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My rationale for the tag was to give him an opportunity to give his side. Otherwise to me it would've felt like I was talking behind someone's back. Agreed with everything else.

Sounds hot haha

So you could explain your side? That's what we're doing in this forum? We met here. We started chatting here. Did you expect people here wouldn't share the good and the bad? You stood me up, didn't even bother messaging me during the whole day/evening telling me you were sick, a booking we had been talking for months, that we had confirmed, that I had even offered an overnight after. I set up the time, I got the money, I prepared myself and you stood me up in incredibly unprofessional behavior, and I'M the one who fucked up? nahhhh. Others here should know that even with a confirmed appointment you might blow them off without even telling them. That's what this forum is about, sharing these experiences. If you have an issue with unprofessional behavior being called out... then be a professional?

You also didn't post the beginning of our conversation, I wonder why. This isn't cool. We had set up a time, confirmed and discussed it several times up to the day before. I'm not publicly shaming, I'm calling out what happened. You see how you left me out to dry when I reached out asking if you had made it to LA? Did you know I checked your profile during the day and SAW YOU ONLINE? You completely blew me off.

I'm sorry, publicly shamed? I said what happened to the T. This is a forum to share these experiences with, none of what I said is inflammatory. I told you I appreciated your apologies but you could've said ANYTHING during the day to let me know you were sick or you could not make it. You didn't. You waited until *I* reached out to you asking what's up. That's completely unprofessional. I even told you I could not believe someone who was active on this forum could pull such an unprofessional move.

I didn't say I was immune. I'm saying it makes it better to deal with things like jealousy and compartmentalization.

Nope, it's there. I used privatemode/incognito. After sleeping on his offer to 'make it up to me' I went this morning to check how long he was going to be in LA thinking there might be time before he leaves but woke up to him having me blocked. I guess he doesn't want a bad review in RM for having stood me up. Regardless, not a good look, feels very amateur hour for a provider who wants people to take him seriously.

My previous BFE provider for most of the year is an awesome guy, we just didn't work out because of some of my non-negotiables but I still sent him a card with a gift card inside as a thank you for all the work we did this year. I don't even expect a response.

...and proceeded to block me on rm. Not a good look.

Unfortunately stood me up. We had made a booking about a month in advance, I confirmed the week before, then we chatted a day or so before. The day of I reach out early in the AM asking if he made it to the city and got no reply. At close to our booking in the evening I texted him asking if everything was alright because I didn’t appreciate being stood up. He replied later apologizing saying he was sick and had to change the flight. I told him I believe he’s sick but he had the whole day and evening to let me know so we could change things. He offered to make it up to me but unfortunately I was traveling the next day and leaving me stood up that way left a sour note. @GordyLex I wish you the best and hope this is truly a learning experience. Nobody likes getting stood up especially in this line of business.

I'm poly so those feelings are different I guess? I can have affection for whomever is my current regular BFE provider but I know it's not love and 100% understand if there were no money involved they would have no reason to even talk to me. I'm hopeful they like me the same way you would like your coffee shop barista at least but I know unless they want coffee we won't be hanging out and chatting.

I saw him once and that's all I needed. On his ad this: Means he drops G and NEEDS to do G (GHB) to perform. He was drugged and barely could form sentences. Couldn't perform. He's in my do not repeat list.

Yea I meant weird as in 'not the norm'.

I'm polyamorous so it's different I guess. I don't experience jealousy, I experience what is called compersion, which is the feeling of joy/happiness you get when the people you care about are doing things that provide them joy and happiness even if they do not include you. My previous BFE provider and I met regularly, did overnights, traveled, etc and when we were not together we still chatted and what not and I knew of their travel schedule and I would tell him "Hope you get tons of good work in X!". IDK, it's not an issue for me jealousy that is. With other providers am more comfortable with and we've arranged a set rate already I always tell them that if we have a booking but someone else is offering more for that time, to let me know and we can move it to another time/day no problem, I want for them all the success in the world. Maybe I'm just weird 🤷‍♂️

Nice guy but couldn't perform.

$50 A MONTH for his OF? hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

I'm Venezuelan. These guys scammed you. Completely. After you graciously bought for them tons of baby food and formula... they turned around and sold them. Then when they saw you again they told you that SOB story to see if you could buy them some more because you're an easy mark.

Which is gross. There's ways to say things that don't involve that kind of language. When I ask for a provider for their info and they say their rate is X and is a mismatch for me I reply with "Thank you so much for the info, I appreciate it, it is over the rate of Y I usually pay but I thank for your time and if anything changes on my side I'll reach out, have a great rest of your day". 7 out of 10 come back "I can do that rate", but if they don't I DO NOT contact them anymore unless I can or am willing to pay their rate. I never say that's too expensive, or tell them they're crazy for asking that much, or what have you, that's a big NO.

He blocked me too and I never spoke to him. He was in LA and I was looking at profiles, then a few days later went on the profiles I had short listed including his and realized he had blocked me. 🤷‍♂️

You will notice that most of those who have negative reviews don't have gold/platinum badges, and are probably buried in the last pages. RM has all the incentives to extort from providers money in exchange for better placement and managing bad reviews, the same way Yelp extorts other businesses.

Yep, because providers spend much more on those sites, not just their classified but also the daily bump, the gold or platinum level, 'rentman of the day', etc. RM Is not going to allow bad reviews on providers and having those providers stop advertising or purchasing extras, rm has all the incentives to only keep 5 star reviews. It sucks for the providers but I will not meet if they don't have a thread here already.

I have all my vaccines (monkey, covid, hepatitis, hpv, meningitis, etc) am on PrEP and take DoxyPEP after a session. I don't ask folks about their status o whatever because I know I'm protected by the things I'm doing. People who aren't on prep who rely on OTHERS telling them they're on Prep will have a rude awakening one day.

rentment actively denies anything that's not 5 stars. If you review with a 5 star the review is approved almost within the hour, if you have anything less than 5 stars they message you 3 days later asking for proof of the meet, then they get back to you 3 days later saying it wasn't enough and deny your review. One time they answered to me 4 days later asking for proof, I provided proof (screenshots), then they replied to me 3 days later saying that it had been a week since we had met and the review must've been made within the first 72 hours (which I did, it took them 4 days to get back to me) and then denied it. Don't trust reviews on RM. Trust them here. Always. Remember, you may pay a $45 membership, but providers are spending hundreds on their classified AND the 'gold' 'platinum' etc extras. Clients are not the moneymaker for rentment, providers are and as such they'll guard that income over ours.

I don't think it's age shaving, I think he might've had bad acne problems in his teenage years and he's working on those with peels and treatments.

Oh he does multiple bookings for sure. He didn't cum, I did. Yes, the pictures are outdated, he's still muscular but know he's in this late 40s for sure.