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Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

Ask him to bring condoms that he is comfortable with. Some people have strong brand and size preferences, especially if he has latex allergy issues

I suspect your sample size it too small. 

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

I don't think you can. I've gone to guys and they've been totally legit and on the second visit, the gloves are off -- so to speak. 
At some point, chemistry has to take over -- on both sides. 
there are times when I just want a great massage and to zone out. It's nice when the guy will read some non verbal cues. 
 

DoxyPep use will inevitably result in more antibiotic resistant STI’s. It’s a longtime loser.
Im always surprised at how much pushback I get from people when I insist on condom use.

DoxyPep use will inevitably result in more antibiotic resistant STI’s. It’s a longtime loser.
Im always surprised at how much pushback I get from people when I insist on condom use.

The ‘collage boy of your dreams.’ I guess he’s an artist?

Pretty damned rude.  It's nice when the trash takes itself out.

I agree with this. I generally do provide a time or a window especially when I'm traveling. And if the provider isn't available, I move on. 
But if a provider says they're wide open and then declines one or two times you offer, that's a wrap for me. 

Run a mile.
But next time you book, give him a time. Vague clients are problematic.
I get messages like “Hi, are you available for massage?”
Well…yes I am because that’s what I do but when?? Now?, later?, tomorrow?, next week?… Just be clear about when you want. If I can’t do it I’ll come back with an alternative. 

What I have found is if you see someone more than once, more things happen including cumming. 
I have 3 regulars and none of them came the first time we met, now all 3 do everytime we meet.
I also never get cut short on session time with my regulars, in fact they often go past.  I also don't screw them around and I tip well.  I always get a great time with all 3.  Treat them right and you get it back tenfold I have found.
Someone you only see once, yea I have been cut short on things.
 
 
 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

In my experience, when you seem the same masseur regularly things progress naturally to the level they're comfortable. My regular guy definitely goes way further now than when I started seeing him three years ago. But we also have lovely chats, and genuine chemistry. But that unfolded over time. 

His profile description as “muscular” would give me cause for pause. He may be a nice guy but it doesn’t look like he lifts much of anything beyond maybe his fork.

I don't think it's a problem to contact an escort/masseur who takes his ads down.
Worse case scenario, he just tells you that he's no longer providing services.
Best case, he has an active client base, which includes you, and of course he'd love to set up a new appointment.

It would be foregivable if his phone went dead but my guess is that’s not what happened. One cancellation without an excuse is a hard pass for me. Two back to back cancellations for any reason is also a hard pass

I think it pays to be more direct and convey some sense of urgency if you want an actionable response. 
 
Like “ Looking to get a 90 minute massage on Tuesday evening. Are you available and how much do you charge incall?”

I think it pays to be more direct and convey some sense of urgency if you want an actionable response. 
 
Like “ Looking to get a 90 minute massage on Tuesday evening. Are you available and how much do you charge incall?”

I don’t have an issue getting responses. I’d say 80 percent respond. 
i think your issue is you’re not asking a question or giving a time frame. Maybe you if you give a time “are you available next Monday or Tuesday? If so, can you tell me what your rates are?” 
I also sometimes give a vague description like “I’m a married professional guy who enjoys erotic massage.” 

Yes, I use condoms. Yes, I bring my own pack of condoms. But I am happy to share. 😉

Remember: Don't be a fool - wrap your tool!