KensingtonHomo

I don’t know much about you, but the providers we see are open about their STI history. 
I have friends that speak openly about STI scares. We’ve had a couple of scares but haven’t had one yet. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

I saw him today. He’s absolutely wonderful. His massage was strong, sensual and engaging. He’s very sweet and as far as extras go, they were well incorporated and unique. Some of the massage positions particularly with my legs and butt were novel to me. For me, the best sensual/erotic masseurs manage to seamlessly incorporate the erotic elements into the massage itself. Wagner really excels at that. 
He looks as good or better than his photos. If you like thick, muscular, and furry guys, you’ll love him.
I did 60 minutes but next time I see him, I’ll go for 90. 

So you had this amazing experience and won’t tell us who it is? 😬

DoxyPep use will inevitably result in more antibiotic resistant STI’s. It’s a longtime loser.
Im always surprised at how much pushback I get from people when I insist on condom use.

Thanks for the mention, @BuffaloKyle. Yup, sorry west coast here. I’ll make it to NY state on the road again, possibly NYC. I have a growing interest list for NYC. Anyone here with an interest, PM me to get on that list, if you have not already.
Yes, I offer body scrub services. It takes about 25-30 mins and I am very thorough. No part of you goes untouched. I reach around your back like a big firm hug to scrub and wash your torso. My clients really enjoy the full body-to-body contact. More close and intimate than your typical Turkish, Thai, or Korean scrubs. It depends on the client and what they seem comfortable with, but sometimes I will kiss his neck or nuzzle his shoulders. I can’t imagine someone like@pubic_assistance being into that, but to each his own. Maybe no body to body touch at all. I read your body language and go from there.
Mutual touch and play is very much welcome, although it’s not the focus of a body scrub. Remember I am using an exfoliant, so you don’t want that getting directly in or around your sensitive bits with any friction. There’s plenty of opportunity for touch before the scrubbing and after the rinse and body wash cycles. Many a client member becomes erect, perhaps again after climaxing during the massage. Some do not at all and that’s fine.
It’s great for your skin and very relaxing - well worth the cost apart from anything erotic or sensual going on. Most clients are so zenned out and extremely relaxed at this point after a massage that it’s not really the vibe to make a hardcore shower play session happen. Keep in mind you’re not paying an appropriate fee for that either, unless you work something out ahead of time. Typically it’s more sensual and relaxing. It’s comforting having a naked man with no inhibitions take care of you from head to toe. You don’t even need to towel yourself off. All you do is stand there in total bliss.
@Wolfer@soloyo215There is space in my shower in San Diego for a body length teak table to give Vichy showers. I am considering offering those in the future. I vacillate between the perks of either a) greater contact standing up, or b) a more relaxing horizontal position for the client. I suppose I could offer both.
@streetfan14 I’ve been wanting to try Marc Dylan for a while now. Even more reason to see him! Sounds great.
@KensingtonHomo your experience is more realistic. There usually isn’t enough time to have a long (free) shower session with a client after a massage. A 5 min or so shower to lather up and rinse off with a short bit of (optional) sensual touching is sufficient. I do this upon request. If a mutual shower is important to anyone here, be sure to request it but please don’t outstay your welcome. Your masseur may have someone booked after you and he can’t spend 30 mins in the shower with you when he really needs to spend that time changing the linens for the next client, responding to inquiries, grabbing a quick bite, or what have you.
Unfortunately clients try to extract more time without paying, basically trying to get the scrub for free, and/or some sex for free. @TravelingLibra has a reasonable attitude by booking the time to include the shower. Not everyone explicitly offers the shower service like I do, but I am sure many would be willing. A few clients hire me just for the scrub! Best to communicate your desires and expectations so your masseur can meet your needs. 
@Thelatin good for you if you’re paying for a massage and getting shower sex for free. Maybe that’s not what you meant, but I just want to bring up the point anyhow. It’s a different story when you’re paying for escort service. I often shower with my clients after sexual play, or as part of the main event. I at least offer a shower. We can continue play in the shower or simply have a relaxing unrushed time together getting cleaned up and continuing our touch, conversation, and connection. I like these. It’s generally built into the time the client is hiring, but not always. If I have time to go over, I do. I offer combo spa/escort sessions as well, so our time together can be more fluid, and go with the flow between all the activities.

I just did this for the first time with a provider I see pretty regularly. It was post-massage and his suggestion. It wasn't super involved but we did wash each other, which was nice. 

I just did this for the first time with a provider I see pretty regularly. It was post-massage and his suggestion. It wasn't super involved but we did wash each other, which was nice. 

I have been with gay men (providers and not) who were mechanical in bed and bi guys who were great in bed and vice versa. 

Yeah… I’d have canceled too. 

When is the appointment? If you're giving 24 hours notice or more, there's nothing for them to get the claws out about. 

Yeah… I’d have canceled too. 

Yeah… I’d have canceled too. 

Yeah agree lesson learnt. Me not liking confrontation also plays part in that.
Told the first guy what i felt next morning, he apologises and wish that i had said something then so he can fix the situation. It was awkward conversation. But hey he did well in the 3s that occur week after and i am seeing him again in 2 weeks time for a 3days trip.

It sounds as if you just randomly put together two escorts and it didn't work out for you.
Learn from this.  Find an escort who has a second he works well with.  Don't just throw two strangers together and expect that it's going to work out in your favor.
Also, when it's not working out, don't exacerbate being the odd man out.  Ask one or both of them to leave.
No, you cannot demand them to pay attention to you, but you can end things and save yourself the stress.

Left feeling like the third guy throughout a 3s with 2 escorts who were so into each other. I book the first guy for an overnight and the second guy for 2h; so there was a lot of fucking and resting in between. They did their job well in so far the actual fucking goes. But i cant help feel like a random meat bag/ hole that was there to just be fucked - its not a good feeling. They would:
> pull each other for french kiss throughout the session; and only give me lips peck now and then and only if I initiate first. There was a moment where they are deep eating each other face with hands on each other whilst i was standing next to them doing nothing, i just stand there like some statue. None of them even put their hands on me. They only stop after i move to sit on the bed.
> pull each other for a cuddle and caressing each other during resting on bed; whilst i would be left aside. Was so awkward for me I often just go stand beside the bed or sit on sofa or went to toilet or sit on bed facing them cuddling
> suggest to take a rest or smoke; then whenever i did they would then make out in front of me. They would fuck me like a machine (no passion) but they would make love with passion so hot that i feel wrong just by being in the room - so i went to toilet often lol
Whilst I am aware that I cant demand attraction from them, i would prefer them to not do it in front of me and on my dime.
To top it off, the first guy finish earlier than agreed time (finish at the same time as the second guy). Perhaps to move to somewhere more private.

15 minutes in with no prompting from me, he starts caressing my head with his big erection while I'm face down in the face cradle. Surprised, I lift up my head and he starts rubbing the head of his dick on my cheeks. When I go to put it in my mouth,  he recoils and says "ay papi,  that's extra!" I got up off the table,  dressed, and paid half what we agreed to thinking i was being generous since I wasn't even there half of the agreed to time.  He was pissed but so was I. 

BFE is different for everyone, so it's key to talk about what expectations are (if there are any).
I'm currently in a two-week BFE on a small ship through Canada.  The key is to make sure things feel natural, in-the-moment and easy.  It's not just about sex.  It's about an entire experience starting from the time you wake up to the time you go to sleep.
A good escort is going to see verbal and non-verbal cues. 

Although a decent BFE is described above, it's so overused by escorts that there's no guarantee what will happen. Especially with the younger escorts who think they're too sexy for most people. 

He'll join you for Christmas dinner with the family, but in return you'll have to deal with his family as well.  And when the paid session is over, he'll also want custody of the dog. 🐶

Yeah… I’d have canceled too. 

I have been with gay men (providers and not) who were mechanical in bed and bi guys who were great in bed and vice versa. 

Yeah… I’d have canceled too. 

Yeah… I’d have canceled too. 

When is the appointment? If you're giving 24 hours notice or more, there's nothing for them to get the claws out about.