KensingtonHomo

On 1/29/2024 at 1:03 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Which is only fair.

Dealing with the general public and gentlemen walking in your door with no idea how repulsive they may be...you SHOULD have some ability as a provider to maintain some limits about how much poor personal hygiene and health you are willing to overlook.

I agree with you on hygiene but I wonder if that has anything to do with vague marketing. Looking through Rentmen, some guys are very explicit. If a provider wants to curate their clientele for escort purposes, they should stick to Rentmasseur and then let those they're interested in know they're open to more. 

We're in a similar spot. While I understand inflation and don't begrudge providers making what they can, the jump from $300-$350 an hour to $400-$500 an hour in the past 12-18 months has slowed our hiring. We're not rich, so hiring is an indulgence. Plus, as a couple, we prefer to hire for at least two hours, so we're looking at $700-$800 for a single session. So I find we're much choosier with a new provider and seeing the guys we like when our schedules all line up, which is another obstacle. 

2 minutes ago, GlamNYC said:

(1) are you asian? (2) did you see him in the last couple of weeks? 

I am not Asian. And while I haven't hired him in the past few weeks, we have interacted. 

I'm not doubting your experience. I've had bad experiences with escorts that other people think are amazing. It's just 180 degrees from my own, so I'm curious why Erik would behave this way. 

9 hours ago, GlamNYC said:

If you are his type, I guess. If you aren’t, it’s a different story. So, “Asian, fats, and fems,” IMHO are better off finding another provider. 

I don't want to invalidate your experience but I've seen Erik many times, and I'm a very femme person and was about 60 lbs overweight at that time. So it seems unlikely that if he found you unattractive and your interaction with him left you with low self-esteem, it was because you are femme or overweight. 

Either way, I'm sorry you had this experience. 

On 1/22/2024 at 2:36 PM, BenjaminNicholas said:

For me, it would be very easy considering he's built like a 15yo teenager and not a man.

As soon as he's got the ass and legs to fill out those Versace briefs, I'm game.

I thought the same thing, but people are into twinks. Let's not yuck each other's yum. 

50 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

It’s hard to describe but fascinating too because the impact on the market is palpable. 

Is the impact that people are charging more? There was such variety in what you're paying, I can't tell. 

Maybe he has a sugar daddy. Someone paid for all that "cunty" face work 

Yeah, he has an OnlyFans. I don't know if he sees clients but he's definitely making porn. 

As stated above, most OF guys are in their 20s who generally won't interest us. And, yes, many of them would instead create content with other 20-somethings than see middle-aged men. 

5 hours ago, GlamNYC said:

Sounds hot! What’s his rate? 

$400 

On a serious note, in almost five year of pursuing this hobby - using primarily Rent.men in at least four countries - we've never had a legal issue. We do what @pubic_assistance and @BuffaloKyle have suggested, which is stick guys who are well-reviewed and have been mentioned on here. Occasionally, someone will not have been discussed here, but if they have what seems like a lot of legitimate reviews on RM, we'll go ahead. We've had a couple of duds but overall our experiences have been good to great. 

56 minutes ago, Shawn Monroe said:

This is probably one of those situations where I’ll get talked over and we probably won’t reach a common ground so I’ll see myself out. 

Yeah, why would anyone want a provider's opinion on this? I mean, assuming you - a person who does sex work - would know more than a client, no matter who prolific, is just absurd. 😉

I reached out to him a while ago and I don't believe he ever responded. 

I have yet to meet him. It's funny because when I first looked at his prices ($300/hour) 2-3 years ago, it seemed so pricey. Now that's like the opening bid, so maybe I should reconsider. 

21 hours ago, Shawn Monroe said:

someone messaged me and said “great ad, but why has it been over a year since you’ve had a review?” 

Besides the health issues, reviews are SIGNIFICANTLY hard to come by unless you literally beg for them. So they’re not the be all end all. 

This is why I try to leave a review for everyone we see, unless it was a negative experience because I'm not going to be dishonest. 

I don't know. I usually book and then confirm the day of. But given that you've seen this person twice before, I feel like if they had a concern, they should have reached out to confirm with you. Most professionals will call to confirm an appointment that day before. 

8 hours ago, PileDriver said:

Just had a great experience with a 45 year old provider. a life affirming experience. thank you to marcus.

Is it Marcus_A from RM? 

Yeah. Seems like he’s trying to monetize his sex life. Get paid for fucking hot guys. 

Why not start an OnlyFans? 

3 hours ago, blck37 said:

Same here. As a general rule, i dont tip for reasons above unless (i) for wow session, i would tip to round-up the payable or $50 (whichever more convenient) or (ii) if said provider provides extra-mile (eg arranging 3some) or I simply like that person that much, would tip up to more (either in % or $, again whichever more convenient).

Same here. I don’t usually tip bc they’ve set their price. If they go above and beyond or are not a clock watcher, I’ll tip. 
 

We had an amazing time with Seamus Sunday and I gave him an extra $50. 

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I don't find MONSIEUR_HUNG to be the least bit attractive. I don't know if I would fuck him if he paid ME !   That's how little I am attracted to the fellow.

Rainer, I would definitely do, but I also wouldn't describe his look as "classically handsome".

Always interesting when we agree. The Monsieur is not for me either. Rainer is closer but I'm not sure he's quite classically handsome.

Marcus is classically handsome if you’re into Spanish guys. 

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He’ll send face pics if you text him. 

PS: He’s not from Ireland so don’t expect a brogue. 

Seamus is simply great. My husband and I saw him tonight; he was excellent in every aspect. He was kind and engaging in conversation, took control while respecting boundaries, and is one of the best tops we've met. Seamus' body is even hotter in person with a large, beautiful cock. And he's a great kisser. We did a little bit of restraint with both cuffs and just his hands, which was hot. We will definitely see him again and probably book more time. 

On 1/2/2024 at 10:37 PM, GCMan said:

I've never met him - but he does state this in his profile which could explain some things: "PSAs - neurodivergent here, so I can be a little quirky/direct at times."

Having met him the once, this makes sense to me. He didn't read social cues particularly well. BUT, there are a lot of millenials and Gen Zers who self-diagnose as ND, in part - I think - because of poor socialization by their parents. 

On 1/5/2024 at 10:01 PM, Shawn Monroe said:

if you’re working in the nude, some clients can take that as an invitation to try to get YOU off for their entire appointment instead of enjoying their massage. 

I suspect this is common thinking among providers. Most that I go to start in their underwear and them dropping it is the invitation to MT.