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10 hours ago, big-n-tall said:

Also discuss sleeping arrangements. If one or both of you snore, sleeping may be problem. Not that there will be much sleep going on anyway. 😜

 

 I remember one client who I went on numerous trips with always carried earplugs as his SO also snored, it was hilarious, it was like part of his bedtime routine and it worked out well.

I have refused appointments from regulars who want to book their own guy as part of a threesome.

Instead, I offer up a selection of guys and 99/100 times the client will like at least one of them. The benefit to the client is that I record some clips of the other guy (or guys) he likes, I see the client 1-on-1 and I and play the clips for him on my phone so he can "view the goods" before he commits.

Best workaround I've found for "meeting in the middle" and booking threesome sessions. And I only jump through these hoops for established regulars who value this type of service.

I love meeting others in the biz when I have time; firstly in public so I can get an idea of their personality, if they're business-minded as @HoleTrainer and @Jamie21 mentioned and not out to lunch mentally.  I've had to detach from a few toxic personalities (drugs/lifestyle choices) but I've had quite a few providers tag along for duo sessions in the past which is a great bonus of getting to know others in your area.  Beyond that, this whole business is compartmentalized and only let out when I'm not in my other field with mainstream friends/contacts.

If a provider was to contact me now (and some still do), I always make it clear that I'm probably not going to meet them in person due to scheduling issues but always down to chat/support.  

When I first started, I freely put my phone number and got slammed with bullshit from every angle. Yes, there were legit clients interested in meeting (how I cultivated regulars) but lots of random 3;48 AM texts and calls about nothing.

  Fast forward to today, I have a few causal ads up for shits & giggs and while I was more aggressive when I first started, it's refreshing to set up contact parameters on one's own terms.  Perhaps this escort thinks along the same lines?

Maybe he is looking for social media followers, activity on twitter? No idea.  But if he's someone you're into and want to spend time with, sounds like you might have to contact him via those methods. It might be a good way for him to vett clients as well.  If/when you make contact, let us know! 

I'll use voice clips over session messenger if people want to share their voice or hear mine. But that's a rare request.

On 6/25/2021 at 6:44 AM, Pnklemonade said:

you’re phone number, email and approximate location are visible for literally the whole internet, even the site has your sensitive information as ID and banking info, and you care about privacy? don’t get me wrong but the moment you joined the cyberspace you gave up your privacy lol just include some on your private gallery or advertise as a glory hole

Easy there, Cambridge Analytica.  Some people mitigate personal data exposure by:

- not listing a phone number/using burner or any app to obfuscate their personal number. I use Session messenger which beats Telegram for data leaks and has a higher privacy score.
- compartmentalized email for work only (who uses a personal email account for this now anyways?)
- custom VPN service.  I can be anywhere!! For an ad location, the approximate location is a city unless you list your rough area in the city for incalls.
- payment for RM in crypto. From an unused wallet using a reputable mixer service to eliminate tracing of funds.
- among other tools I will leave out of this post.

So yes, some of us do care about privacy 

IMO, the longer the adventure, the more communication is required beforehand. @westernsydit sounds like you guys did the communication thing pretty well.  Would you have changed anything from that specific encounter?

I feel like one overnight packs in enough information about each other to have a good idea about moving forward with repeat encounters or calling it a one-off. Yes, it is a bit of a gamble if you're on the fence, but hey...meeting a stranger and staying the night is always an adventure in some way! 

For traveling regulars at hotels, I pack light as there is always anything available at any time and never had an issue calling up some towels, extra mouthwash, etc. For any new clients?  Pretty much already listed here. @HoleTrainerhas his list like a precise military kit list.  I love it.  One underrated piece of kit is the bt speaker.  Really nice if a client likes music and you're giving a massage, likes a certain genre when the session is "in full effect", etc 

I also use it for age regression. I have a deal with an online "mommy" who essentially licenses out her audio clips while I am serving clients in baby space who want that soothing mommy voice while in the session.

I have also pre-ordered sex toys for clients who cannot or do not want to order themselves. I once ordered a client a fleshjack and his message of thanks was, "Don't worry! I'm not breaking up with you!"  Dead!

For me it's personality. If we both hit it off, I dont even think about a tip. That always sorts itself out if we are both genuinely enjoying ourselves. And from a repeat business POV, it translates to that client becoming a regular.

On 6/12/2021 at 4:22 AM, liubit said:

Some time ago, while I was having lunch with friends at a restaurant, I spotted a young escort (19-20) with whom I had had a very hot session the day before. He was sitting a few tables away with an older couple, and they were finishing their meal. As they walked past my table on their way out he looked at me intensely and I saw in his beautiful eyes that he was terrified that I might make a move. Reading him, I refrained from even batting an eye. He later texted me to thank me: the older couple were his parents, who had no clue about his extra curricular activities. He said it would have been awkward for him to explain who “his old gentleman friend” was. I was happy I followed my instincts and his cue: we had many torrid sessions after this accidental encounter. 

This 100%.  We don't know who might be with the escort/client, who they may be waiting for or who is around that is unaware of that side of his life.  I once had an awkward encounter from one former client in a clothing store who saw me and started asking me if I lived in the area, what I'm doing, etc with no hello or normal type of greeting. He was with his grandkid.  It was awkward. 

5 hours ago, Alexphilly said:

I was meaning to ask someone on this site about starting a website. Any suggestions on getting the website setup and website companies? 

I know I've seen some Wix & Squarespace sites, not sure what their official stance is on this industry as a whole but it has been done.  Wordpress seems to be the go-to however.  I use SS for my mainstream business and it's always been easy to create/maintain.

From past experience with an ads up during pride, it was crickets. As my other posts allude to, one-offs don't make my year, it's regulars. Xmas, holidays, summers and vacations with the regs. Pride is a passing event that might attract the short term horny client, but IMO that's not where the money is for me personally. And frankly, it's more of a detriment to my business as my regs don't partake in Pride or are even remotely visible during that time. 

Without going into any details, I was lucky enough to work in an establishment that attracted clients, so I'd say 85-90% of clients are long time regulars. That's not to say that new clients can't become regulars, but the way I run my business, regulars take priority when it comes to booking time.

If it was something so far from the usual and I wasn't comfortable with it, I'd just decline the booking.  I'd never try to add on a premium for anything, however.

Also, when the session is "beyond the norm", whatever that may entail, from my experience a tip is almost always given and never asked for.  So going back to what you're comfortable with; if you are it will show.  If not, you're wasting both your time on a lackluster encounter that will probably be reflected in a negative review.

Oh god...just brought back all my summer camp memories with those massive A&F quarterly mags!  Without going against the site rules, it was somewhat of an "awakening" lets just say!  

53 minutes ago, dbar123 said:

Don’t do anything...let it go. People have all kinds of things going on in their lives and it’s not an issue that you need to fix. He will contact you when he is ready to engage and if he doesn’t, then find someone better.

This! 

On 5/27/2021 at 5:55 AM, Alexphilly said:

I just have this thing that I don’t send face pix out if a client request them . Im definitely not unattractive but as far as my face pix it’s just for my privacy. In the beginning I would do that , But I started to think some are just collecting to make their own personal portfolio. Some would say they don’t want to travel (incall) X-amount of miles without seeing a face pic but others have no problem doing this .Which I can see that’s valid because I would feel the same way. Sometimes I think it’s hurting my business but most times I just chalk it up . But my face pic is something I just want to hold onto for myself, family and friends. I’ve seen tons of ads where they don’t show their face just their body maybe they have the same problems with face pic request that I do maybe not .  It’s just that I feel if you want a face pic it’s really dipping into my personal life . It’s already enough that I’m naked/ half naked on these Ads also some request more and more pix (right there I know it’s Bs) . Also whenever I switch my Ad to Not available I seem to get more calls/views but when I’m available it’s  so minimal it’s kinda backwards with that. 

Totally agree with this.  Not all of us rely on this as a sole means of earning a living and need to post a face pic on an escort site such as RM.  In the past, I've had the luxury of working in an environment with direct client interaction which has translated to many regular and loyal customers over many years.  Currently I don't and won't ever send a face pic to anyone, period.  It doesn't matter who I will lose, there will always be clients who are willing to hire, face unseen. And let's not forget, different clientele require different SOP's.  Speaking from my own experience, the clients I see surely don't want to share photos of themselves and understand the importance of mutual discretion.

Apologies for the provocative title, but this article is a fascinating and valuable read...

https://bitcoinmagazine.com/culture/check-your-financial-privilege

 

"While Western headlines focus on Coinbase going public, Tesla buying billions of dollars’ worth of Bitcoin and tech bros getting fabulously rich, there is a quiet revolution happening worldwide. Until now, governments and corporations have controlled the rules of money. That is changing.

 

"To learn more, the author spoke to Bitcoin users in Sudan, Nigeria and Ethiopia, three countries with a combined population of 366 million, well in excess of the number of individuals living in the United States."

This guy gets it.

Took part in facilitating this type of rp for a group session. Was fun (and funny!). Dm me for some ideas ?

So I got my new ride, was wondering if anyone on here has one that and loves it as much as I do (unlikely) ?

Onewheel

This saved my feet when I was on my jump course

https://www.physiotherapyroom.com/Pro-Tec-Spiky-Massage-Ball

BEP-20 has various stablecoins such as USDC, USDT, BUSD, etc, on top of a pegged version of the most important assets but the transactions there cost just a few cents. I'd strongly recommend Binance Smartchain for the every-day use.

BEP-2, BEP-20, different use cases, Binance bridge...personally not a fan of Binance whatsoever. I do see massive potential with Cardano for eventual everyday use. POS for those who read an article and think all crypto is POW and bad for the environment (dive deeper), native multi-asset (means no exorbitant tx fees like with ETH), stablecoins, SC's coming (let's go Alonzo!) and on-chain identity. Also a

as a medium of exchange, MasterCard/Visa and Venmo are much more efficient.

You're right! They are more efficient, now. They've upgraded to cater to those who embrace today's technology instead of settling with the aging financial structures of the past that you may be comfortable and accustomed to. So you're saying that these large players are now less efficient in your eyes due to the inclusion of crypto?

https://www.mastercard.com/news/perspectives/2021/why-mastercard-is-bringing-crypto-onto-our-network/

https://usa.visa.com/solutions/crypto.html

https://www.theverge.com/2021/4/20/22392274/venmo-cryptocurrency-support-buy-sell-hold-bitcoin

"Dogecoin lost more than a third of its price on Sunday, after Tesla chief and cryptocurrency supporter Elon Musk called it a 'hustle' during his guest-host spot on the "Saturday Night Live" comedy sketch TV show."

As predicted. I hope it goes to zero and projects with actual fundamentals eat up that marketcap.

I'm so ready for clients in this industry to be ready to move to crypto. On the escort side, a lot of us have been using Bitcoin to pay for our ads for a while already. A client sent me a few hundred dollars worth of Bitcoin as a deposit in 2017 that's worth over 2K now. No complaints on my part!!

That's awesome, make them gains! ?