tenderloin

I came close to disaster with one of these fakers - a real smooth grifter. I was horny and he was the only one available at short notice. I foolishly had him come to my home, and though he wasn't the same guy as in the pics, he looked decent enough. He asked me to get him some water, and while i was out of the room he was looking around the apartment for loose mail with my name on it; he did some instant social media searching with my address, and soon was threatening to shout my real name all over the neighborhood if I did not "tip" him. I got him out, but discovered afterwards that he had stolen some things from me. The ad disappeared the next day. Many lessons learned.

I was foolish - let the little head do the thinking.
 
Among the lessons, if you are seeing someone for the first time who hasn't been reviewed here:
1. If he shows up and he ain't the dude in the picture, don't let him in. If he's been dishonest about such a basic thing, he's probably not going to give you the experience you are looking for.
2. Make sure no small valuables (rings, wallets, etc.) or personally identifying objects (ie, old mail) are in plain sight
3. Don't leave him unattended. I should have said "let's go together to the kitchen to get us a drink"
4. Be prepared with a bluff if things go south: ie "my next door neighbor is a bouncer and a friend -- I just have to bang on this wall and he will be here in a moment, so please leave now" or "I am going to call the police and tell them that you are a date gone bad, so unless you want to deal with them, leave now."
5. Most importantly, if it isn't working or your start to feel uncomfortable, end it quickly, offer him a portion of his fee, and get him out

I came close to disaster with one of these fakers - a real smooth grifter. I was horny and he was the only one available at short notice. I foolishly had him come to my home, and though he wasn't the same guy as in the pics, he looked decent enough. He asked me to get him some water, and while i was out of the room he was looking around the apartment for loose mail with my name on it; he did some instant social media searching with my address, and soon was threatening to shout my real name all over the neighborhood if I did not "tip" him. I got him out, but discovered afterwards that he had stolen some things from me. The ad disappeared the next day. Many lessons learned.

I came close to disaster with one of these fakers - a real smooth grifter. I was horny and he was the only one available at short notice. I foolishly had him come to my home, and though he wasn't the same guy as in the pics, he looked decent enough. He asked me to get him some water, and while i was out of the room he was looking around the apartment for loose mail with my name on it; he did some instant social media searching with my address, and soon was threatening to shout my real name all over the neighborhood if I did not "tip" him. I got him out, but discovered afterwards that he had stolen some things from me. The ad disappeared the next day. Many lessons learned.

I came close to disaster with one of these fakers - a real smooth grifter. I was horny and he was the only one available at short notice. I foolishly had him come to my home, and though he wasn't the same guy as in the pics, he looked decent enough. He asked me to get him some water, and while i was out of the room he was looking around the apartment for loose mail with my name on it; he did some instant social media searching with my address, and soon was threatening to shout my real name all over the neighborhood if I did not "tip" him. I got him out, but discovered afterwards that he had stolen some things from me. The ad disappeared the next day. Many lessons learned.

I came close to disaster with one of these fakers - a real smooth grifter. I was horny and he was the only one available at short notice. I foolishly had him come to my home, and though he wasn't the same guy as in the pics, he looked decent enough. He asked me to get him some water, and while i was out of the room he was looking around the apartment for loose mail with my name on it; he did some instant social media searching with my address, and soon was threatening to shout my real name all over the neighborhood if I did not "tip" him. I got him out, but discovered afterwards that he had stolen some things from me. The ad disappeared the next day. Many lessons learned.

If it were only the pictures that were fake I could understand it. But it often appears to be that the advertiser never responds to anyone inquiring about them. This is the part I don't get.

You misunderstand me. I WAS originally considering hiring - that's why I asked for the access - but wouldn't do so after I was refused access to the photos. Both men lost a potential customer. I don't ask for access to get my rocks off - there is way too much free porn around to bother. When I am intrigued by a guy's public photos, and I am/will be in the same vicinity, I request an unlock. It's not like I am asking for a free test drive. Gee.
 
I gotta say that I am surprised at the disdain with which potential clients are often treated with regard to requests for additional info/views - the expectation that the purchase will be made sight unseen. What amazes me is how many clients put up with that crap.

Would RM accept a semen stained blue dress as proof that a meeting occurred?

The best film of last year, unfortunately overshadowed by "Call Me By Your Name," is "God's Own Country" British independent film. Can't say enough positive about it.

Happened to me too. Makes you think about how completely awful the few guys must be who do have negative reviews up there -- they must be satan or Kelly Anne Conway or someone like that.

Happened to me too. Makes you think about how completely awful the few guys must be who do have negative reviews up there -- they must be satan or Kelly Anne Conway or someone like that.

The best film of last year, unfortunately overshadowed by "Call Me By Your Name," is "God's Own Country" British independent film. Can't say enough positive about it.

Being turned down for sex by a paid professional has got to hurt.

Exactly. I'm paying a premium amount, and an escort should be able to deliver the fantasy without having to know what a client looks like beforehand. If they can't, I still contend they are in the wrong business. If I want to be pre-screened and body shamed, I can go on Grindr and Scruff for that. But I don't expect that when someone is asking me to pay them triple digits per hour. I'm a decent looking guy, relatively fit (training for my 6th marathon), and have a killer ass. But I am plagued with body shame and self confidence issues - always have been. An escort wanting to know what I look like ramps up my tension and self doubt, and that's not going to end well for me. So I just move on. But yes, it pisses me off. These prissy, choosy escorts are ruining the profession for everyone else.

No problem. I have to keep reminding myself I tend to over estimate your reading skills.

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And on which planet???

When was this?

The best film of last year, unfortunately overshadowed by "Call Me By Your Name," is "God's Own Country" British independent film. Can't say enough positive about it.

Again, good luck with that. I am glad things are working out so well for you. So with all that coin coming in, I am sure you know that each and everyone of those coins has two sides.

Yup, people love watching train wrecks....

the ONLY thing hot about you - (you're a) liar, liar pants on fire.....less than 10 hours ago you promised no more comments.....& oh yeah, when you criticize @tenderloin grammar by bringing up "rebuttles" - too funny.

"Only a White guy could have pulled off that degree of fakeness." - Mocha
 
Anyone who would post something like that needs to deeply within himself to try to understand how he reached the point where such fatuous generalizations could be entertained, much less posted publicly. I don't want to pick on you Mocha, but really, stop digging!

"Only a White guy could have pulled off that degree of fakeness." - Mocha
 
Anyone who would post something like that needs to deeply within himself to try to understand how he reached the point where such fatuous generalizations could be entertained, much less posted publicly. I don't want to pick on you Mocha, but really, stop digging!

"Only a White guy could have pulled off that degree of fakeness." - Mocha
 
Anyone who would post something like that needs to deeply within himself to try to understand how he reached the point where such fatuous generalizations could be entertained, much less posted publicly. I don't want to pick on you Mocha, but really, stop digging!