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I’m in London chilling for a few days and decided to try Jamie21 for a massage- thanks so much Jaime- the massage was FABULOUS and well worth the time and money. Highly recommended if you happen to be in the area.

Cut yourself some slack. Mistakes will be made and you will learn a ton from your first foray. Relax and enjoy yourself. There is no perfect escort and not everything will meet your expectations- you will at least learn what you don’t want for the next round

You look great! Keep it up.

When I travel to weird places I tend to bring a few protein bars, dried fruit and tea bags. If I’m driving, I keep a small frig in the car and bring sandwiches.

Too many old pics sucks. I want to see what you look like recently.

I saw a massage guy a few months ago in NYC. I had seen him previously elsewhere before he moved. I was fortunate to see him when I was in town briefly. He told me that he had recently branched out into cosmetics…I guess the market for that in nyc must be pretty good

NYC is an escort buffet. Definitely sample more than one entree

90 min is definitely a sweet spot. I find my attention starting to wane after that, unless it’s a provider I know well and feel like chatting

I’m cheap so I usually prefer the Rust level.

I see the same massage guy every month. I tip him 100%. He constantly makes the sessions ever more interesting each time so I enjoy going back. It’s a positive feedback loop. You get what you pay for.

With a new provider it’s better to have the discussion ahead of time. There is no greater buzzkill for a client than to be told by the escort that they are saving their cum for another client later in the day.

He has a beard…that May put him in the light hairy category

I saw a new provider recently who kept me waiting outside for about 20 minutes because he was throwing out his roommate for good. When he finally let me in the place was a mess and he was clearly distracted. We went forward with the session but it was pretty much a disaster. After the allotted 2 hours I got up and got dressed (he clearly wanted me to stay longer while he got his shit together but it was clear that it wasn’t happening). I still paid him his full rate but upon leaving he told me that he never expected to see me again and slammed the door behind me. As I was walking home he called me and wanted assurances that I was going to use him again. I’m filing the experience in the “one and done” file

No reviews? $130 in NYC? Yeah…there’s gotta be a catch…

About a year ago I expressed interest in hiring him. He asked me what I was looking for and after my reply he responded back that he wasn’t interested. I guess I should be happy that he was honest about it rather than give me a lackluster experience

I usually use a discount factor in hiring. If I want someone 8 inches I’ll look for a size 9

I never got past the lack of decent photos or reviews

60 is not too old. I’m a decade beyond that and still have great experiences. Serving suggestion: The elephant in the room is that most escorts on RM are pretty mediocre and it’s not you. You probably need to get better at picking better escorts. Reach out to members directly in your area for specific recommendations. I find that people here are incredibly helpful in sharing info

Give the guy some space. You don’t know what kind of shit he has going on in his life or what he is dealing with. For all you know he may be experiencing depression or some other issue. It’s not about you. Just let it rest. If you’re a good client he will eventually reach out again.

The few properties I’ve sold were thru realtors and I never met the buyers until after the P&S was signed. Still there is nothing more attractive than an all cash buyer who flashes a home inspection waiver under his raincoat

I would suggest doing this with cotton briefs instead. More surface area to absorb smells

You can learn a lot about yourself from an occasional bad experience. Memories are what you get when you don’t get what you want. I find that it’s sometimes easier to figure out what you don’t want rather than what you really want.

The other day while walking home from an erotic massage I passed a McDonaldd. A young 20 something homeless kid came up to me and asked if I would buy him an ice cream cone. I brought him inside and told him to order whatever he wanted. He got a complete meal and 2 cones. Somehow, it was the best $20 I’d spent in a long time. Very thankful to have been able to accommodate such a simple yet sincere request

Life is short. Sometimes you just have to move on. Nothing ever lasts forever

Chest face and leg stubble are the worst. Natural, please