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I'm also a fan of the olympics! I still remember watching the 1996 games during summer break while I was in middle school. Love watching athletics and gymnastics.

I hope they'll still host the olympics even without any spectators.

Seems like most if not all examples are comparing celebrities when they were in their 20s/30s versus to how they look now.

traveled Europe in my mid-30's following an itinerary put together by friends, the top two museums during that trip was Van Gogh museum in Amsterdam, the experience was dramatically transformed with the audio guide/tour and Uffizi in Florence, (though I lost count after the thousandth Madonna con bambino)... but as I've aged I find myself returning again and again to the British Museum.

Loved the Van Gogh museum as well! I'll admit I was 20 years old when I visited Amsterdam during study abroad and a friend told my friends and I that some of the paintings may a make more sense if we had a beer or two before going to the museum and he was right! Nowadays when I go to an art museum I prefer to drink a glass of wine or beer before going.

I have the opposite problem. I wish I was older. I’m in my early 30s, but I wish I was in my 40s. I don’t care about looks fading with age. I wish I was more established. With a house, money in the bank, and a more established work history. I remember my twenties being like hell. It’s only now that I feel like my life is starting to plateau and even out. Anytime I have a car problem or emergency I still have to call mom or dad for support or money. It sucks being a millennial. And with the cost of living rising where I live, it’s difficult to be completely independent.

I know what you mean. I'm in my late 30s now and I felt that way back in my early 30s. I hope it gets better for you. For my friends in their early 40s, a good number are more established but some still live paycheck to paycheck or maxing out cards or are unable to keep a stable job. I think part of it may be the industry you work in or the economy or simply luck. It's also taking advantage of the opportunities given to you at the right time (thing is we don't really know until later if we missed an opportunity or took advantage of one.) I feel we hear a lot of the positive stories in life but in reality there are also a lot of depressing stories out there as well. The longer I live the more I realize what Forrest Gump said was indeed true.... life is like a box of chocolates; you never know what you're gonna git.

Hang in there though and enjoy your early 30s!

Some friends joke with me that part of their 401k retirement money is reserved for hiring when they're over 55 yo but I wouldn't be surprised.

When I visited NYC from 2000 to 2005 the Gaiety Theatre was still open. It was possible to see the escort on stage, then talk with him in the side room to see what his personality was like. With escorting sites like rent.men (and the lies that are posted there) one cannot get a feel for the provider's personality.

I went to Gaiety theatre back in 2004 with another gay friend. Looking back I wish we had sat in the front row but we just didn't have the guts nor the dollar bills to stay there. It was cool to meet the strippers afterwards in that side room; kind of like the stage door area outside a Broadway theatre.

When I turned 35 I just remember filling out surveys and I had to bubble in the 35-44 age category instead of the 21-34 or 30-34 and somehow I felt old too. I've found that I tend to feel 'old' when I hangout with friends who are younger than me. When I hangout with friends older than me, I tend to feel 'young'. Not sure if that will help or not. I'm currently 37 and I don't think of myself as old though I may do so in a few years.

As for the weight issue, I'm no help there as my weight tend to goes up and down plus or minus 20 pounds depending on the season. Hang in there bud. I've watched chub porn online and there are guys who look like they weigh 300+ who still get laid from apps and what not!

Is there a gay porn star who looks like Rege?

I saw Justin Owen on my flight to San Diego once several years ago.

Am I the only one who does this? I will see a hot older guy and think to myself, “What a dilf! Hot daddy! Nice silver fox!” Then I realize that he’s probably a decade younger than I am.

From your screenname i thought you might be age 48 (thus thinking 38 is already daddy status?!?) lol then again Max Joseph is age 38 and is a silver fox!

Agree completely. I was hoping to see a sex scene between Benedict and Sir Henry.

Agreed! I thought Sir Henry would get him drunk or something and then make his move. I enjoyed the series but wished there was more gay scenes.

Does anyone remember the movie Breakfast with Scot starring Tom Cavanagh? It's more of a feel-good LGBT related family movie than a holiday flick but there is a heartwarming Christmas scene near the end of the movie that's quite touching.

Daphne? She's the middle child.

Lol true. In promos I always see the 3 Bridgerton adult brothers so I meant to say Benedict Bridgerton.

I wish the middle Bridgerton was gay!

I remember watching it back in the 80s and always wondered why it got canceled. That guy was amazing since there are sooo much more songs nowadays than back in the 80s.

I agree with azdr0710. I think the saying goes 'time in the market' is more important than 'timing the market.'

With the amount of $$ some of these guys are raking in, I wish they would up their production value - lighting, angles, set up some go-pros....

I like how Austin Wolf does his videos. Normally there are 3-4 different angles.

I'm curious which other guys have multiple angles of the same scene on their onlyfans/justforfans/4myfans site.

I know very little about only fans but aren't you really just paying for porn? What's the point when there is so much free porn available?

Yes it is but I think those who use onlyfans are big fans of the model willing to pay him roughly $10/month for new content.

Anybody has ever just get on a bus or train and just go somewhere just to be alone and recharge or just to find yourself. I'm thinking of doing that . I just feel lost lately ?

I walk for at least 45 minutes each morning and evening around the neighborhood and I like it! Nowadays it's nice to see the holiday decorations.

I send holiday cards every year and just sent them today (I know I know... cutting it close). I normally send them before Dec 10th but somehow this year I had a hard time finishing them.

@orville, I think that's why he targeted teenagers or early 20s young male (straight or gay) since they tend to be more naive. Also that area seems to be a student neighborhood plus the rapist looked young and harmless. I do think the men who got lucky were those who didn't accept any drinks from the rapist.

No... honestly a really sensual zoom session in which we could talk through all the sensual elements of a really beautiful massage, from start to finish. Yes, maybe release at the end, but I'm honestly looking for the connection through touch (well, spoken touch...) and the embrace and the kiss... (again, alas, only spoken and eye contact...).

If I were you I'd probably start with masseurs you had connected well in the past and see if they're open to doing/exploring this with you.

I’ve been considering another visit but it seems like he has a strategy.

I'm thinking of going for a visit since I think his pix are amazing but what do you mean by he has a strategy? Feel free to PM me.