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Anyone other than @LongIslandGuy have luck communicating?

Two questions... 1) Is this a “thing?” 2) How can you tell?

Nope. Not bothered in the least.

??‍♂️ as @marylander1940 advises, you could choose to ignore me...

He messaged me on RM out of the blue. First thing he does is ask for a picture. Not interested in all in what I might be looking for but wants a picture. Just reporting.

I’m surprised to see him advertise. I follow him on IG and somehow something there some time ago (a lot of “somes”, I know) made me think he doesn’t provide. I’d be interested to know how exclusively bottom he is...

I’m sure he’d enjoy it and find it cathartic. Objectively speaking.

I said that like a week ago.

Hey, some here are pretty into assholes.

@marylander1940 – I have no desire to be as escort. ?? @Monarchy79 – I call it as I see it. You call it as you see it. That’s the fun thing about opinions; they’re neither right nor wrong.

@marylander1940 – I have no desire to be as escort. ?? @Monarchy79 – I call it as I see it. You call it as you see it. That’s the fun thing about opinions; they’re neither right nor wrong.

@Jarrod_Uncut – Have you considered writing? A memoir? You don’t understand – it would seem from your posts here – the nature of concision and you love to wax grandiloquent and ad nauseam about yourself. Writing a memoir might be the greatest thing for you to do. You’d get to bitch about how bad escorting has been for you while not doing it! Might I propose a title? Jarrod Uncut: The Plight of a Queerulous Narcissist

You whine a lot.

That’s what I make in two whole weeks...

I feel like that wouldn’t stretch them. That would dismember them. ?

I know folks with CP who drive. So it’s possible. I feel like this is a question best directed at your doctor.

Doesn’t work for me. ??‍♂️

So many unknowns...I wouldn’t be surprised if we learn down the road it’s something genetic. The randomness of who’s affected severely is hard to explain.

I like a phone call too. It does a lot for the trust factor for me. It’s a good way to see if you’re able to talk to one another too. Texting you can say a lot, but talking you can find there’s a lot of crickets. I know I tend to be a better written communicator, so seeing how it goes for me talking is important.

Call me naive, perhaps... But on the whole I want to trust people. I want to. And I want people to trust me. It makes me uncomfortable if I find out that someone doesn’t trust me for some reason, whatever the case. I normally will try to (re)establish trust, but then it becomes hard for me to trust that I’m trusted (again). I suppose that is an insight into my broken mind...

@littlenut – You make a good point about trust. The nature of the deposit in escorting seems to be that some providers come with a built-in suspicion that all clients are flakes.

Oh so savvy ?

It makes me think they don’t take it seriously. It makes me think they take clients for thirsty guys who’ll do anything, include hand over way too much money, to just be with them. It also makes me think they think way more highly of themselves than is merited...

I’ve said before in this thread I’m not paying for his degree. It’s a nice collateral benefit but immaterial for the BFE. It’s telling that’s what he chooses, of all his qualities, to highlight in his screen name.

The inference is that he feels he’s satisfied everything by providing a wall of generic text in order to merit a deposit. He won’t hear a client out before proceeding. The wall of text is, arguably, a way to keep from engaging clients. I suspect most clients won’t engage after that. Perhaps that’s his motive. But to me it shows he doesn’t feel like clients are individuals but rather all very generic and he can satisfy that with a tumblr post. Perhaps he only offers a generic text experience. I wouldn’t know he because he won’t engage enough beyond his wall of text to know. I have given deposits after having been burnt. I’m just not doing it until I’m reasonably certain the provider is going to be able to do what I’m looking for and will get some level of enjoyment out it – or be able to make believe he is. I’m not anti-deposit. It’s just that in order for me to give a deposit the provider needs to be able to reasonably assure me will provide me what I’m looking for – not just some generic explanation about this or that. His generic explanation is not a lot different than many others, so we really have no good idea what we’re getting with him anymore than the next guy. All that, from that wall of text, is inference until questions are answered.