KensingtonHomo

I'd check his ID. Still looks like jail bait.

I had been doing that but then other guys were like "you should include the tip", so I've started doing that.

It seems like a Millenial/Gen Z thing - I think they believe it's sexy.

One of my current favorite providers is bi. We've had no issues with him being passionate or kissing. I do think you run a bigger risk with bi guys having more limits than a gay guy, but I also agree with others that perhaps you've been unlucky.

But COVID hasn't made STIs more plentiful or different. Gonorrhea is indeed becoming treatment-resistant, which is a concern, but if you're working with guys who are careful about their health, you're probably going to be fine. We've had two instances in the past five years where a provider contacted us to say they tested positive for an STI. So we went and got tested. Neither time did we have the STI. Now, I'm an anxious person, so I understand that fear is irrational, but I think the odds are in your favor.

So you had this amazing experience and won’t tell us who it is? 😬

I don’t know much about you, but the providers we see are open about their STI history. I have friends that speak openly about STI scares. We’ve had a couple of scares but haven’t had one yet. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

I saw him today. He’s absolutely wonderful. His massage was strong, sensual and engaging. He’s very sweet and as far as extras go, they were well incorporated and unique. Some of the massage positions particularly with my legs and butt were novel to me. For me, the best sensual/erotic masseurs manage to seamlessly incorporate the erotic elements into the massage itself. Wagner really excels at that. He looks as good or better than his photos. If you like thick, muscular, and furry guys, you’ll love him. I did 60 minutes but next time I see him, I’ll go for 90.

I just did this for the first time with a provider I see pretty regularly. It was post-massage and his suggestion. It wasn't super involved but we did wash each other, which was nice.

Yeah… I’d have canceled too.

He’s not my type but he’s been around a while. Have you searched for previous threads?

I have been with gay men (providers and not) who were mechanical in bed and bi guys who were great in bed and vice versa.

That's more than sufficient time for them to book someone else.

When is the appointment? If you're giving 24 hours notice or more, there's nothing for them to get the claws out about.

Same. I have no idea.

I agree with this. I generally do provide a time or a window especially when I'm traveling. And if the provider isn't available, I move on. But if a provider says they're wide open and then declines one or two times you offer, that's a wrap for me.

We average once a month with escorts and a bit more for massage. And it's a mix of regular guys and then new guys.

Unlike many others who I will not tag or name, I rarely comment on providers’ appearance or desirability. And what I said was he’s not for me. I hope you find the time to call out all the posts saying providers are fat, ugly, old, etc. 🙄

It's funny. This came up with my regular guy yesterday. He said he doesn't escort because he's not able to perform if he's not attracted to the person. And he's had a couple of experiences with crazy clients - like stalker shit - even just doing massage. So he just feels like escorting would increase the chances of dealing with crazy.

In my experience, when you seem the same masseur regularly things progress naturally to the level they're comfortable. My regular guy definitely goes way further now than when I started seeing him three years ago. But we also have lovely chats, and genuine chemistry. But that unfolded over time.

Even if I had unlimited funds, I would not give a 22-year-old thousands of dollars. Not to yuck anyone's yum, but I don't find this kid remotely desirable. If he can get that sum, good for him, but I know plenty of wealthy people who would look askance at the idea that just because they have money, they should throw it at anyone with abs.

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I assume it means they’re open to working and not anything more or less

We see two providers who no longer advertise. In one case, he's busy with filming and collabs but still seeing his existing clients when he can. The other is focused on his day job, but also will still see us when we want. He also lets us know when he leaves or comes back to town due to his day job.

This is hilarious. Twinks as the sine qua non of gay desirability is a fad! I was a twink in the 90s and we were not appreciated. 80-90 percent of guys wanted muscular "Chelsea" boys. Pre-AIDS, the clone with the mustache and hairy chest was the hottest of all. If 1940 in your profile indicates your age, you lived through this and should know that Twinks have been considered hot for about a decade. And in the next 5-10 years, it will be something else. Like @Vegas_Millennial I generally dated older men and my husband is older than me, though we're the same generation. I would not rim or otherwise have sex with someone who was under 30 and smooth. That didn't appeal to me when I was in my 20s and it doesn't now. And I'm not into huge muscles either.