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The beauty of online shopping!

That rule is the No. 1 rule and if you don’t believe so, I would strongly caution any potential client against meeting you. If a client feels uncomfortable, they should not meet. How is that even something you’d argue against? Red flags are there for a reason...It has nothing to do with communication style per se. The guy didn’t communicate in a way that made him feel comfortable. Don’t meet. Full stop. Clients are under NO obligation of to meet...Just as escorts are under no obligation to meet. The rule applies equally to both. Safety begins with the decisions made around being comfortable with communication.

Thank you. Part of the problem is not knowing what is actually good out there. I don’t want leather. I’ll have to check out the eBay stuff. Never even thought of there. At my size, I just assume that a lot of run-of-the-mill places won’t have stuff for me.

So I’m looking for a harness. Not like BDSM leather per se. Nothing chains. But something sexy. I’m a big guy, but I know they make stuff for guys my size and bigger. Any ideas? All thoughts welcome!

I think it has a lot to do with how much of a creep you are. I find being normal goes a long way...

They do. Of course. How could they not? My face is all over it!

I follow two providers’ IG accounts. They follow me too.

Hey! I’ve been told I’m tight!

I’ve found out real names pretty easily. I find guys are pretty open if you’re not a weird ass...

What? That’s what I do! ?

No. 1 rule – if you feel uncomfortable, don’t meet. That said, I wouldn’t given that exchange. This is the kind of exchange that leads to “constant texting,” in my opinion. I’m looking for more than sex, so I need more to know it’s going to work. We end up wasting time because information is not forthcoming...or easy. Also – why would I give you my money or let you fuck me if you can’t communicate with me? Apropos tangent – I will ask an escort I’m booked with if it’s alright to text more than about the meetup before we meet. If he’s not into it, I only check in periodically. If he says he’s fine with it, then I feel it’s okay. I hope he’s honest with me!

I genuinely like to get to know people. Particularly interesting people.

One review from November 4. Tall and young...

Your time doesn’t matter, builder boy...Immaterial. *snark*

He told me he doesn’t like doing appointments. ??‍♂️

This. All this.

I’ll need to add him to my list!

I share this curse. I’m a much better written communicator. Even with good friends. Thomas Jefferson was rumored to have been a poor oral communicator, but he wrote magnificently.

How many unique sets of fingerprints are there? What one provider finds too much another wouldn’t bat an eye at.

I have to remind myself to think with my neural head when I see guys like this. So many red flags but the penile head wants to say, “How bad could it be?” Bad. It could be really bad.

@jtwalker – Good luck! Communicating is the topic on this website you’ll find there’s no dearth of opinion on!

So...you don’t?

That basically means if you’re any kind of planner, he’s not the provider for you. Would you say that’s an accurate statement?

@manmed, glad you had a good experience. It seems connecting and confirming with him is the biggest hurdle.

@Jarrod_Uncut – I’d really like to know.....how does you enforce a cancellation fee?