tenderloin

He was hot in his day. Wonder if the heat persists. It’s a fair question the op poses. 

Yes.  In midtown.

Definitely scour the profile for the giveaways like PNP, Party, and T.  A guy who is now advertising as NicoStylesXXX in NYC was my worst experience in this regard.  Was glad to get him out of the house without an incident, and after I posted about the experience here he let me know that he was not happy with me 😬   After that experience I have taken to asking providers, before confirming the appointment, if they party. If one says yes, I politely tell them "thanks but no thanks." 

I have also noticed some guys who seem very dependent on poppers.  I don't use poppers myself, but it seems to me that some guys seem to have developed an over-reliance on them in order to perform, and this seems to lead to performance problems. 

I posted last week for some advice about hung tops, but decided to take a gamble on someone who is not mentioned much in this forum: 
Q_Wrexx NYC
I am glad I did!
He is a very nice guy, with an adorable smile and a welcoming personality. His body is in perfect shape, and he is indeed as well-proportioned as he claims. Yes it is a cliche, but he is hotter than his pics.  He is a top you have to prepare for, with girth being even more of a challenge than length ; )   But once you've made room at the inn, you're in for a wonderful ride. He's also an enthusiastic kisser and adventurously oral.   

Highly recommended.  

Yes.  In midtown.

I posted last week for some advice about hung tops, but decided to take a gamble on someone who is not mentioned much in this forum: 
Q_Wrexx NYC
I am glad I did!
He is a very nice guy, with an adorable smile and a welcoming personality. His body is in perfect shape, and he is indeed as well-proportioned as he claims. Yes it is a cliche, but he is hotter than his pics.  He is a top you have to prepare for, with girth being even more of a challenge than length ; )   But once you've made room at the inn, you're in for a wonderful ride. He's also an enthusiastic kisser and adventurously oral.   

Highly recommended.  

I posted last week for some advice about hung tops, but decided to take a gamble on someone who is not mentioned much in this forum: 
Q_Wrexx NYC
I am glad I did!
He is a very nice guy, with an adorable smile and a welcoming personality. His body is in perfect shape, and he is indeed as well-proportioned as he claims. Yes it is a cliche, but he is hotter than his pics.  He is a top you have to prepare for, with girth being even more of a challenge than length ; )   But once you've made room at the inn, you're in for a wonderful ride. He's also an enthusiastic kisser and adventurously oral.   

Highly recommended.  

I posted last week for some advice about hung tops, but decided to take a gamble on someone who is not mentioned much in this forum: 
Q_Wrexx NYC
I am glad I did!
He is a very nice guy, with an adorable smile and a welcoming personality. His body is in perfect shape, and he is indeed as well-proportioned as he claims. Yes it is a cliche, but he is hotter than his pics.  He is a top you have to prepare for, with girth being even more of a challenge than length ; )   But once you've made room at the inn, you're in for a wonderful ride. He's also an enthusiastic kisser and adventurously oral.   

Highly recommended.  

https://rentmen.eu/Dadbodnine

I'll second the recommendation of dadbodnine and also recommend King Keith -(https://rent.men/KingKeith)
However you go, I suggest advance communication about your wants to make sure there is a clear understanding

Suggestion: use the RM search function to narrow your search, use the COM search function to review the threads of the providers who interest you most, and then ask the group here (or DM hobbyists) for details like sensuous vs piledriver.

I'd have suggested https://rentmen.eu/jose_ok, but he's only 8.5".

Hi All - In the last year I have been exploring my bottom side, and have discovered what many others have before me: sometimes it can be more difficult to take smaller guys than larger ones, and being at ease and relaxed is key to an enjoyable experience. Therefore, I am looking for an NYC top who is:
1. At least 9 inches 
2. Willing to kiss
3. More of a skilled & sensuous top as opposed to a pile-driver. 
4. Competitively priced for the NY market (i.e., not a $500 per hour "star").
5. Friendly
Open to all ethnicities so long as the guy is moderately handsome and reasonably clean. I am on prep and pep. 
Any suggestions? 
 

You're not weird for not liking it, but you're a little weird for bringing it up as often as you do.

I have a bad habit of hiring guys who are beautiful and sexy but do the bare minimum required to get their fee. 
 
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He's been mentioned on other threads.
TV host Carlos Adyan.   Mainly on Latino media based in Miami.

The BBC's Rich Preston is simply the most gorgeous, perfect male I have ever laid eyes on. Sadly, he seems to be straight. But if you follow his social media, he knows he's lovely, and loves to tease it. 

I travel to Philly often for work, and the scene there is frustrating to say the least. Few respond to texts or IMs, there are a ton of scammers, and several with pics dating from the previous century. I could write a book about all the negatives, but here is one shining star -
 
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Sexy, friendly, fully verse, nicely hung, and very affectionate. I'll be seeing him again.  PM me for details. 

I met Casey last night. Not my best hire.
On the plus side, he is a friendly, personable young guy (he says 32) with a very nice face and body. We had texted back and forth quite a bit and I was very clear about expectations. But....
When he showed up, we sat on the couch and chatted for a good 30 minutes (he was very talkative and seemed grateful for the chance to relax and get to know me). When I suggested we move to the bedroom, he suddenly revealed that he was due to be meeting some friends was already late, so "could we hurry things along?"--just a wee bit of a buzz kill....so we got down to business. He pretty much lay there, making no attempt to reciprocate any of my foreplay. Never even took off his shirt. Although I had hired him as a top, he blamed his meds on a failure to get even a hint of an erection.  After it was clear that he was going to remain flaccid, I topped him.  He was soon getting dressed and heading out the door. 
To be clear, I was showered, sober, friendly and welcoming, and while I am not Brad Pitt I'm not Jabba the Hutt either.

To his credit, he did apologize and agreed to accept half his fee.  Skip this guy. 

I'm not "gay".
So there's that...
Also, I am completely aware of the risks of HIV and have chosen a prevention that ALSO lowers my risk of multiple other sexually transmitted diseases.
I think all these gays who pop pills so they can bareback every random guy they meet are the ones who are deaf and blind to the reality of the risks they take.
I am uninterested in anything that only prevents ONE sexually transmitted disease. So you shouldn't be "stunned".
 

I didn't say that people should or should not use condoms or prep or whatever. I won't judge others' decisions there. But, referring to the question "what is ART?", is seems to me that to be a sexually active gay man seeing escorts and to not be familiar with the basics of HIV treatment/prevention is pretty stunning. 

If you did you would know how to spell it, as the R matters.  (PRE vs POST for those following along). 
DoxyPep

So you lead the Daddy's Den Chapter of the Know Nothing party? I'd tell you to look up DoxyPep, but it would evidently be a waste of time.

I didn't say that people should or should not use condoms or prep or whatever. I won't judge others' decisions there. But, referring to the question "what is ART?", is seems to me that to be a sexually active gay man seeing escorts and to not be familiar with the basics of HIV treatment/prevention is pretty stunning. 

I don't mean to get all judgmental here, but us denizens of this space really should be up to speed on the latest medical issues: ART, Truvada/prep, Doxy Prep etc.  As Sy and Marcy Sims used to say in the adverts, "an educated consumer is our best customer." 

The BBC's Rich Preston is simply the most gorgeous, perfect male I have ever laid eyes on. Sadly, he seems to be straight. But if you follow his social media, he knows he's lovely, and loves to tease it.