KensingtonHomo

With a couple of exceptions my great experiences have bern with providers who are not in their 20s and looks wise probably a 7-8, some less pretty but nice bodies. 
 
So the person who wrote about Conner being kind, fun, good at sex, are all pluses to me. 
 
We hired a guy this weekend who will now be a repeat. He’s in fine shape, a bit skinny perhaps, not very muscular. BUT he was both proficient at all kinds of sex, clearly enjoyed it as a pastime, and enjoyed it with us. To me that is far worth the coins than a pretty face or Adonis like body. 

Just found this thread and other Conner threads and had to thow my cents in. Yes, he's pricey but I want to say that it's pretty much worth it, for a "bundle" of reasons:
He has a great, perhaps not perfect body, and a great big lovely cock. He has a great, perhaps not perfect face, eyes and smile. He has a great, if not perfect personality (like actually) and is sweet and kind and not a clockwatcher, and you can depend on him not to dip out on any of those attributes for your 400 bones.
Perhaps 350 would be a a more "Acceptable" price for a non-adonis, but adonises can be idiots who are terrible at sex. He is neither of those things, so think of it as him asking for a gratuity in advance, which is a bit cocky but I do not think you're being cheated.

None of the provider profile sites are allowed to legally post their rates here in the states~ The states also sensor what you are allowed to write with regard to specific words that might be construed as prostitution or sexual solicitation. They also can sensor what type of image and video content you are allowed to post~ Some states have rigid pornography laws, (sales, purchase, possession). Other states target providers other ways~ At one time, NYC imposed a law saying they could use the number of condoms in your possession as evidence that you were committing various crimes~ I think that may have changed around 2013.
 I post my rates but, only on my euro profile and it’s only visible outside of the states~ 
 Otherwise, people have to contact the provider and have a chat~ 
 
 

It’s because after SESTA and FOSTA were passed in 2018, rentmen took ads off the site in the US, to try to rid themselves of liability. Some other things changed too. If you try to put them in your profile they’ll edit them out. It’s not up to us. 

I live in Brooklyn and wish there were more masseurs in the area. I've gone to Bushwick and Bed Stuy a few times to see guys there, but I do drive when I do. 

The cafeteria plan is in poor taste~ 

I charge one single amount according to my rate schedule whether one Client is involved or two… or three… or four… I mean it only makes sense and is fair~ I would not be charging extra if the Client brought in another Escort or two or three or four~ 
 If the situation is where I’m in session with one Client and then go off afterwords directly to play with the second separately, those are separate sessions and therefore separate charges~ 

in my experience of threesomes, both with providers and with other guys, a single person is not doing all the work. That's why the doubling of the price seems off to me. 
I know some providers who charge $200 first hour/$150 second. Again, that makes sense to me because it's a discount for more time when the provider has already prepared for the date and traveled. 
In our case, we're less likely to rehire someone who charges double - the exceptions being for massage as @Jamie21 pointed out because it is actually twice the work. 

I’m talking about raw data. You’re selecting data that suits your misleading argument, and ignoring a 16% increase in all case death during a year in which COVID was the third leading cause. 
 
And heart disease and cancer account for hundreds of distinct diseases. If we combined infectious disease deaths overall, it would be third even without COVID. 

I work in public health and a lot of what you're saying here is technically true but very misleading. Vaccines do not necessarily prevent you from getting SARS-COV-2 into your body, but for most people (pre-Omicron) it prevented the progression to disease. Now, Omicron is evading the vaccines to some extent - though boosted people seem to fare better - but it's also limiting spread to some extent. 
But my main gripe is the focus on ALL causes death rate for 2021 is post-vaccine, and still within a time frame within the US where people were not commuting, not necessarily going out as much, flu was down. 
However, all cause mortality for 2020 pre-vaccine, height of the pandemic, was UP 15.9%. Without vaccines, the rate in 2021 would likely be significantly higher than it has been. 
https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/70/wr/mm7014e1.htm

If it’s a ‘non standard’ request, as in they want a bespoke session, then yes fine ask for what you want and get the provider to quote you. But I don’t discount or negotiate my rates and all the other providers I know have the same policy. I get clients come back and say “any special rates for students?” or “it’s my birthday…any discount?” or the best one is “I’m really hot so can I get a better price?” the answer is always the same “no, this is the price”. Got to admire the cheek though! 

I feel like the normal rate plus 20% -30% would be normal. I think it’s best always to discuss with the provider what page you’re both on to meet in the middle. 

I work in public health and a lot of what you're saying here is technically true but very misleading. Vaccines do not necessarily prevent you from getting SARS-COV-2 into your body, but for most people (pre-Omicron) it prevented the progression to disease. Now, Omicron is evading the vaccines to some extent - though boosted people seem to fare better - but it's also limiting spread to some extent. 
But my main gripe is the focus on ALL causes death rate for 2021 is post-vaccine, and still within a time frame within the US where people were not commuting, not necessarily going out as much, flu was down. 
However, all cause mortality for 2020 pre-vaccine, height of the pandemic, was UP 15.9%. Without vaccines, the rate in 2021 would likely be significantly higher than it has been. 
https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/70/wr/mm7014e1.htm

He’s vaccinated and boosted as am I. So it didn’t come up. 

He was great. Exactly as I remembered. He said he's not planning to run his ads all the time but if you've been a previous client, keep his number. I know I will. 

I also saw him on 12/18 and had similar experience as KensingtonHomo. 
It was my 1st time with him and all the previous reviews were on point. He will definitely be one of my regulars when I travel to NYC. It was like looking at a classical Greek statue come to life—with a lot more below than the typical marble statues I’ve seen. 😄

I never used to bother with the flu vaccine but I did get it last year because of the pandemic…why risk it when the hospital might be full? So I got vaccinated and had the Covid vaccinations too. It’s inevitable I’ll catch Covid eventually I guess but I don’t want to end up taking up a hospital bed. Those medical people could do without me in their way, I’d be irritable in hospital. 
However since I started massage/sex work I noticed I don’t get so many colds and coughs etc. it’s extremely rare to be sick. My health has been great. I think the regular close exposure to lots of different people boosts my immune system.
Or is it a side effect of Prep? Or from just being less stressed because I’m not working full time in an office job where I have to metaphorically kiss ass all day rather than literally kissing ass for pleasure as I do now 🙂 . Who knows? All I do know is that sex work is good for my mental and physical health. 

Discussion of escorts and things rising is, I would hope, quite normal. Start getting worried when things don’t go up. 

When I was in my early 40s I went to a strip show after work and one of the dancers hit me up for a private. I wasn't really looking and therefore didn't have much cash on me. I asked how much and said I only have about $80 in my pocket. He said "that will get you a sample ". 😊 I agreed and followed him to a neighboring hotel room. My "sample" lasted for about two hours and several ejaculations from both of us. Having been dressed in a suit, this young fellow didn't realize I was still pretty ripped and and great shape for my age. This, along with my moves in the bedroom appear to have been a pleasant surprise as he commented afterwards that "he should PAY ME for the hot time ". Being a gentleman I of course still emptied my pockets of cash as this WAS still his career...and I did agree to pay him . Went back once again and he offered to go home with me for free that time.

Ive had a few clients where I thought "Damn this guy is so special im sure people would pay good money to hire HIM!" But I would never tell them that! 

There’s a legitimate reason for it where prostitution is illegal. It’s a loophole…. “I’m not selling sex, I’m selling my time”. What happens during that time is not the product and is done voluntarily without cost (hence no menu pricing). Therefore it’s not prostitution. 
Fortunately where I work it’s legal, so menu pricing is fine. Having said that I find too much menu is a distraction and annoying. The main thing I charge extra for is to bottom because of the preparation. Otherwise it’s all included. Who wants to have an exchange like this during a session? “May I rim you?” “Yes, it’s £20, just slide your credit card between the cheeks of my ass and eat away”. Not ideal (although I do wish my card reader was an ass shape 🙂). 

But why do I read everywhere that these professionals are strictly paid for their time only?  

I saw a couple recently. They came together but watched each other with me. So it was like a sequential session and I charged my normal rate based on two separate sessions. I did wonder if they would definitely just watch or join in but no, they just watched each other with me. An interesting dynamic.
As I do massage mainly then it’s virtually impossible for me to massage two guys at once. I’ve done tandems (2 tables, a masseur on each one) and the rate for that is same as single massage (time based).
If it’s an escort booking then I’ve never been hired by a couple but the rate would be by normal hourly escort rate plus 50%. That said, I am sometimes hired by couples who want the wife to be massaged etc while the husband watches. The rate for those sessions depends on what they want because it’s usually bespoke. Female clients are much more work than male. 

I didn't want to say it but... 

I didn't want to say it but...