Alex93108

Personally I would not book a 3 night appointment with someone i never met before , must less a 3 night BFE. The longest i would have someone over is probably two nights at most 

Personally I would not book a 3 night appointment with someone i never met before , must less a 3 night BFE. The longest i would have someone over is probably two nights at most 

I meet providers in the lobby period. If its not the same person I ask him to leave . Some providers ask me for the room number : no. 
100 USD? No 
Now I have had providers show up high on something and I can tell - in which case I may give something to cancel but not the the full amount. It’s almost better to dismiss the person completely . 
I am not a weak ass faggot . I am kind tho….

In my gay circle, "faggot" is a term we use. Usually noted to depict an immature, overly-emotional, whiny gay man. Our prerogative to use that word.
And yes, hotels don't care about this stuff, and if an escort tries to create a scene in a hotel, security will "escort" him from the building. Personal experience.

Well he is a slick fucker - he used what I sent him to redo his rentmen ad and incorporated what I told him in his new ad
( nice to know he is benefiting from this) 
Its confusing because he did thank me for the initial general feedback but not the detailed one I sent later . I tell you sex blurs the mind and heart 

I can’t comment but I don’t like the look of his eyes  . Caveat emptor 

By necessity, no doubt. But also a lucky bullet dodged. The problem is it seems like an unnecessary waste of time to message provider only to exchange two or three content-bereft texts…
I’ve been hiring since I was 29. It was my early 30th birthday present to myself. 

wow . I wish i had the guts to hire when i was 33 - i would be a happier person . I only started to hire past 40
Having been though a bad appointment recently I think you should take poor communication as a sign that maybe you should consider a different provider 

Think it just all depends on what the two parties agree on. Some talk before hand on what’s expected sexually, rate, interests, etc; I usually talk to clients prior to meeting. An experienced provider also will always make you feel comfortable. Just have fun 😘

I generally stay where I need to be . If the provider has a problem with getting to me it should be discussed at the start not minutes before the appointment. The conversation could go like this - 200 h plus incidentals / parking etc . The client can then say my rate has free valet parking etc ( mine sometimes does )  or yes that’s fine . 
 
i guess from now on I am going to ask providers if there are add ons 
Some of this is cultural too - I in brazil cab to from is expected 
 
 
 
 
 

I takes a certain kind of talent to be a provider. Not everyone is cut out for it, and not everyone can be good either. Its more than just fucking. 

I don’t care how hot he is . NO 

I meet providers in the lobby period. If its not the same person I ask him to leave . Some providers ask me for the room number : no. 
100 USD? No 
Now I have had providers show up high on something and I can tell - in which case I may give something to cancel but not the the full amount. It’s almost better to dismiss the person completely . 
I am not a weak ass faggot . I am kind tho….

I meet providers in the lobby period. If its not the same person I ask him to leave . Some providers ask me for the room number : no. 
100 USD? No 
Now I have had providers show up high on something and I can tell - in which case I may give something to cancel but not the the full amount. It’s almost better to dismiss the person completely . 
I am not a weak ass faggot . I am kind tho….

I meet providers in the lobby period. If its not the same person I ask him to leave . Some providers ask me for the room number : no. 
100 USD? No 
Now I have had providers show up high on something and I can tell - in which case I may give something to cancel but not the the full amount. It’s almost better to dismiss the person completely . 
I am not a weak ass faggot . I am kind tho….

Let me walk you through this one….
”I’m sorry, I was expecting someone else" (shuts door)
<End scene>
He knows he’s scamming you and you’re hotel doesn’t give a flying fuck that you hire whores…trust me. 
He’s counting on you being a weak ass faggot…..don’t be a weak ass faggot.
If he creates a scene, he will be escorted off the premises by hotel security.
He won’t be the first, or the last. 
In the future, meet first time hires on neutral turf. It’s easier to walk away. 

Oh you gave him a ride and he gave you a ride. How apt 😂

I think clients can definitely be more thoughtful. When I travel to a city, I often look for a hotel that's just outside the downtown area. When I was in Portland in June, I found a really nice motel-like place in East Portland with a parking lot. The neighborhood itself was really cool with lots of great restaurants and breweries and it was fairly accessible to downtown. And it was really easy for the travelling escort to find me and find parking. It worked really well. 

in the United States ( where tipping is expected) , I expect the tip to cover this. Did the dude tip you? Its different if the guy didn't tip, but if its $5 let it slide, especially if you think there is potential for another appointment . 
Note providers : If asked for cab to or from I I generally won't tip. Even more so if its outside the US where its not really customary 

I always tell providers when they are visiting Buffalo to stay by the airport or the Millennium hotel by our biggest mall. Downtown hotels are a pain with parking and cost!  *Wink* *Wink* for you @Jarrod_Uncut

One European escort asked me to do this once. He was shopping in Denver's ritzy shopping area and asked if I could arrange a Lyft or Uber to pick him up and take him to his hotel (where we were going to meet). I got his address and picked him up myself. I was actually a Lyft driver at the time, this shopping area is only maybe 2 miles away and his hotel wasn't far and had parking. 
He was a little surprised that his Lyft driver was also his client, but he thought it was funny and actually gave me a bit of a longer session than I think he normally would've since i got him the ride.
 

Strict rule of mine: no drugs no alcohol (for both me and the client). I never do drugs and am teetotal anyway so it’s no problem to me. Clients sometimes ask if they can use something and the answer is “yes, but I won’t be there”. 
So I never had the situation Jarrod describes. 

I’ve had worries about some clients physical health though, especially in older guys or with disabled clients. I remember I was with one client who’s in his mid seventies. I’d given him a relaxing massage and things had progressed to sex which he wanted in bed so we’d moved there. He’d taken some viagra (he’d told me about this because he wanted to top). Anyway as he’s fucking me doggie and he’s becoming more out of breath so I suggested he lay down and I ride him which he agreed would be better. So I climb on him and start but after a while I can feel his cock soften although I’m sure he hasn’t cum and he seems to be losing consciousness. He’s gone very quiet. So I get off and check he’s ok and he says  he’s feeling unwell and can I get him a drink and his wash bag from the bathroom. I felt his pulse and it’s lowish and his breathing shallow. I’m thinking “oh fuck he’s going to die I’m going to call an ambulance “. Anyway I scramble around in his bathroom for the washbag and imagine that when I go back into his room I’ll find him dead. You start to think weird things and I was thinking how do I get a dead body dressed and what should he wear so that he’s decent when the ambulance arrives…
Fortunately he’s still breathing and conscious when I go back in. So I give him the bag and ask him what to get from it. He says there’s pills in a white container so I open it up and get one out. “This one?”  I say showing it to him. He nods, takes it and has a sip of water. I say to him I’m calling an ambulance but he says no, call his doctor who is apparently a friend of his. He dials the doctor’s number and hands me the phone…
So here I am talking to this client’s doctor telling him the client had taken viagra and had become ill during sex. The doctor tells me not to worry, put his feet up (I’d already done it) and that he’s on his way (apparently he lives in same building!). 2 minutes later, before I’m even dressed (tbh I’d forgotten I was naked) the doctor turns up and checks him over. After about half hour the client is well enough to sit up and chat with us. He apologises to me saying the doctor had told him never to use viagra because of his heart condition.
The doctor says to me as he’s leaving the apartment that this is the third time he’s visited my client in similar circumstances and he never learns. I thanked him and went back to the client in bed who now seems much better. So much so that he asks if we can continue the session with a cuddle etc and he’ll wank me off. I say to him that the whole episode has made me lose my appetite so we just cuddle for a while (which doesn’t stop him trying to get me hard but it’s just not going to happen!!). I tell him that I have to go (which is true, I’ve booked a facial) and that he should rest. The doctor was going to come back in a couple of hours. As I left I called the doctor and told him I was leaving and could he text me later to confirm my client was ok. He said sure, it would be fine and he suggested I top next time (I’m still not sure if he was joking or not).
Honestly I wish I’m still that horny when I’m 75. I’ve never been back to the client though! Im not going through that again. 

Be nice . On the flip side I am sometimes concerned about the provider , esp in certain markets where “Chems” is a so prevalent. I’m thinking London specifically.  
We both need to be responsible people . clients want a good time , providers willing to perform 

So I told him concisely what areas I think he can improve on. We’ll see .
i think if anything that I learned from this experience, I will ask providers if they parTy & chems?  Anyone that answers yes gets an automatic disqualifier.  Also will ask personality questions , and expectations. 

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