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If you have any closeby, I've found that some day spas with a couples float bath works well in a pinch. There are some that offer this, mostly are single person. But the couples float experience is essentially a massive bath with 5000lbs of epsom salts, a shower to rinse off and lots of space to have fun. Paid hourly.

IMO, clients that I connect with the easiest/quickest (and vv) are the ones who are like me; free spirited, looking for a fun experience and don't need to spell out the why's to have fun. Sure, the monetary compensation for my time is also a nice thing, but it seems to work itself out once a connection/plans are made. So I guess, if a client is asking why, it's because they may not know enough about you and your personality. But those newer clients who may ask questions, I personally wouldn't dismiss them.

Inversely, if there are questions revolving around my personal life that I don't openly make available and these questions are asked repeatedly, I'll let the client know that I don't share those things.

Not an escort...

 

When escort meet client do you guys start conversation or just go straight to w.e you guys planned with them

I think it really depends on the escort/client relationship and probably changes from client to client. I mean if you just met the provider, depending on your confidence level you may want to talk first to get any nervousness out. Just as I’m sure there are people who go at it the moment the door closes. Not everyone is going to approach the same situation the same way.

 

No escort I encountered (or least I don’t recall) has immediately wanted to go at it the moment I walked in the door. I honestly think the ones I’m meeting the first time, some of them find me intimidating. Some just want to know more details of what I’m in to. The guys I’ve seen regularly tend to be men I have a strong bond or connection with. We tend to catch up and ease into the bedroom fun. Although most greet me with a hug and kiss.

 

Do you guys feel like ur not human and r just sex machine ? Does it offend you or r u ok with it

There are providers who like the thought of being used, sexually, but all in all they want to be respected as people and not just thought of as meat.. as it were. As with anything I’m sure there are outliers. There are guys, both clients and providers alike, who want to be degraded and thought less off because they get some type of gratification out of it or they have esteem issues or any number of reasons why. If it’s a role play scenario, I’m sure there is no offense taken. If it’s because the client is just being an asshole, well that’s another story. Lol!

This ?

For me, I have moved almost exclusively to crypto payments. That said, depending on the amount agreed upon (single hour of time vs overnight, travel, etc) the confirmation time associated with amount is important to keep in mind (depending on the crypto you're transacting with). If payment for an hour is done before using BTC, there would be sufficient confirmation time once the session is over to ensure non-reversal of funds and that the transaction is in fact recorded on-chain.

Things can get complicated when using smart contracts (off chain data oracles that can compute date/times in relation to the payment) but can be programmed so that Bob can pay Alice at 20:45 EST, 15 min before both parties agree the appointment is to end. Overall, it's a nice way to manage expectations on both ends; a reasonable time for payment to be made but not necessarily right away.

For me, long time regulars (like years of knowing eachother) have access to my personal number. I always stress, "you initiate the text/call, and I'll reply". Those who I don't know as well are fine with emailing me to set up a comms uplink on Session. Works for me.

From today's Detroit Free Press:

 

OTTAWA COUNTY - A Grand Haven couple must pay their 42-year-old son back after destroying the son's extensive pornography and sex toy collection, according to a federal judge.

 

Paul and Beth Werking of Grand Haven were sued by their son David Werking after they destroyed his collection of DVDs, VHS tapes and other pornographic materials in 2018. The son estimates the value of his collection to be around $25,000.

 

The lawsuit was filed in federal court in April 2019. In the lawsuit, David Werking claimed his parents illegally destroyed a large amount of pornography that he

had left behind at his parents' house when he moved out at the “request of local law enforcement” in August 2017. The son now lives in Indiana.

 

According to emails between the father and son, the collection of items included 12 moving boxes “full of pornography plus two boxes of sex toys.” David Werking included an itemized list of the destroyed property, including 1,605 individual titles of pornographic DVDs and VHS tapes.

 

There is also a list of at least 50 sex toys and paraphernalia. He originally valued the items to be worth $28,940.72, but said many of the titles are irreplaceable. In later court filings, the items were listed at $25,557.89.

 

I wonder what Thanksgiving was like at their house. ?

Would love to know! ??

It might also be worth mentioning that results from collagen supplements do take time to manifest. I believe the threshold for results is about 3 months with regular consumption. But wholeheartedly support the collagen recco. Also the water intake!

@Luv2play ?? Glad to hear it!

@Daverwr honestly...in these weird times, why the hell not!

Happy Holidays! Were you formerly under another handle here in the forum?? Your 'join date' is this last Sunday!

Hey, yes I was! As @Lucky pointed out. And Happy Holidays to you as well!

Hope everyone is staying healthy!