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Cremated. My kids have been instructed to sprinkle my ashes on a restricted private beach that I’m not allowed to use.

It depends on the person. I think really hairy guys should stay that way. Really skinny guys, though, I prefer shaved. I guess I prefer the extremes

Quite by serendipity, two different Rentmen whom I’ve used before happened to be independently exercising at my gym yesterday while I was there. Neither said a word or seemed to recognize me. I am just a business transaction, no more or less and that’s fine with me

I resent it when I go to see a 3hr film and it’s obvious that it could have used a lot more editing to move the story along. The recent movie “Tar” comes to mind.

The only ones I discuss it with are other escorts since they seem to be the most interested….especially if the encounters are unusual

Originally I started out on sim a statin and had lots of muscle soreness. My pcp switched me to pravastatin and I’ve had no problems with it

That older photo is meaningless. Bad lighting and relaxed posture in a selfie can make anyone look bad

Wrestling. Haven’t done it since high school

I just prefer fasting starting the day before. It’s good for you (promotes autophagy) and totally clears the system.

I once saw a provider who wanted to be paid upfront which was ok. I had a stack of $20’s. He stood there and meticulously counted the stack. I thought that was really tacky.

In the future, it looks like providers who use Venmo and PayPal will be forced into filing.

There have been two instances that I’ve paid deposits…. Both times I regretted it. In each case the provider bowed out at the last minute and changed the appointment for another day. If I didn’t have money committed I would have bailed each time.

Your experience is a fair warning to all regarding paying deposits to people you don’t know. Meeting someone who already has an axe to grind does not sound very relaxing. Cut your loss and fuhgettaboutit

Life is short…move on. If stuff in his personal life bugs you, it’s the perfect opportunity to close this chapter

To the original poster I would suggest booking 2 hours next time. As a client I find that 1 hour is sometimes not enough to squeeze in ample foreplay. And I agree with a lot f the advice above. Don’t just trust the reviews. It’s fair game to reach out to a few former clients on line and ask them directly about their experience with that escort. One-on-one conversations are more instructive and I think you’ll find that most people will be willing to download honestly to you. I would also suggest trying someone over 35 who has been around the block for a while. You want someone with real experience. This may be a really controversial comment but I find that guys who list their preference as bisexual tend to give a more convincing BFE experience. Just my opinion out of the 59 or so Rentmen I’ve hired over the years. YMMV. Good luck and happy fucking

Whether you’re gay or not…in this day and age does it really matter? Nothing is all that digital….or certain. And your feelings will evolve in snapshots of time. Live and enjoy for today

I suppose it’s better than having them tell you in an ad that they’re uneducated and don’t expect to have any kind of deep intellectual conversation. Graduate student escorts are my favorites

I enjoy it when the escort files his nails down smooth so he can massage my hole without scratching me. Generally I’ve noticed that guys with nail polish tend to have nails that are “scratchy”

Many years ago I stayed in a hotel in Japan that had a wall unit with a mirror. I could see that there was a small hole in the mirror that looked different and I was convinced that there was a camera behind it so I put a post it note over it. Later I realized that the TV remote stopped working. I realized that it was just the sensor for the remote. In strange places it’s easy to get paranoid

Life is full of risks. The likelihood of being videotaped in an Airbnb is pretty low. Who would be bothered sitting thru hours of mundane footage anyway?

Just because your massage guy is being directed to do unusual stuff…doesn’t mean that he likes, wants or enjoys doing it. He is getting paid to do a job. Doing things that broaden one’s experience is not always a bad thing. It might result in a better massage. Ive seen a few escorts that have also done some wild porn. In reality they were all pretty vanilla. Everyone wants a good hug.

I like the look of a guys “set” without the gear

You are free to charge whatever you like whenever you like. And I am free to decide whether I want to pay it. The joys of a free market economy. As a consumer with a finite fuck-budget I’m always looking to maximize my dollar. I have always found that there is never a perfect escort so I have to decide whether I need 50 , 65 or 85% of my desires satisfied. I am often ok with going for 50% if it’s a good deal.

I find them uncomfortable. Not a fan of escorts wearing them either but I would never ask one to remove it….no more than I would ask someone to take off their glasses or shave their beard

My trips to Manhattan are not complete without a visit from Kiddo. A great guy…”hard” to beat. And I’m 68