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    topunderachiever reacted to SouthOfTheBorder in Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    some Thermas tips 
    1. go early - before it gets crowded.  Thermas is big and spread across 3 floors - it can be disorienting to arrive when filed with providers & clients. Plus - it’s competitive & the locals/regulars will always go for their favorites who are usually the most in-demand. Arriving when it’s crowded puts you at a disadvantage. I like to arrive at opening about 3p and watch as providers/ clients arrive. 
    2. get familiar with the layout - because it is confusing.  I’d recommend a complete walk-through of the entire place at least once to take note of spa facilities & bar (first floor), all showers (first & second floors).  And the one private bathroom on first floor with a douche - the key to that bathroom is at reception and depending on the attendant, they may require you buy an attachment or if you have your own, then a tip to get the key.  Return the key asap as there may be others waiting.
    3. there will always be guys hanging around the reception area & watching the clients locker room.  the game is to snag clients in that area & before they can see the other providers.  don’t fall for it.
    4. like anywhere else - be cautious if anyone offers you anything to ingest. last time I was there, a provider offered candy between sessions - upon inspection it was potent edible marijuana. there are a couple guys there routinely selling things - I’d avoid them & whatever they have.  they are obvious & likely will make an approach at some point. 
    5. the free cabins are fine for 30 minutes & the staff cleans continuously- but that doesn’t mean you’ll always get a fresh cabin.  If you want to make sure it’s clean - then private rooms. Again - getting there early ensures access to private rooms - when it’s crowded you may wait and sometimes they don’t open up at all. 
    6. you dont need ID to get in - leave passports & valuables in your hotel safe.  I carry a set amount of cash, one credit card & phone.  I don’t leave those items in the locker - I carry them with me in a small pack at all times.  you need cash for the guys - everything else can be on credit card.
    7. bring your own condoms & lube.  the condoms provided are the most basic & the lube is almost nonexistent.  the guys appreciate good quality condoms & it makes a big difference.  I like to bring my own antibacterial soap along too - just to be extra careful between sessions.  availability of soap in the showers is not a sure thing.
    8. if smoking bothers you - avoid the area on the second floor where smokers congregate.  for people who smoke, it’s ideal place to engage the guys in a more relaxed environment.
    9. don’t be afraid to say no.  you will be approached many times by guys who may not be your type.  there’s not pressure per se, but they are direct and don’t want to waste time.  they are used to no & it’s just part of the environment.  polite & firm gets the message across.  

    10. you will pay for everything at the end & check your final bill carefully.  if buying drinks for providers, make sure you are clear at that time what you’re offering. an offer for a drink can easily turn into a full meal - and that’s fine if that is what you’re offering.  if spending a few hours there, the charges can add up quickly. 
    11. don’t be afraid to tell the provider exactly what you want - they’re professionals and have seen it all, several times.  no reason to be embarrassed.  If there is a language barrier - use google translate or show them a video of the type of scene you want. a video is easiest way to get the clear message across & I’ve seen several clients do it.

     
     
     
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from blck37 in How to prepare for an outcall appointment as a client   
    I would caution you regarding this tingly desire to impress him.  
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    I would caution you regarding this tingly desire to impress him.  
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    I would caution you regarding this tingly desire to impress him.  
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in How to prepare for an outcall appointment as a client   
    I would caution you regarding this tingly desire to impress him.  
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    I would caution you regarding this tingly desire to impress him.  
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from socurious in What's the standard price in New York for two hours right now?   
    Interesting that we pay $600-$700 for a couple hours of attention.  It's a very expensive orgasm. 
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from jfc in It’s National Viagra Day (and it has a new side effect)   
    I'm curious.  What percentage of men (in the US) over the age of 60 do you think use ED meds regularly for their sexual encounters?  
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from thomas in What's the standard price in New York for two hours right now?   
    Interesting that we pay $600-$700 for a couple hours of attention.  It's a very expensive orgasm. 
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from DWnyc in What's the standard price in New York for two hours right now?   
    Interesting that we pay $600-$700 for a couple hours of attention.  It's a very expensive orgasm. 
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from pubic_assistance in What's the standard price in New York for two hours right now?   
    Interesting that we pay $600-$700 for a couple hours of attention.  It's a very expensive orgasm. 
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from cany10011 in What's the standard price in New York for two hours right now?   
    Interesting that we pay $600-$700 for a couple hours of attention.  It's a very expensive orgasm. 
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from + keroscenefire in I Hired Him Once. It Was Good But Not Great. [Etiquette question]   
    Why would you respond if you haven't changed your mind?  You haven't ignored the text at all.  
    btw, being adverse to conflict is not an excuse for being noncommittal.  Thank you and no thank you have worked splendidly for centuries.  
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from pubic_assistance in I Hired Him Once. It Was Good But Not Great. [Etiquette question]   
    Why would you respond if you haven't changed your mind?  You haven't ignored the text at all.  
    btw, being adverse to conflict is not an excuse for being noncommittal.  Thank you and no thank you have worked splendidly for centuries.  
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from rvwnsd in I Hired Him Once. It Was Good But Not Great. [Etiquette question]   
    Why would you respond if you haven't changed your mind?  You haven't ignored the text at all.  
    btw, being adverse to conflict is not an excuse for being noncommittal.  Thank you and no thank you have worked splendidly for centuries.  
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from EastbayMike in I Hired Him Once. It Was Good But Not Great. [Etiquette question]   
    Why would you respond if you haven't changed your mind?  You haven't ignored the text at all.  
    btw, being adverse to conflict is not an excuse for being noncommittal.  Thank you and no thank you have worked splendidly for centuries.  
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from + nycman in I Hired Him Once. It Was Good But Not Great. [Etiquette question]   
    Why would you respond if you haven't changed your mind?  You haven't ignored the text at all.  
    btw, being adverse to conflict is not an excuse for being noncommittal.  Thank you and no thank you have worked splendidly for centuries.  
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in I Hired Him Once. It Was Good But Not Great. [Etiquette question]   
    Why would you respond if you haven't changed your mind?  You haven't ignored the text at all.  
    btw, being adverse to conflict is not an excuse for being noncommittal.  Thank you and no thank you have worked splendidly for centuries.  
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from MikeBiDude in I Hired Him Once. It Was Good But Not Great. [Etiquette question]   
    Why would you respond if you haven't changed your mind?  You haven't ignored the text at all.  
    btw, being adverse to conflict is not an excuse for being noncommittal.  Thank you and no thank you have worked splendidly for centuries.  
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    topunderachiever got a reaction from + bashful in BelAmi Kris Evans   
    Stunning.  

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    topunderachiever got a reaction from + bashful in BelAmi Kris Evans   
    In his later BelAmi days, I thought he was one of the most beautiful, muscled man ever in porn. 
    His latest instagram posts show while he's definitely gotten bigger over the years, he ascertains a 'natural' approach.  

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    topunderachiever got a reaction from ericwinters in BelAmi Kris Evans   
    In his later BelAmi days, I thought he was one of the most beautiful, muscled man ever in porn. 
    His latest instagram posts show while he's definitely gotten bigger over the years, he ascertains a 'natural' approach.  

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    topunderachiever got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in BelAmi Kris Evans   
    In his later BelAmi days, I thought he was one of the most beautiful, muscled man ever in porn. 
    His latest instagram posts show while he's definitely gotten bigger over the years, he ascertains a 'natural' approach.  

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    If you knew anything about this dude, you'd pay attention to the hype.  
    OpenAI chief executive officer Sam Altman considers Apple Vision Pro the second most impressive tech after the iPhone.
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