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For me maybe it derives from when I was discovering my sexuality when I was young, the time when I was phisically closest with other boys was when we were playfighting, so I always associate it with it awakening something in me I guess...

Mexico City.

Jeez, let me count the ways. But they all boil down to business: if you don’t want a disgruntled client, be where we agreed, when we agreed, at the price we agreed.

I live in a third world country, so sometimes its hard to get fully legal businesses to accept credit cards, let alone app payments like PayPal; providers are a cash only expense for me, though I have one regular that is starting to prefer payment in kind rather than money.
 
I would definitely prefer them be a little more with the times since I hate carrying cash and no one looks at my bank statements other than myself, but alas, I will trade convenience for paying for an overnight what American providers charge for an hour

Not really bullied at all, always been very easy for me to get along with the typical jock/bully types so in middle school I had full immunity despite not being athletic or even that hyper masculine at all. In high school such types basically just became unattainable jocks that I just lusted after as they played american football but they minded their own shit.
 
I did have "mean girl" type of incidents with girls in middle school and high school, I was outed by them and seriously gossiped about by them, the middle school one went on to be a nurse, from what I gather she's still very much a bitch and lives paycheck to paycheck which is semi satisfying; the highschool one went on to standard corporate job, last I heard she had a pretty standard life (as most of the type seem to have), my quiet revenge came from having a very intense relationship with her boyfriend at the time, mostly sexual, but I never did tell her about it, despite having the chance to do so.

Well I simply don't date currently, have little space in my life to devote to an emotional relationship and have no desire to have one, but do crave sex from time to time and during a lot of 2020, whatever can pass for "regulars" were not in my area and I did not find anyone to my taste, so I found hookups to fulfill the cravings, now I'm experimenting with a couple of guys who could potentially become repeat providers, precisely because I found hookups not fullfilling.

For me maybe it derives from when I was discovering my sexuality when I was young, the time when I was phisically closest with other boys was when we were playfighting, so I always associate it with it awakening something in me I guess...

I think when dealing with someone who presents themselves as "straight", this is 100% the best piece of advice you will get. Match his vibe and see if he escalates it further, specially in this type of situation it's probably better to not be the initiator.

I think when dealing with someone who presents themselves as "straight", this is 100% the best piece of advice you will get. Match his vibe and see if he escalates it further, specially in this type of situation it's probably better to not be the initiator.

I think when dealing with someone who presents themselves as "straight", this is 100% the best piece of advice you will get. Match his vibe and see if he escalates it further, specially in this type of situation it's probably better to not be the initiator.

I think when dealing with someone who presents themselves as "straight", this is 100% the best piece of advice you will get. Match his vibe and see if he escalates it further, specially in this type of situation it's probably better to not be the initiator.

I would not expect ANYthing outside of the studio. Was his cock hard? You could very lightly graze it and see what happens. Keep it light enough that if he reacts negatively you can play it off as accidental.
basically...match, don't escalate. This may take time to develop.

Not a Boomer but mine was similar as Dave above, one day after dinner with my mom and I decided to say, but I just couldn't so started getting really anxious and she asked me what was wrong and I just said "I'm gay" and her response was "That's it?" pretty much a non starter.
 
My father was a lot more of an emotional thing, we hugged and it was all very dramatic, but equally accepting.

The best anal training is a patient top.

Of course I would, given that I was attracted to him and we were compatible to an acceptable degree I don't see why I wouldn't.
 
I think one person's negative experience with someone with other issues not related to being trans isn't really being fair to a whole world of people, but that's just my opinion.
 
Be that as it may, as someone who was into bodybuilding in college and befriended and dated bodybuilders in the past, use and abuse of exogenous testosterone and its effects on a man is not something I'm a stranger to or entirely turned off by.

I generally would do as asked, some providers ask for it upfront, in my experience those are the ones that rarely get a call back, the guys I tip usually ask for it at the end or don't ask at all (I usually either put it on top of a drawer during in-calls or just give it to them) maybe guys who don't ask upfront are a little more confident on the fact that maybe you'll want stay longer for seconds or tip?
 
Maybe I'm just an easy client because I treat it as if it were any other hookup, am always well groomed, I try to be flirty and charming and I'm a bit on the younger side of clients, but I think only once have I felt not entirely secure with the transaction/feared that a provider could get physical and only once did I really feel like I had wasted perfectly good money.
 

 
I personally think the bruise would have been a pleasant surprise as a client, but I get how some might be less than charmed by it. But this is the main reason why I try to be polite and nice, I think any encounter is gonna be much easier if the other party is calm and feels safe and secure at the end of the day you're both taking a risk by meeting (specifically if its for the first time)

Only guys I've met who don't kiss are self-proclaimed "Straight guys", I understand some people like that kind of thing but in my experience they're bad dates and bad lays (both pro and not so).
 
Then again, I'm very much one to treat my own hygiene and smells as top priority before a date, be it with a pro or not, could never understand those who don't even try before meeting a provider, seems to me like just basic courtesy to put your own best foot forward before an encounter, whether paid or not.

My policy for social hangouts with a provider is: If I'm eating by myself after a session/have no plans, I'll mention it and if the guy wants to join I'd obviously treat dinner, definitely a quid pro quo situation and obviously it's 100% up to them.
 
I've definitely met some guys that have specific social rates, which are obviously much cheaper than normal and they obviously expected everything would be paid for in terms of drinks and meals, but have never really had the need to use, specially now.

Only guys I've met who don't kiss are self-proclaimed "Straight guys", I understand some people like that kind of thing but in my experience they're bad dates and bad lays (both pro and not so).
 
Then again, I'm very much one to treat my own hygiene and smells as top priority before a date, be it with a pro or not, could never understand those who don't even try before meeting a provider, seems to me like just basic courtesy to put your own best foot forward before an encounter, whether paid or not.

Not a Boomer but mine was similar as Dave above, one day after dinner with my mom and I decided to say, but I just couldn't so started getting really anxious and she asked me what was wrong and I just said "I'm gay" and her response was "That's it?" pretty much a non starter.
 
My father was a lot more of an emotional thing, we hugged and it was all very dramatic, but equally accepting.

I think it's part of their charm, but certainly one of the reasons why PrEP has become so widespread.
No need to worry about trusting or doubting everyone. You can only trust yourself.

Not a Boomer but mine was similar as Dave above, one day after dinner with my mom and I decided to say, but I just couldn't so started getting really anxious and she asked me what was wrong and I just said "I'm gay" and her response was "That's it?" pretty much a non starter.
 
My father was a lot more of an emotional thing, we hugged and it was all very dramatic, but equally accepting.

Yeah for sure I will! I'm located outside of the US (Latin America) so my specific experiences are gonna be a bit outside the mark for most of yall but I'm happy to share whenever I think you guys could be interested!

First time posting here in the forums (but I've lurked for ages), this seems like an appropriate place to start.
 
I don't share with anyone on my social circle with the exception of a former partner who, while we were on a trip together, expressed a desire to have a threeway and with limited time to find a candidate, I suggested we hired someone; in the end he got cold feet and I cancelled on the guy. So he doesn't actually know but if I showed up somewhere with one of my usual types, I'm sure my ex would assume it was an escort.

Yeah for sure I will! I'm located outside of the US (Latin America) so my specific experiences are gonna be a bit outside the mark for most of yall but I'm happy to share whenever I think you guys could be interested!