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On 2/25/2023 at 1:02 PM, glennnnn said:

You are probably right. Originally, 4 of us were going to share but 3 dropped out. I will likely cancel for a refund. I'm too old for gang bangs. Thx for your heads up.

Just check the cancellation window.

37 minutes ago, DBWEHO said:

A hansom guy with manners, and a generosity of spirit. 

lol I know what you mean. I remember travelling abroad and whenever I hears a gentleman say "pardon" instead of "what?" it turns me on a little bit. lol.

2 hours ago, Charlie said:

The first time I had sex with a man, I was shocked to discover that men actually inserted their cocks in one another's asses. I had always assumed that men had sex together by kissing while rubbing against one another. [OK, I was only 17, and had never had sex with anyone of either gender.] It took me awhile to get used to the anal thing, but I took to oral sex easily.

I was similar back in high school. I didn't even know about anal sex since sex ed back when I was in high school didnt' talk about gay sex or anal sex. I still remember watching my first gay porn film at age 18 and that's when I realized men did it from the backside.

As a teenager I had wet dreams making out with guys I had crushes on but for some reason never dreamt about anal sex back then... but I still knew I was gay.

I was fascinated by the 90s Kristen Bjorn films on how those guys just came hands free. I feel that's so rare to see in gay porn nowadays.

10 hours ago, Marc in Calif said:

And never go home with a trick from a bar (or elsewhere) -- let alone three tricks at a time. 

I agree. My concern is by that time the person may be too drunk/drugged to think clearly. 

Thx for sharing. It reminded me of a similar article from the NYPost from a month ago:

https://nypost.com/2022/11/11/roofie-robber-2-killed-in-drugging-attacks-on-gay-men/

Similar to Luv2play, I don't really go out to gay bars nowadays. I live in NYC and the only times I've gone out to gay bars here is when a friend is visiting and wants to check out Stonewall or a piano bar in the city.

They seem to be targeting younger gay men who have $$$. Be careful and always watch your cocktail.

1 hour ago, TorontoDrew said:

I found an article on Reddit but nothing on here. The last two days I've had three very attractive Asian men contact me on Grindr.  One was nice but after three something smells.  Apparently it starts off with looking for a relationship and ends with Crypto investments.  All started talking about money pretty quickly.  Any one else experiencing this?

 

whoa. Haven't experienced this but good to know and kudos for you for smelling a scam. I'm curious if you tell them you don't do crypto, will they leave you alone?

I remember him from American Idol! Such a sweetheart. I recently watched this interview by Jennifer Hudson. I can't believe he's only 31 now!

I recall reading articles before about female influencers/instagrammers being paid lots of $$$ to go to Dubai. https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/weird-news/influencers-being-paid-wealthy-dubai-27429620

so it may be similar with these male models but either for rich females or rich closeted males?

Is this for a hookup or for a relationship/boyfriend?

If it's to hookup, it may just be timing and taking advantage of the opportunity when it comes (i.e. when the hot guy just got dumped and is very horny and just want to hookup with anyone who's giving him attention...) I remember in college I had a friend who was average looking but hooked up with some really hot guys at the clubs. Yes alcohol and some chem stuff were most likely involved but he still hooked up with them.

As for dating/relationship/boyfriend stuff, it may be similar in the straight world where money and citizenship may play a role.

On 10/3/2022 at 6:43 PM, jawjateck said:

Oh, I definitely remember you.....you handsome devil!!! 🤩 I sat next to you at the Saturday dinner. 😉

Yes and I plan to go in April 2023 so if I'm lucky will get to sit next to you again!

Oliver, my sincere condolences. I'm just catching up on here and am shocked to read Epigonos is now with the angels. I attended PS Weekend 2021 and as a newbie, I didn't know anyone yet Epigonos gladly welcomed me to sit in his table. Such a true gentleman.

I still remember him mentioning in this forum that he plans to have the words "I Did It My Way" on his epitaph and I hope it did work out. 

I went in 2021 and had a great time! It was my first time in Palm Springs and I treated it as a long weekend vacation from cold NYC. During the day some folks went for a hike or just stayed in their resorts. There's the Saturday night dinner and then Oliver's pool party. Lots of food and booze. When I went, I felt half the attendees were escorts and the other half were "us old farts" hehe jk (ok maybe it was 40/60 split). I'm not sure if there's an influx but I did notice that some folks had to leave the party early or arrived late due to appointments.

That's true in the straight community too.

I've seen more ads for this movie lately and just rewatched the trailer and I agree it just seems so unrealistic. 

On 9/17/2022 at 12:08 AM, Italiano said:

I think that even if it is totally true that especially in the gay world being younger and physically fit (or better super fit!) is the key for success in dating and being desirable, there are definitely exceptions. 

I am 62, bottom, and even if I consider myself (and am considered) still a decent good looking "mature older" man, of course my face and body are not what they used to be until just a few years ago. And especially because I try to keep my pics updated, my "success" in Grind, Scruff etc is much lower than it used to be too. Also, since the pandemic started the amount of escorts and masseurs I hired (and of my datings) has been quite low.

Nevertheless  I have in NYC two regular FBs, one in his late 30s and a recent one in his late 20s who are very good looking and who from time to time love making love to me and fucking me.

Two weeks ago during another quick work trip to Mexico City I saw again a beautiful Venezuelan man who is now 40, and whom I met for the first time 10 years ago and for the second time 6 years ago in two amazing encounters, and with whom I kept in a sort of regular touch since I met him the first time. When I met him again recently at my hotel I was wondering if opening the door he would have looked at me and run away... It was actually the best of our 3 encounters! And during the past year I also saw two masseurs who clearly enjoyed being VERY intimate with me.

Is what happened to me the rule? Do I think that I will be up to a great sex life always? Definitely not, but (so far..) I still have a few bullets to shoot. 🙂

Bottom (pun intended) line is never give things for granted!

That's a good idea to have a few regular FBs and maintain those relationships through the years.

Not sure if I believe that reddit post. Here in the US I thought everyone just had 1 dose or 1/5 dose? Is it possible in other areas of the world to get 2 doses? I heard some places only recommended 2nd dose to those who are HIV+/immunicompromised.

14 hours ago, Luv2play said:

More likely to have got it on the plane. Most airline personnel stay in fairly decent hotels, at least in Canada and Europe. Can't say definitively about the States.

Airplane toilets can be absolutely disgusting.

Given majority of flight attendants are female, then I'd think more females would test positive for monkeypox if indeed he was infected in the plane.

10 hours ago, Luv2play said:

Has the Morgan Library not just undergone a restoration? I've never visited it but would like to having read about it recently.

Yes it just finished a restoration of its exterior.

A flight attendant states he thinks he caught monkeypox from a dirty hotel room or on the plane. He's currently in quarantine in a hotel room in Fort Lauderdale for 3 weeks. Thankfully his airline is paying for the costs and giving him a $50 daily grubhub credit.

6 minutes ago, Tygerscent said:

Oh well… 🤷‍♂️

It's ok. At the time I didn't understand why either but from looking at the faq at the nyc health site https://www1.nyc.gov/assets/doh/downloads/pdf/monkeypox/jynneos-vaccine-faq.pdf, this is what it states:

Can I get the vaccine at the same time as other vaccines?

The JYNNEOS vaccine may be given before, after or at the same time as other vaccines. The exceptions are the Pfizer and Moderna COVID-19 vaccines. People at increased risk of myocarditis (inflammation of the heart), particularly young adult males, might consider waiting four weeks after their JYNNEOS vaccine to get a dose of the Pfizer or Moderna vaccine. However, if vaccination is recommended due to a known exposure to monkeypox, you should get the JYNNEOS vaccine even if you recently got the Pfizer or Moderna vaccine.

Would you hire someone who already had monkeypox and is now completely healed?

Another patient interview. His advise is if you have been exposed, to try your best to get a vaccine.

Here's an interview of the first monkeypox patient in Riverside County, CA.  

I just read this article from a few days ago about the recent Monkeypox deaths in Spain. Both were young, healthy, and not immunocompromised.

"In a report to the World Health Organization (WHO), Dr. Isabel Jado, director of Spain's National Center for Microbiology, outlined details of the two deaths that had occurred in the country, including that they developed encephalitis—a swelling of the brain."

https://www.newsweek.com/monkeypox-deaths-spain-healthy-risk-factors-1730385