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I have a few 1) A La Carte pricing….when it suddenly becomes obvious that the quoted price is just a base price and everything you really want is extra 2) When you get a text an hour before the session that they are running very late 3) When someone who’s been around for a while only has a few posted reviews 4) Anyone with a latex allergy

I feel a lot safer walking around Boston. There are more cops per square mile than anywhere except maybe NYC. The cold winters make for fewer homeless. Better mass transit (when it runs). And fantastic sports teams. Nothing beats a warm evening at Fenway.

Summers in Boston are glorious. Lately the Atlantic water temperatures have been warmer. Fantastic seafood and plenty of Dunkies on every corner too. Just don’t ask for Manhattan clam chowder.

Jarrod- I think you are being a bit hasty to dis people who are telling you that your fees are too expensive. If, say, 19 out of 20 people tell you that you’re too high, it’s very useful market info. When I was in sales the worst possible outcome was the customer who went radio silent after I sent them a quote

Saw Dame Edna live in Boston a while back. Not usually into drag but she was fabulous. Glad I got to see her in her prime

The ad doesn’t list what he is into….so I would assume he’s into nothing.

Two trivial requests if possible- Whether the escort wears nail polish (a huge turnoff for me)… and if their dick is straight or curved. A third one which is a total wild card is whether the escort has weak or strong body odor.

I split my time between both coasts. I prefer swimming in the Atlantic and the east coast is just a much more dynamic place. I also enjoy being able to kick back and slow things down when I’m out west. They both have their pluses and minuses…

For old world charm Boston tops the list. It’s the city with the most European look to it. Best visited in October when the foliage is at peak and the apple cider donuts come out from hiding.

In my 20’s I took a photography class. The instructor brought in a really hot guy to come and pose nude and the class got to photograph him. It was really fascinating to see all of the different prints and poses that everyone in the class took. I still have the prints somewhere

If he is buzzing you into a building with video…or meeting you in a public space like a hotel lobby…then I don’t think it’s an unreasonable request

“Secrete Laboratories….” ….got a good charge out of that one

Youth is totally wasted on the young. If I could rewind the tape back to my 20’s I would have taken more risks professionally and tried more off the wall stuff. I also would have started lifting weights sooner too.

Now that I’m retired I’m grateful to have worked in a profession that paid me decently. I have the financial cushion to live on both coasts and enjoy life without dealing with the pressure of making ends meet. Life should be full of contrasts. If you spend all of your time doing what you “love” you may eventually get tired of it. It’s good to do some things that are tough so you can better appreciate the things that truly give you pleasure

I’m amused over the degree of indignation that some escorts have over customers who ask for a discount. I wonder how many of these same guys are quick to leave early and cheat clients out of the last 20-30 minutes. In general I would only ask for a discount if I’m bundling it with additional hours. Guys who leave a few microseconds after I’ve come is a bit of a pet peeve. Extra brownie points for those who stay for a joint shower which should be a given

At 3 visits…and first name basis….AND the provider shows some level of pleasure that you are returning….to me that makes it “regular.”

Sounds like a provider worth avoiding. You will be paying a premium to get second class treatment. Definitely look elsewhere….

Your “ex-provider” sees you as just an ATM machine. Definitely time to move on. Sorry that this happened to you. As a regular you should be getting better treatment as time goes on, not the junior varsity bullshit.

You’re right. It is me. My tastes are evolving and I’m just looking for something less formulaic and more unusual. It’s out there.

My willingness to pay for services just isn’t boundless. I figured that prices would ultimately go higher so I decided to find a cheaper alternative. I’ve just gotten better at meeting guys locally with similar interests who want the same thing and are willing to reciprocate with massage and bfe. Unless you are a provider with something truly unique to offer then you are just a service commodity and I’m just not interested in paying premium prices for commodities. Over the past 5 years I’ve probably seen over 75 different Rentmen. The vast majority were fun but not compellingly unique enough to pay extra for.

I also had a bad reaction to my 14k wedding band. I would get cracks in my skin that were very painful. I eventually had to stop wearing it. It took a good six months to fully heal. I left the ring on my dresser and one day it accidentally fell behind it. When we finally moved and pulled the dresser away from the wall it was nowhere to be found. I never bothered to replace it. My partner is an artist and had stopped wearing a ring because of stray paint so we just decided to not bother any further with the convention of rings

I have a firm upper spending limit of $500/2 hr. The recent hikes in prices have given me reasonable incentive to find less expensive FWB alternatives. Sorry, but that’s just the reality of it. I used to hire several times a month but now I am hiring about once a quarter

What a relief to know that the underwear is getting smaller. I thought I was just getting bigger

You’re all doing a nice job of managing the site

Seems to me that it’s your dad who has some explaining to do. He had no business messing around with your computer without asking