KensingtonHomo

A preference is not an aversion. Preference is “a greater liking for one alternative over another or others.” I prefer men who are clean shaven but I also find some men with facial hair attractive and the  presence of well groomed facial hair would not deter me from a guy. 
Aversion is a strong dislike or disinclination. I have an aversion to men with very long, unkempt beards. I do not find them attractive, even if they are otherwise handsome. 
Another non-age example is I prefer men with chest hair but I also find smooth guys attractive. But I have an aversion to men who shave their bodies because I find it very uncomfortable to have sex with someone who has stubble all over their body. 
Generally, I prefer men who are taller than me but I’m not averse to men who are shorter than me if I otherwise find them attractive. 

My view is that people should have an open mind and not be so fixed. Those who seem to have their preferences and attack those who differ in their preferences aren't really being as funny as they think. That's where people intervene to either educate or set boundaries. People sometimes just repeat and regurgitate without much thought.
When it comes to me, my saying is "you get old if you're lucky", but heart, outlook and even looks can stay fresh. The most dominant factors for me to decide hooking up or hiring can be shallow and that's ok, like having a six pack, but I also look for educated guys. I look for providers who are not married/don't have a boyfriend (the providers who are married/in a relationship were always cold and distant). I look for providers who offer a satisfaction guarantee, so they're confident on what they're doing, so I can care much about price, I have a bit more confidence it'll be time well-spent.
Respect everyone and be nice.

LOL—the guy who ridicules anyone who isn't extremely fit and 25 saying I'm being "prejudicial" is the funniest thing I've read all week. Thanks for the laugh. 
Again, we're not talking about a preference. We're talking about people who are either averse or completely uninterested in people their own age. Whatever someone thinks about guys in their 60s or 70s is what he thinks about himself. 

I read the reviews on their profile, looking for consistency and checking if the people leaving the reviews are legit. For example, have they reviewed other providers? If they have a link to their socials, I'll take a look at those as well. Then, I'll search for them on here and consider those accounts. 
I'm really looking for an overall picture that is consistent. 
I'm not really worried about danger, particularly if the provider has a decent history and shows his face, gives me his phone number, etc. From there, I ask questions to get a sense if it's a fit. 
Honestly, I think Grindr might be more risky. 

Having seen Wagner recently, I think @edinbrooklyn means he’s kinder and sweeter than his muscular, tattooed rough appearance. 

I don’t think there’s any sociological evidence to support this point of view. Arguably it’s the opposite. 
The sex work and workers who are targeted by law enforcement are usually poor or working in marginalized communities. The former president of the US is on trial for paying off Stormy Daniels to keep their transaction a secret. Trump and his ilk employ sex workers all the time with zero accountability.
Legalization would end the harm that occurs to sex workers due to criminalization, recognize that people have been paying for sex and companionship since civilization, and allow law enforcement to focus on people being trafficked. 

This is a terrible analogy. First, lots of queer men from every generation have raised children. Several of my friends (Gen Xers) have children, biological, step and adopted. Second, younger people in a marginalized community should be grateful to their forbearers. Should African Americans take MLK for granted? 
Third, me and most of my friends are very grateful to our parents for what they did for us. Sure, we had bratty moments as teenagers but as an adult - whether you're a parent or not - you realize how much your parent(s) provided you with love, security, mentoring, etc. 
Lastly. as a non-parent, I see a lot of parents in my generation doing an absolutely shit job and raising little entitled narcissists. That's not "natural." That's just bad parenting. 

I don’t think there’s any sociological evidence to support this point of view. Arguably it’s the opposite. 
The sex work and workers who are targeted by law enforcement are usually poor or working in marginalized communities. The former president of the US is on trial for paying off Stormy Daniels to keep their transaction a secret. Trump and his ilk employ sex workers all the time with zero accountability.
Legalization would end the harm that occurs to sex workers due to criminalization, recognize that people have been paying for sex and companionship since civilization, and allow law enforcement to focus on people being trafficked. 

I don’t think there’s any sociological evidence to support this point of view. Arguably it’s the opposite. 
The sex work and workers who are targeted by law enforcement are usually poor or working in marginalized communities. The former president of the US is on trial for paying off Stormy Daniels to keep their transaction a secret. Trump and his ilk employ sex workers all the time with zero accountability.
Legalization would end the harm that occurs to sex workers due to criminalization, recognize that people have been paying for sex and companionship since civilization, and allow law enforcement to focus on people being trafficked. 

He texted me a couple of weeks after we met saying he'd tested positive for an STI. I thought that spoke highly of him, as he could have kept it to himself. We'd only met once and for all he knew I could have bashed him over it. It turned out I was negative for the STI but I really appreciated his honesty and care for a client. 

No thanks. I’d rather people have bodily autonomy. 

I was not in my 20s in the 70s but I was very grateful to my predecessors who fought for that first nondiscrimination laws, who founded GMHC and ACT UP, who created and entire culture and when I was in high school and college were bearing the brunt of the AIDS crisis.
 
Honestly, it’s even more disrespectful for young queers today to lack appreciation when the information is so readily available. And the rising tide of anti-queer fascism is cutting our rights off left and right in many states. So the kids should wake up before they find themselves in a pre-Stonewall situation just like we’re in a post-Roe situation. 

Well … yes … I was agreeing with you  

From the ad:
Hair color:
Dark blond
You wouldn’t happen to be blonde as well, would you?

I read his reviews on hunqz.com , and have been chatting with him. I was about to set up a date for tomorrow when I asked for dick pics. He sent pics of a beautiful cut dick, when his profile clearly says uncut. I asked him about it and he said, "my dick looks uncut when it gets hard." I'm not gonna meet up with him.

@pubic_assistance I didn't want to bring this up again, but based on past posts, you have no place in the gay community, and definitely no right to speak about it. Right now, your actions (if not substance) are pretty much the same as a closeted gay guy whose only contact with the community is when you commit adultery on your wife.
I don't know of many gays who feel "owed" by young people...except by not being treated badly. I don't ask for any recognition, but I do ask not to be insulted by young gays simply for walking into a room while being old.
And I don't know how you raised your kids, but as a financially-secure adult with elderly parents, I gladly perform my filial duties, whether it's visiting them, helping them out, or just being there for them. I'm capable of gratitude.

I was not in my 20s in the 70s but I was very grateful to my predecessors who fought for that first nondiscrimination laws, who founded GMHC and ACT UP, who created and entire culture and when I was in high school and college were bearing the brunt of the AIDS crisis.
 
Honestly, it’s even more disrespectful for young queers today to lack appreciation when the information is so readily available. And the rising tide of anti-queer fascism is cutting our rights off left and right in many states. So the kids should wake up before they find themselves in a pre-Stonewall situation just like we’re in a post-Roe situation. 

This is a terrible analogy. First, lots of queer men from every generation have raised children. Several of my friends (Gen Xers) have children, biological, step and adopted. Second, younger people in a marginalized community should be grateful to their forbearers. Should African Americans take MLK for granted? 
Third, me and most of my friends are very grateful to our parents for what they did for us. Sure, we had bratty moments as teenagers but as an adult - whether you're a parent or not - you realize how much your parent(s) provided you with love, security, mentoring, etc. 
Lastly. as a non-parent, I see a lot of parents in my generation doing an absolutely shit job and raising little entitled narcissists. That's not "natural." That's just bad parenting. 

3) One picture, headless
4) Barebones description
I’m often hesitant to hire even bi guys, so straight is a big 🚩 for me.

I’ve see this guy a few times. Here are my thoughts. If you’re looking for a guy that can give you different speeds and variety…this is the guy. He takes this seriously. He delivers. Many tops just think they need to pound a bottom in and they’ve done their job. If you’re looking for that or more, like passion, intensity, connected sex, and someone that’s reading your vibe…try this guy out.  Understanding what it takes to be a good top is a skill - this boy is skilled. BFE to dom, he gets it all. I’ve had my fair share of tops…this guy delivers.  Dm me. Happy to give details. 

Aaron is The Daddy of all daddies!  He has a body that is fit, hot and knows how to work it.  He not only provides private massages.  He runs all types of classes under "Daddy Retreat" held at either of 2 locations on 14th Street between 6 & 7th Aves and on 32nd Street near Penn Station.  You can't go wrong with Aaron.  A fun loving nice guy as well.  

Having seen Wagner recently, I think @edinbrooklyn means he’s kinder and sweeter than his muscular, tattooed rough appearance. 

Had a similar negative experience with him.
We were supposed to meet for 2 hours, but was at his place for 45 mins when it came down to fucking me, he couldn't get hard.  He told me he had jacked off earlier in the day and then told me I was too tight and that was another reason he couldn't get fully hard.  
Paid $800 for a terrible experience so don't waste your time. 

Being an escort can be very stressful with so many people texting you to play games. Out of 50 interactions I have, 40 are of people trying to steal my time asking for nudes or simply trying to sext (many see us as a fantasy and like to do the latter). It's really frustrating at times.

Met him in NYC and he was kinda unfriendly in communication and then fell asleep during session (at 7pm)
reached out in SF for a redo.  He was again unenthusiastic in text and then quoted me $500 (when he was only $400 in nyc).  
 
Me: i appreciate your hustle but that price hike is not cool
him: That's standard price in nyc my friend
 
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