PrEP or 2-1-1 as the best protection against sti. my doc is gay and provides care primarily to the lgbt community.
 
(2) Did you have strong reaction to truvada when you first started on it? I have never taken any PrEP, so I'd like to know if I take it for 2-1-1, will it mess up my planned encounter.
 
nope. i did not experience any issues when i first started truvada or thereafter, however it was via a 28 day treatment of PEP prescribed under a completely different set of circumstances and with isentress. i remember feeling quite nervous about the possibility of a bad reaction to both meds, but i had little time to think before i took my first pill & larger distractions.
 
unfortunately, you won't know how or if it effects you until you try it. i have some concerns over your first dose of truvada being a double dose. will you have the benefit of bloodwork first to confirm your liver can handle 2-1-1?
 
(3) I read about people having horrible reactions to PEP. What was your experience?
 
luckily i experienced no side-effects from the 28 day combination of truvada & isentress.
 
i appreciate your openness and willingness to ask questions about sexual health; please let me know if you have anymore.

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Did he take care of business? Problem with the hot masseuse’s is that I’m compelled to take care of them. So I’m basically paying them to suck there cock. If it’s dangled in my face or brushes against me I’m going to grab it and suck it. Maybe I should become a masseuse. LOL

Despite his tetchy inability to schedule me in the past, recent positive reviews encouraged me try again. But no sooner had we agreed a time than came his three strikes: $175 plus tips (crass); I would be clothed (what year is this?); and mutual touch depended on his mood (then why #1?) Hard pass. Let’s not reward such greedy, puritanical behavior, which happily is still relatively rare in NYC masseurs.

I'm in a very dry area of Southeastern Virginia and don't have much too choose from, visiting or local.  I will drive to Richmond, Va. (not much better) or head to DC.
I miss Craigslist back in the good ole days. Lots of hung, bi, masculine and poor students to choose from..

49? ROFLMAO! I hired him on Oct. 9, 1981, and he wasn't 9 years old then.

Yes, that's the same fellow.  Seriously, pics are impressive.  Haven't tried because haven't traveled at all. 😞  But if the personality is as good as the body, well damnnnnnn.

One thing I can assure you is that sex in your 50s can be great but it is likely to be different than sex in your sixties.  In my fifties I was still able to orgasm 3 times in a 2 hour session and usually 5 times in an overnight providing the provider was willing to keep going.   While I now am able to enjoy a full two hour session, it is usually a one shot deal for me.  Knowing that ahead of time, I can take my time and fully enjoy the non-orgasmic aspects of sex rather than rushing to get orgasm number 2 and number three done before my guest is ready to leave.  I have grown to appreciate watching and controlling my partner orgasm for a second or even a third time during our session.  I encourage him to come rather than having him holding out to please me and while watching my partner orgasm is not as physically satisfying as having an orgasm myself, it is usually emotionally more satisfying. It plays into my sense of power and control.  Knowing that I am able to get my sexual partner aroused a second time, feeling his erection grow and then watching as his muscles tense and then watching him convulse in pleasure a second or third time has made my one orgasm as memorable as most sessions when I came two or three times. And in the end, once my partner has come two or three times, I have the ultimate pleasure of having a younger man lying tired and sexually spent while I come to completion over his sweaty prone body.
With overnights, which I tend to have less often these days, the nighttime session is usually a prolonged session with multiple orgasms for him and a final orgasm for me.  The morning session is all about getting me off a second time, which was once an easy task, but which now requires my partner to work diligently to get the job done.
Fair warning here, you need to find a partner that is willing to make the commitment to have multiple orgasms and who is able to change the focus from getting you off to one in which he allows himself to be the focus of the quest for orgasm and who still has energy enough to insure your orgasm at the end.   Having a regular partner who knows this is the goal makes it easier.  Finding such a regular does take effort as many escorts are not so interested in allowing you to enjoy their orgasm as they are in getting the client off.  
As a result, I usually hire mid week during the early afternoon and I am able to send my partner off to the rest of their day, while I am able to lie in the warm sweaty sheets inhaling the thick musky scents of the remnants of my sexual encounter.  

I'd be more impressed with this story if the gang of otters were snapping their fingers and doing Jerome Robbins choreography.

Just switched to beta on rentmen with one of my profiles there and now all of my email archive and instant messaging with current Clients is completely gone~ Doesn’t look like there is a way to switch back~ 
 My recommendation: Take caution switching to beta on rentmen~!!! …maybe wait until they have the kinks worked out~ 

Jesus g*d what have they done!

You fly to NYC, open up the Grindr app and look at the little pictures...😒 
Seriously?? I will say it again: Avoid! I am on this forum to help my peeps stay out of trouble, not encourage them into the direction of trouble!! 😎

Some escorts value their "worth" based on how they look. But, like any relationship, physicality gets you the initial connection; but, it's the quality of the connection and experience that sustains the relationship. 

When I hear $3k for an overnight, I am turned off. Not because I can’t do it, but because someone thinks they’re time is that valuable. Perhaps it’s just me though…

Here are some of my faves. A couple are vers but I'm a bottom so it's based on my experience of them as tops. 
https://rent.men/Dominus (lives in DC but in NYC frequently) 
https://rent.men/NYWolfman (great in bed and awesome guy)
https://rent.men/drtynycman
https://rent.men/TommyColeXXL
 

When I was growing up (late teens) Christopher St in The Village was wall to wall guys wanting to have fun...I met many friends and had some incredible times
A very social time...Glad we had that ⏲ Time..

Some of the NYC places are still open although many of the gyms (NYSC was great for cruising) have closed. I heard that the East Side Club permanently closed but the West Side Club remains open. The NYC Bear Parties resume this week, but a COVID vaccination form is required for admission. Not sure if cruising will ever be the same. Sad...

This was my experience too. I was waiting for it to "go there" but it never did. Maybe he only goes there with people he finds attractive. I think that's understandable but I wouldn't advertise as "sensual" or "erotic."