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I find these tend to get arranged on Sniffies app. Guys book a hotel room, advertise their presence and that they’ll be taking loads, and then of course they wait in the room, ass available and receive the loads. Usually they have a buddy available to make sure the tops are organised. You don’t want them to hang around after shooting, or to take too long, or to cause a commotion in the hotel. The rule is, turn up, wait in line if necessary, get yourself close, and then ensure you dump it in him and then leave. I’ve done a couple of these (hired as the buddy to a bottom and to leave the first load to get him started). It’s important to find a good location, advertise it, and of course be patient. Alternatively you can sign up to be a mare at a horse fair event.

Yes, I have a standard reply and adapt it to fit their questions. It definitely matters how I reply because I want to give them a good impression that I’m reliable and professional. Some clients just ask ‘hey I saw your ad’ or even worse ‘hey’… I don’t bother to send much of a reply. Those guys are usually not serious. I’m amazed at the number of guys who just go quiet after I’ve replied: them: ‘Hey’, me ‘Hello’, them……nothing. What are these guys doing? Checking my number is real? Does a reply freak them out? Or those who ask about a date & time, I reply with a ‘yes I can do that’…and then I hear nothing back. What’s that about?

Definitely. I often give a guys ass a playful exploratory spank in a session. If it gets a positive response (pleasured groan, a wiggle of the ass, or it lifting up in expectation of more) then I’ll smack it again, but with slightly more intensity and slightly less playfully. The client usually gets the hint and is encouraged to ask for more. Then my paddle, flogger or strap comes out and he gets his ass reddened! A few clients have discovered a penchant for that kind of massage (or elements of it) in their session. I think it’s part of my job to introduce them to things they were not previously aware they liked or that they were too inhibited to ask for. It’s great to explore like that with a client.

Ok as someone who is a provider and performer in porn let me give my perspective: It can happen, and be quite unexpected. It’s certainly happened to me on occasions when I’ve been with clients and when making porn. We’re all human and can have off days (or just be tired from a sequence of clients). It’s also happened with guys I was filming with when they couldn’t get hard. It’s actually more common than you might realise, especially with guys who have sex professionally. I know guys who inject their cock with trimix before a film shoot because they want to be sure of getting hard. The most important thing is to understand how best to react to it if the guy you hired isn’t hard. You shouldn’t make an issue of it. Try something different, do some massage or stretching together, focus on touch, intimacy and breathing. You’ll find as soon as you remove the expectation that he should get hard then more than likely he will get hard. But if you make a big issue about it then you can be 100% sure it isn’t going to happen.

Oh yes! I feel like replying with ‘not really into sex or anything, I like having a chat and cup of tea, maybe play dominoes? You?’ I mean I appreciate the sentiment, he wants me to have a good time …but honestly you’re hiring me… it’s not about me having a good time. If you’re having a good time then so am I. If he has an unusual kink or something then yeah maybe I do need to know that but if it’s that niche and it doesn’t say on my adverts that I’m into it then maybe the best advice is to hire a guy who has that kind of thing in his repertoire rather than get someone who’s offering something else to do it. It’s like shopping in a hardware store for groceries. It probably won’t work.

Guys complaining about generic responses or the provision of links to websites etc perhaps need to consider how difficult it is to reply in detail to questions like ‘what’s included?’ and ‘when are you free’ or even questions like ‘full service?’ (What are you? A car in need of an oil change?) when they get asked so frequently. I have all the info on my website, so I just say ‘please look at my website for details and ask if you have any questions’. Yet I still get questions about things that are clearly discoverable on the website! But there is a good reason to not engage in too much discussion. The reliable clients who will turn up do their homework and just send a message like ‘hi Jamie I’d like to book 90m at 3pm on x date’. They book in advance, they have a definite date and time and they know all the details. I’m 99% confident they’ll turn up. Those who say ‘hey where are you?’ or ‘how much does it cost?’ or something similarly diffident then I think ‘he’s not vested in booking, it’s not likely to happen’. Sure enough, these guys don’t tend to book, they just like the chat.

I do it in London. It’s great. Especially a room full of guys in Happy Baby pose.

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If I do an out call and say the client books an hour I always go over the hour. In my head I just schedule 90 mins for an hour’s booking. I like to arrive a few minutes early, and then build in plenty of time when ‘time is up’ because you can’t just up and leave on the spot. So an hour’s session last up to 90m by the time I’ve got out of their place. It sounds like the OP hired a guy who’s not really taking the job seriously. Caveat emptor is the relevant phrase…

Proper sensual massage doesn’t need to include a happy ending and to call it a ‘happy ending’ is wrong too. If there is a climax it doesn’t have to happen at the end. It’s best if there’s plenty of time after a guy climaxes for continuation of the massage to bring him back down again gently. Head massage and feet massage are great after climax. Rub and tug guys do a perfunctory massage, then grab and grope at your bum and cock in a rush to get you off. They call it a sensual or erotic massage 🙄. It’s nothing of the sort. In a proper sensual massage the masseur and the client are fused together as if they are inhabiting the same body. Their breath aligns, the masseur moves seamlessly through the sequence like it’s a dance. There’s no separation between massage and ‘happy ending’ because the whole thing is erotic not just the last 5 minutes. That’s why I think guys who’ve done therapeutic massage sometimes get it wrong: they do a therapeutic massage and tag on a hand job and then charge sensual rates. You have to think of a sensual massage as a seduction from before the client even gets on the table. Work their brain as well as their body.

I’m thinking it’s more about their partner, and so are they! Also, people are very quick to say the government is incompetent in most things yet seem absolutely confident that the government has the organisation, coordination and will to listen in to some random guys call with an escort! The government isn’t interested. At least ours isn’t because sex work is legal here. I’m sure they have other more important things to worry about.

I answer calls. I’ve a few regular clients who prefer to book via phone. These guys tend to be the older ones who are ‘old school’. However, it is inconvenient because often I won’t be able to answer, so it’s a missed call. Guys tend not to want to leave voice messages. So much easier to simply text or WhatsApp and I’ll respond when I’m able to. I think the other reason some guys like a call is because they can ask questions they’d be reluctant to put in a text!

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As with everything: yes, for the right price. It would cost a lot. A LOT.

Yes, often the case. If a client wants me to take them to a bath house then I try to recommend the location because I know the good ones that have nice rooms and are clean. Generally the reason clients hire for sauna visits is because they want to experience the sauna but are too scared to go alone. Or they want to be watched while having sex, or the just like the sauna vibe!. For a first experience of hiring I’d definitely agree to get a hotel. It’s your space, it’s more comfortable and is less stressful.

Usually yes I agree but in a bath house booking I get payment in advance if it’s a new client. It’s because I usually include the entrance fee in the price and then I pay for both of us to get in (as I said in my other post- clients don’t want to have to handle any of the admin to get in a sauna). Also once inside it’s possible for the client to disappear. For example you’re both in the cabin/room, client says he needs the toilet and then disappears (I know it could equally happen the other way around but that’s why clients should do some due diligence on their hire). Finally some bath houses wouldn’t want a transaction happening on the premises. So in those situations I ask for payment before we enter. It’s normal with this kind of booking.

No I don’t agree. Some guys are really anxious to go to a bath house (sauna) alone. They want someone to go with who will show them how to behave there and who they can walk around with to get comfortable. If you’re exploring your sexuality or if you’re not conventionally good looking (or you think you aren’t attractive) then bath houses can be intimidating. It’s therefore helpful to have someone who will accompany you and spend time with you there to build your confidence. I’ve arranged quite a lot of sessions at bath houses with my clients. It’s sometimes to take someone who’s never been, sometimes it’s to help guys who want to have sex in public but who want to do it with someone they are attracted to, sometimes it’s to pretend I’m their boyfriend. I think in @ThrowawayAccount’s situation he didn’t get a very empathetic provider. He was clearly too anxious and it seems like there wasn’t much communication between the two of them about expectations. Someone with more patience and understanding would probably have behaved differently to him. It’s a lesson for guys hiring: choose carefully. I’ve had a few clients who seem to be far too anxious to relax despite me trying to help. I think some of these guys are still trying to work out things and they have misguided ideas about sex. They don’t need an encounter with a sex worker at that point, they need a counsellor or someone to help them get over the issues they have about their sexuality.

Most don’t tip. I agree with @GentJ, repeat clients are the best. As for hygiene, I agree with @Gilfson looks is irrelevant but hygiene is essential. Some clients ask me to be as if I’ve come from the gym, that’s different: a fresh sweaty musk is one thing, stale body odour or (and this I have experienced) fragments of tissue between his cheeks ‘down there’ 😱is quite something else. I’m not rimming that.

As with most things there’s a balance to be struck. I’m in favour of pornography (I should be ..I make a living from it 😂) but I also agree it should be controlled so that only consenting adults can see it, and those participating in it should be doing so without coercion or exploitation. Therefore laws like the Online Safety Act such as we have in the UK means that if you want to watch porn you need to prove your age. This protects the vulnerable. Those wanting to watch are able to do so and those who need protecting are protected. Similarly I approve of the sale of sex, again with the same requirements of consent and safety of those selling sex. Here it’s legal to sell sexual services so I don’t have to worry about law enforcement when I work. Indeed if I feel threatened or if a client refuses to pay I can safely call the police and be confident I won’t be treated as the criminal. What the law says I can’t do is sell sexual services in a way that could offend others (such as on the street - heaven forbid!). I agree with this approach. Those who want to buy sexual services can do so, but it’s discreet and it’s safe for all parties. Of course some people working in the industry are exploited but that’s not caused by the legislation which I think is proportionate and balanced. In a civil society the interests of the majority should never completely override the interests of minorities otherwise you get tyranny. It’s incumbent on leaders to make such accommodations and to explain them to the population, which then allows society to progress and develop. Fixed uncompromising positions very quickly because untenable, with unwelcome consequences, as has been regularly demonstrated in history.

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Interestingly that’s not my experience. I actually prefer clients to book in advance. I’ll take on the day clients but often if they leave booking to the day then I’m usually busy and can’t see them. I find if advance bookers do cancel then it’s for good reason and they don’t leave cancelling to the last minute, which is fine by me.