what about being one of multiples in a day?

[Gymowner]

now a days i really enjoy having a "play toy" in town that isnt on the radar of being an escort so to speak. recently i've inquired with two escorts that were travelling into my city. hot hot men. i have been receiving the same sort of message back when setting something up...."i am pretty much booked up right now so im trying to squeeze in some last minute sessions. i have 2pm or 3pm tomorrow or 4pm or 5 pm the following day left. let me know what works".

 

now i get they are here to make as much money as possible but back to back to back means you are going to be forced short on the session and looking at the next schmo in the hallway waiting to come into the hotel room. not to mention not knowing how many guys have been slobbering all over the dude days before and even the day of your session. with STD/STI's the way they are now in the gay community it just gives me the heebie jeebies. at least with a regular he more than likely isnt seeing more than one guy a day or even per week (if you find the right one).

 

maybe its just me, but i have only had 2 STD/STI's in over 30 years of sexual activity and want to keep it that way. nothing is certain of course with anyone but i'd rather have the betting odds in my favor than against me. opinions?

[Pittlookalike]

Agree. Knowing that your hire is seeing that many others is disturbing. Ignorance, in this situation, is bliss, lol.

[+ harey]

Agree. It shouldn’t be like squeezing in a haircut at a busy salon.

[Gymowner]

well thinking about how the escort will be able to function or not function also adds into the equation. a long stressed out day can lead to a poor performance if you have a late session and many of these jacked up studs have a night life to go spend the dough on trying to get pussy to emasculate their manhood from seeing countless dudes in a day. next day, daytime sessions can then become a dud as well if the hoochie is being thrown out of the room before your session is to happen. when i see a regular in my area they will usually plan our meetings around their own personal sexual activity so they are "good to go" when we meet up. i know its hard to find them but these are diamonds in the rough so to speak. treat them as such.

[big-n-tall]

This topic gets brought ever so often and people either freak out about it or get turned on. LOL!

 

Realistically, most escorts probably see more than one client a day. There are those who can and will only see one person a day, but I think that's rare. And yes, there are some guys who line up people back to back to back. I don't know any escort, or at least anyone who has admitted to doing purely sexual meetups back to back to back. It very much depends on the guy and what he can or can not do and what type of things happen in the meetup. The thing is you'll never know for sure how many people an escort sees unless you ask and he's honest about it.

 

The guy I see the most is hired mainly for muscle worship and that muscle worship isn't always sexual. He's also asked to do fetish work and some of that can be nonsexual for him, i.e. urinating on someone for x amount of times in a given hour. He can do either many times a day of course. He has remarked I wear him out on many occasions and he will not schedule anything sexual with others after me. He prefers that we meet later in the day.

 

You either fret over it and worry or you have to get over it and focus on your time together. I mean there are ways to mitigate how many people the guy sees before you (to ensure he's fully charged as it were), by hiring the guy first thing when comes to visit, or first thing in the morning, or hire him long term.

[rustyrex]

I understand, work ain't honest but it pays the bills. Last time I was in Vegas my hire got a phone call after we were done and he was all happy because he got a high roller that was staying at the Palazzo. I was thinking, he must be one busy dude. He confided in me that he had seen a guy prior to me. I didn't get upset or anything but I did enjoy the hell out him. For the time we were together he did his job and made me feel like I was the only one he was seeing that day. But toward the end he did tell me to hurry since he needed to meet up with the next guy. Next time I'm in Vegas I'm doing my damndest to meet up with him again.

[marylander1940]

now a days i really enjoy having a "play toy" in town that isnt on the radar of being an escort so to speak. recently i've inquired with two escorts that were travelling into my city. hot hot men. i have been receiving the same sort of message back when setting something up...."i am pretty much booked up right now so im trying to squeeze in some last minute sessions. i have 2pm or 3pm tomorrow or 4pm or 5 pm the following day left. let me know what works".

 

now i get they are here to make as much money as possible but back to back to back means you are going to be forced short on the session and looking at the next schmo in the hallway waiting to come into the hotel room. not to mention not knowing how many guys have been slobbering all over the dude days before and even the day of your session. with STD/STI's the way they are now in the gay community it just gives me the heebie jeebies. at least with a regular he more than likely isnt seeing more than one guy a day or even per week (if you find the right one).

 

maybe its just me, but i have only had 2 STD/STI's in over 30 years of sexual activity and want to keep it that way. nothing is certain of course with anyone but i'd rather have the betting odds in my favor than against me. opinions?

 

You knew you wanted to avoid mainstream escorts before you started this thread. Just keep on hiring the local off the radar guy who escorts for you and I guess a few other selective men. Do whatever feels comfortable to you it's your money.

 

Btw 5 guys a day average!

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/slow-down-in-booking.159531/page-2#post-1968049

[Gymowner]

It has helped to request being the first session when he gets to town. I would do this with ryan of New York. He would fly in from another town and usually get in late at night. With that in mind he would contact me to come over when he would get situated in his hotel. A nice late night massage after a long day travelling was just what he liked and with that... well... nature would happily take its course.

I did that as well with joey sullivan last time he was in town

Saw him right after he got situated in his hotel room. Luckily, he did not have another session till way later that evening, so everything worked the way it should and we even spent a lot of time chatting throughout the session since he had nothing to do for some time afterwards.

 

Years ago I remember two specific situations that really got me not interested in this set up. First one was a hot guy but he didnt seem very clean from a sexual sort of way. The room smelled of well... sex. I figured out a way to leave. Another was a huge tall muscle guy with massive legs for being so tall. Jr matched as well. Anyways we get started and just before jr was ready to be "happy" the escort pulled away and said "that's enough. I cant let it go. I have 3 more sessions today and jr has to be able to work for these sessions."

 

Question I have... does anyone else have the thoughts of STD's from this or is it just me?

[+ 7829V]

I understand, work ain't honest but it pays the bills. Last time I was in Vegas my hire got a phone call after we were done and he was all happy because he got a high roller that was staying at the Palazzo. I was thinking, he must be one busy dude. He confided in me that he had seen a guy prior to me. I didn't get upset or anything but I did enjoy the hell out him. For the time we were together he did his job and made me feel like I was the only one he was seeing that day. But toward the end he did tell me to hurry since he needed to meet up with the next guy. Next time I'm in Vegas I'm doing my damndest to meet up with him again.

Do they charger more to the high rollers? Or why do you think was all happy? Maybe a better tip?

[rvwnsd]

First, my opinion on the most recent question:

 

...Question I have... does anyone else have the thoughts of STD's from this or is it just me?

 

To me, the facts that I am not monogamous and the escort is also not monogamous elevate the risk that I will acquire an STD. Whether he has two partners prior to me in the same day versus two partners prior to me in the same week is irrelevant.

 

One could also make the assumption that by hiring someone who is not a "pro" escort one is elevating the risk of acquiring an STD even further because a "pro" might be tested more frequently than a "non-pro." That,to me, is equally irrelevant as the one above.

 

Regarding an escort seeing clients prior to seeing me; as long as the escort can still perform and won't rush me out the door or refuse to cum it does not matter. I saw an escort once who seemed to be rushing and then asked me to write him a review. Being put on the spot like that I said I'd think about it. The next day, I followed up and said I felt rushed and if he wanted me to write a review saying so, I would be happy to write one. He explained that he screwed up and scheduled someone to arrive 20 minutes after my appointment ended. He agreed that a review would not be a particularly good idea. I saw him again, had a great time, and posted a review. I also had an escort ask me if it was OK to schedule someone before our appointment, which had been scheduled in advance of me making a trip to his city. He promised he would be able to perform and so I agreed. He performed and then some! Apparently, he was typically hornier the second time he had sex than he was the first.

Edited September 2, 2020 by rvwnsd

[+ keroscenefire]

I also think some escorts like to tell clients that they are super busy and booked up to increase the pressure a bit for them to be hired by clients. A little bit of scarcity to drive up demand. But definitely with traveling escorts you should expect that they are meeting (or attempting to meet) 2-3 guys a day. They have to in order to make the costs worth it. But I doubt a local guy is really as busy as he says. From what I hear from a few of my regulars: When home they aim for 2-3 clients a week and when traveling it's 2-3 clients a day.

[Gymowner]

Rvwnsd and keroscene... very good points!

[rvwnsd]

Rvwnsd and keroscene... very good points!

Glad to help. believe me, my viewpoint was NOT shaped overnight. It took a while to get to this place!

[tenderloin]

The performance issue is a big one for me. I have been in several situations over the years where the pro refused to cum (especially when hiring early in the day -- gotta save it up for the long night ahead!) or was drained and couldn't cum more than a micro-drop. This is frustrating, especially since I make clear that a nice splash is close to the top of my wish list.

[Gymowner]

tenderloin... i cant agree more! i remember the huge stud above even stating for me "man is the last guy i see tonight gonna get a face full!" wtf!

[cmennow]

I don't like to know that a guy has multiple appointments going on the day I am seeing him, but you can almost bet that is the case with an out of towner. For those that I do connect with on a regular basis from out of town, they know my wants and desires and usually schedule me at the end of the day to give me their best. The best is what I get. "Splash" included. I usually hear, "this is the first time I have "cum" all day and I have been looking forward to this. I believe in developing that good chemistry with my escorts so that they really want to give you their best. Makes you wonder though what someone prior to me has been getting. Were they satisfied, happy, pissed to know he may have another session afterwards?? It's a dog eat dog world we live in I guess.

[Gymowner]

cmen... you are right on point man! if the two guys above were from my town or stated "can you get together with me in a few hours? so far you are the only one i have scheduled today" i would have raced to the atm and flew right over! i have actually had that happen with a few "out of towners". were they telling the truth? who knows. who cares. their "performance" was spot on, my needs were totally met and if they had none or 200 clients that day after me i could care less!

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Any escort who makes it clear he's doing this kind of turn-and-burn to existing clients is really quite foolish.

 

Unless you have a particular fetish for being squarely in the thick of the grind, this is what I consider an overshare.

[guru68]

The "wrap it up" t-shirt was probably a bad sign.

[rvwnsd]

tenderloin... i cant agree more! i remember the huge stud above even stating for me "man is the last guy i see tonight gonna get a face full!" wtf!

How charming!

[beefyw11]

And the word COVID has yet to appear in this thread?

[tenderloin]

And the word COVID has yet to appear in this thread?

And your point is? The word "covid" is a bit redundant, don't you think? It would have to appear in every thread on this site, in that even providers who only see one client a day would carry substantially more risk than your average guy. I have chosen not to see any pros since March for just this reason.

[beefyw11]

That’s my point, thank you.

[+ sniper]

Seems like you would want someone with a full time job doing this for extra cash. I would think a lot of guys in Vegas are looking at reduced hours and might be enticed...

[orville]

He has remarked I wear him out on many occasions and he will not schedule anything sexual with others after me.

Congratulations! You have been sold into your fantasy. ?