tenderloin

I'm a real ass connoisseur.  I had just bred a hot latin guy when he deftly maneuvered his ass to my face.  I started rimming and suddenly he gave a gentle push and my own load was in my mouth...the sensation and experience was so insanely hot that I came again on the spot hands-free.  Possibly the height of my sexual experiences

Yes, Grindr probably works for the young and the pretty.  Even when one factors in the aesthetics (I do find there are a small few who are into dads & dadbods), there is still significant filtering for us mature folks to do. In NYC, my guess is that less than 30% of the profiles are actually genuine and viable. As for the rest, we have:
The voyeurs who are only looking to get off virtually, and never intend to actually meet anyone in person. The liars who use inaccurate photos/stats to disguise age, weight, and other characteristics  The scammers who are after your personal info (about five times a day I hear from a pretty Asian guy who asks me "what are you looking for here?" ...sometimes I reply "my glasses") The grifters who are looking for cash, but don't tell you until you've spend 30 minutes chatting with them. The trolls (homophobes) who seem to get off on pranking people ("on my way...in the subway now....") The dudes currently living in Rwanda or Bolivia or Kabluchistan who know that I am the man for them and they want to spend the rest of their lives with me. The brain dead who ask those great questions:
 Q "what are you into?"  A: "read my profile and you will see." 
 Q "how old are you?" A: "read my profile and you will see" 
 Q: "where are you?" A "read my profile....".  Those with "unusual" tastes/preferences: Among the requests I have received are to agree to fuck someone on the subway, force odd objects into someone's rectum, parTy, etc. etc. 


Aside from those folks, the apps are great...  

Yes, Grindr probably works for the young and the pretty.  Even when one factors in the aesthetics (I do find there are a small few who are into dads & dadbods), there is still significant filtering for us mature folks to do. In NYC, my guess is that less than 30% of the profiles are actually genuine and viable. As for the rest, we have:
The voyeurs who are only looking to get off virtually, and never intend to actually meet anyone in person. The liars who use inaccurate photos/stats to disguise age, weight, and other characteristics  The scammers who are after your personal info (about five times a day I hear from a pretty Asian guy who asks me "what are you looking for here?" ...sometimes I reply "my glasses") The grifters who are looking for cash, but don't tell you until you've spend 30 minutes chatting with them. The trolls (homophobes) who seem to get off on pranking people ("on my way...in the subway now....") The dudes currently living in Rwanda or Bolivia or Kabluchistan who know that I am the man for them and they want to spend the rest of their lives with me. The brain dead who ask those great questions:
 Q "what are you into?"  A: "read my profile and you will see." 
 Q "how old are you?" A: "read my profile and you will see" 
 Q: "where are you?" A "read my profile....".  Those with "unusual" tastes/preferences: Among the requests I have received are to agree to fuck someone on the subway, force odd objects into someone's rectum, parTy, etc. etc. 


Aside from those folks, the apps are great...  

It may "work better for the young and pretty" and it may work better In "a big city." But I have a young (27) and very pretty friend here in NYC who says that guys will spend all day LOOKING because there's so much to pick from. (Honestly, I think he does the same). Always searching for greener pastures and never ready to commit to anything until they've exhausted their search. By then they're too tired to fuck.So they go to bed alone 😔

Yes, Grindr probably works for the young and the pretty.  Even when one factors in the aesthetics (I do find there are a small few who are into dads & dadbods), there is still significant filtering for us mature folks to do. In NYC, my guess is that less than 30% of the profiles are actually genuine and viable. As for the rest, we have:
The voyeurs who are only looking to get off virtually, and never intend to actually meet anyone in person. The liars who use inaccurate photos/stats to disguise age, weight, and other characteristics  The scammers who are after your personal info (about five times a day I hear from a pretty Asian guy who asks me "what are you looking for here?" ...sometimes I reply "my glasses") The grifters who are looking for cash, but don't tell you until you've spend 30 minutes chatting with them. The trolls (homophobes) who seem to get off on pranking people ("on my way...in the subway now....") The dudes currently living in Rwanda or Bolivia or Kabluchistan who know that I am the man for them and they want to spend the rest of their lives with me. The brain dead who ask those great questions:
 Q "what are you into?"  A: "read my profile and you will see." 
 Q "how old are you?" A: "read my profile and you will see" 
 Q: "where are you?" A "read my profile....".  Those with "unusual" tastes/preferences: Among the requests I have received are to agree to fuck someone on the subway, force odd objects into someone's rectum, parTy, etc. etc. 


Aside from those folks, the apps are great...  

Yes, Grindr probably works for the young and the pretty.  Even when one factors in the aesthetics (I do find there are a small few who are into dads & dadbods), there is still significant filtering for us mature folks to do. In NYC, my guess is that less than 30% of the profiles are actually genuine and viable. As for the rest, we have:
The voyeurs who are only looking to get off virtually, and never intend to actually meet anyone in person. The liars who use inaccurate photos/stats to disguise age, weight, and other characteristics  The scammers who are after your personal info (about five times a day I hear from a pretty Asian guy who asks me "what are you looking for here?" ...sometimes I reply "my glasses") The grifters who are looking for cash, but don't tell you until you've spend 30 minutes chatting with them. The trolls (homophobes) who seem to get off on pranking people ("on my way...in the subway now....") The dudes currently living in Rwanda or Bolivia or Kabluchistan who know that I am the man for them and they want to spend the rest of their lives with me. The brain dead who ask those great questions:
 Q "what are you into?"  A: "read my profile and you will see." 
 Q "how old are you?" A: "read my profile and you will see" 
 Q: "where are you?" A "read my profile....".  Those with "unusual" tastes/preferences: Among the requests I have received are to agree to fuck someone on the subway, force odd objects into someone's rectum, parTy, etc. etc. 


Aside from those folks, the apps are great...  

Grindr is for the young and handsome/pretty.  It seems to work much better if you're in a big city.  Having said that, it's mostly a waste a time for me.  I am honest in showing my actual body and age and, as others have mentioned, I let other's reach out to me if they are interested.  It very rarely leads to a connection.
I am SO HAPPY, I grew up in an era when there were no smartphones.  The hook-up spots were campus bathrooms, adult bookstores, and backrooms in some of the bars.  No bots in the equation at all.  You saw exactly what you were going to get and they were there for the same reason as you were.   Not nearly the number of games that go on today with the hook-up aps.   Much simpler and more honest IMO.

Hi guys, just need to vent about how horrible Grindr is. 
I recently reinstalled the app and started browsing. Even though I'm a big guy I get a lot of messages and taps. I try my best to get back to everyone and have a real conversation. After a month, I could not hookup with anyone. Many guys chatted me up and even more tap me but it just leads no where. Endless fucking convos asking for more and more pics and it never leads anywhere. Even guys who say they want to meet up RN flake like Kelloggs. I know I'm not everyone's dream man/boy but why contact me in the first place? I don't try and his my body. I make it pretty clear what my body type is and my age.
Is this happening to anyone else?

https://rentmen.eu/HairyXLatino

So I met up with this guy on Saturday.  Meh. 

On the plus side, he is friendly, looks like his pictures, and is a great kisser. 
On the other hand, he promised we would do some flipping, but once in bed he was very resistant to bottoming. When he got into the top bunk, he performed well but after about 4 minutes announced he was cumming.  You know the drill.  three minutes later he was dressing, and with ten mins was heading out the door.  And it feels a little petty to cite this, but add him to the long list of guys who need to learn how to read a tape measure. A nice dick, but not the dimensions advertised.  Par for the course....

 
And to be clear, while I am not Brad Pitt, I'm not bad looking and I'm careful about hygeine, brushed teeth, being friendly and welcoming etc.  On balance I wouldn't recommend this guy unless insta-fuck is your thing. 

https://rentmen.eu/HairyXLatino

So I met up with this guy on Saturday.  Meh. 

On the plus side, he is friendly, looks like his pictures, and is a great kisser. 
On the other hand, he promised we would do some flipping, but once in bed he was very resistant to bottoming. When he got into the top bunk, he performed well but after about 4 minutes announced he was cumming.  You know the drill.  three minutes later he was dressing, and with ten mins was heading out the door.  And it feels a little petty to cite this, but add him to the long list of guys who need to learn how to read a tape measure. A nice dick, but not the dimensions advertised.  Par for the course....

 
And to be clear, while I am not Brad Pitt, I'm not bad looking and I'm careful about hygeine, brushed teeth, being friendly and welcoming etc.  On balance I wouldn't recommend this guy unless insta-fuck is your thing. 

https://rentmen.eu/HairyXLatino

So I met up with this guy on Saturday.  Meh. 

On the plus side, he is friendly, looks like his pictures, and is a great kisser. 
On the other hand, he promised we would do some flipping, but once in bed he was very resistant to bottoming. When he got into the top bunk, he performed well but after about 4 minutes announced he was cumming.  You know the drill.  three minutes later he was dressing, and with ten mins was heading out the door.  And it feels a little petty to cite this, but add him to the long list of guys who need to learn how to read a tape measure. A nice dick, but not the dimensions advertised.  Par for the course....

 
And to be clear, while I am not Brad Pitt, I'm not bad looking and I'm careful about hygeine, brushed teeth, being friendly and welcoming etc.  On balance I wouldn't recommend this guy unless insta-fuck is your thing. 

If I breed a provider, I definitely wanna see the results after. 
Is it really that kinky?  Most providers are amenable, in my experience.

I met him years ago, when he advertised on adam4adam. I do remember having a good experience. His rate he requested at the time was very low like under 80 dollars, but it was more like a quickie. I did leave satisfied.

It's one thing to text a few minutes before an appointment to tell your partner that you will be late (or are ready early), but to cancel at the last minute without any explanation (and boy it would have to be a good one) is just shitty. I don't care how hot he is, that earns him a place on my blocked list. Thank you for calling this out, as he was on my "to do" list (but no longer). 

It's one thing to text a few minutes before an appointment to tell your partner that you will be late (or are ready early), but to cancel at the last minute without any explanation (and boy it would have to be a good one) is just shitty. I don't care how hot he is, that earns him a place on my blocked list. Thank you for calling this out, as he was on my "to do" list (but no longer). 

It's one thing to text a few minutes before an appointment to tell your partner that you will be late (or are ready early), but to cancel at the last minute without any explanation (and boy it would have to be a good one) is just shitty. I don't care how hot he is, that earns him a place on my blocked list. Thank you for calling this out, as he was on my "to do" list (but no longer). 

It's one thing to text a few minutes before an appointment to tell your partner that you will be late (or are ready early), but to cancel at the last minute without any explanation (and boy it would have to be a good one) is just shitty. I don't care how hot he is, that earns him a place on my blocked list. Thank you for calling this out, as he was on my "to do" list (but no longer). 

It's one thing to text a few minutes before an appointment to tell your partner that you will be late (or are ready early), but to cancel at the last minute without any explanation (and boy it would have to be a good one) is just shitty. I don't care how hot he is, that earns him a place on my blocked list. Thank you for calling this out, as he was on my "to do" list (but no longer). 

A lot of this is just learning your body.  Process all of these tips, and do some trial-and-error preps when you don't actually have plans.  i.e. Experiment with it when there's no pressure. 
With the time to do it, I go very deep with the hose, high volume, many hours in advance.  Then give it some real time to drain out.  Jumping up and down helps.  Jumping up and down on your left foot leaning hard left helps.  If you do a deep clean or two well in advance, you can do progressively lesser volume as you get closer and closer to ready.  Definitely give yourself time between completion of prep and leaving to go to your appointment. 

A big favorite of mine is Abel Rey, a prominent escort in NYC until a few years ago, who even had his own YouTube channel “Ask an Escort”. I haven’t seen him in a couple of years, and he’s now successfully moved into a more ‘conventional’ job and is doing well. Over time, he took down his RM add and web site. Such a sweet, sexy guy, with a great personality and love for life. In my early days of hiring, he treated me with tenderness and compassion and the sex was mind blowing!

Fair point, but I think that risk exists in almost any rental situation unless you are seeing someone you already know. My building records all visitors, and the cameras are quite evident to folks as they walk into the foyer and enter the elevator. In NYC at least, many providers live in less desirable parts of town, so I think the risk is greater when one is entering one of these dwellings while likely carrying a large amount of cash. 

True story - I had a regular I would see in East Harlem. One time I got into the elevator with a woman who, without asking, immediately pushed the button for the floor to which I was headed. I smiled and asked her "how did you know?"  In an unfriendly tone, she replied "there's only one reason men like you come into my building, and he's on the 16th floor." 

As always, assume the other guy is poz. You control your own prep status and nobody else's. 

Fair point, but I think that risk exists in almost any rental situation unless you are seeing someone you already know. My building records all visitors, and the cameras are quite evident to folks as they walk into the foyer and enter the elevator. In NYC at least, many providers live in less desirable parts of town, so I think the risk is greater when one is entering one of these dwellings while likely carrying a large amount of cash. 

True story - I had a regular I would see in East Harlem. One time I got into the elevator with a woman who, without asking, immediately pushed the button for the floor to which I was headed. I smiled and asked her "how did you know?"  In an unfriendly tone, she replied "there's only one reason men like you come into my building, and he's on the 16th floor." 

Good standing up as best as you could under the circumstances.
Glad you’re not the next season.

Fair point, but I think that risk exists in almost any rental situation unless you are seeing someone you already know. My building records all visitors, and the cameras are quite evident to folks as they walk into the foyer and enter the elevator. In NYC at least, many providers live in less desirable parts of town, so I think the risk is greater when one is entering one of these dwellings while likely carrying a large amount of cash. 

True story - I had a regular I would see in East Harlem. One time I got into the elevator with a woman who, without asking, immediately pushed the button for the floor to which I was headed. I smiled and asked her "how did you know?"  In an unfriendly tone, she replied "there's only one reason men like you come into my building, and he's on the 16th floor."