KensingtonHomo

Not to yuck anyone's yum, but... I never liked body odor (pits, crotch), but since I quit smoking 12-13 years ago, my sense of smell is so acute that a guy with what others consider mild musk makes me gag. I similarly cannot handle strong deodorants or anything more than a dab of cologne. I have never understood the appeal of it, particularly as a bottom who takes effort to be very clean and hygienic. 🤷🏻‍♂️

A lot of it depends on the vibe and the provider's level of talkativeness. I use my real first name though I use a Burner number. I will talk about my life in vagaries - travel, family, work - but not mentioning specifics (company name, etc.). I generally do not worry at all about LE or even about being blackmailed, because they have as much, or more, to lose than I do. I also tend to stick with providers who have been in the business a while and are well reviewed, which I think helps. And I also tend toward providers in their 30s and 40s which has usually weeded out a lot of the tweekers.

Does this person have a Rent.men profile?

Many men neglect their skin. I'm 52 and have virtually no wrinkles. People usually guess my age as 40. And it's all due to avoiding the sun, drinking water, and Neutrogena. 🤭

This is very interesting to me. He doesn't look particularly feminine. Perhaps he's shed some of his muscle. I've also heard many drag queens say that "trade" (nominally straight guys who are into sex with feminine males) doesn't really care how "passable" the person is, as long as they're playing that role. I do think it's odd that if he's meeting men from another site that they're reviewing him on RentMasseur. And I'd be a little worried about someone anonymously texting me. Anyway, far too many red flags for me.

Honestly, I think your best bet is referrals. While we don’t hire for multi-day engagements, we’ve met several escorts who would fit your bill. Intelligent, well read, well traveled, interesting conversationalists. And if you are planning for important events or vacations, I think meeting them for dinner first is a good way to gage if he’s what you’re looking for and if you have chemistry.

I had a really fun massage with him a few years back but I'm never in his town. From seeing him on socials, I definitely get the sense he's more of a content creator than a masseur at this point.

Generally Saturday or Sunday. I prefer late afternoon/early evening.

We generally do not pay in advance. We might make a deposit. And we almost always host. We've never had any issues beyond the rare poor performer.

This sounds really predatory and coercive. If you said this about women in front of me, I would tell them to cover their drinks. You’re stating your intention to go into a space where people are drinking, identify people who are “needy” or “broke” and use their drunkenness or precarity to get them to have sex with them? This might be considered premeditated SA in many jurisdictions. Minimally, you’re the embodiment of every horrible thing that the Right Wing says about gay men.

Amen

Not every sexual encounter ends in orgasm. This is more the case as we age. And some of us can orgasm without necessarily ejaculating.

This sounds like many of the friends I had in college who were obsessed with straight men. Most of them are now middle-aged and alone. They never had a significant relationship. The rest of us (straight and gay) met partners, some had kids, and now we're enjoying our success. These guys sometimes find married guys who let them blow them. But that's it. Very sad. I do agree that it can be easy to find straight men who are willing to let you pleasure them. One needs only to have no self-esteem or standards. Or get them very drunk, which is borderline SA. Men don't respect the slutty cheerleader. And comparing oneself favorably to a Jewish collaborator of the Gestapo who may have sent up to 3,000 of her peers to the camps before converting to Christianity and becoming an avowed anti-Semite is wild.

There are 6 guys who look exactly like him at 3 Dollar Bill every weekend. If you mean providers, I can look into it.

Again, you're mistaken. You made a bunch of homophobic comments. I pointed them out. It's not about you "hitting a nerve" or me "coping." I'm a very successful person, in a two-plus-decade relationship with a large family and friends. I just stand up when people are smearing my community. In the future, keep your nasty, homophobic comments to yourself.

This is kind of a unicorn you're looking for - few mature men are hairless. I agree @BonVivant that you should go on Rentmen and use the search filters.

I didn't offer you help, and no nerves were hit. I've long since deconstructed all the anti-queer and misogynistic ideas I grew up with. I hope the same for you.

Internalized homophobia is horrible. May you heal.

JFC

This just demonstrates a complete ignorance of history. There is no such thing as "intrinsic beauty." In heterosexuality, there are certain physical attributes that identify males and females are more likely to be fertile, whereas "blond surfer boy", which dates back to maybe the 1960s.

Are you this escort’s publicist? I don’t hate him. And I certainly do not feel inferior to or threatened by him. You make the mistake most men do, which is assuming that other people share your values, desires and priorities. You find this man attractive. I do not. 😂

I’m shocked. SHOCKED! That you - a person hypercritical of almost everyone’s appearance- was/is the exact type that was universally admired and found attractive in the late 1990. I mean, what are the odds that a blonde white man considers himself the pinnacle of attractiveness? So you benefited from white supremacy and colonialism which exported euro centric beauty ideals? See above comment about colonialism. But I’ve never denied that the majority of people find conventionally attractive people attractive. That’s literally why it’s a convention. it’s you who cannot admit that such conventions are largely manufactured by systemic oppression and marketing. Look at the emaciated status of most A List actresses. They’re trying to look a specific way because of fashion standards even though most straight men do not find extremely thin women attractive. 🤷🏼‍♂️

I regret that I've stumbled into a battle of wits with an unarmed opponent. Have a day!

I don’t think it would deter me. He kind of can’t leave a certain area.

No, not almost everyone else does. That guy would be hard-pressed to elicit interest in many of the NYC clubs outside of the Village or Hell's Kitchen. And who said they were sex trafficked because of their looks?