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Thanks for your opinion. I find ignoring peope shit behavior – especially if someone addresses you directly.

We’ll have to disagree there.

No one is entitled to any attitude. Entitlement complexes are the root of a lot of our social ills.

If I noted any of that on my profile your speculation might have merit. Instead of making excuses for his shit behavior, you could commiserate with me.

I had reached out to him but his silence has soured me on him. Therefore I no longer find him attractive.

Great expectations lead to even greater disappointment.

That’s what I mean by a wider cultural phenomenal. A sad one. Is there a way people who care can change it? I feel like throwing your hands up in the air and saying que sera sera is not helpful.

That’s WhatsApp, which I don’t use with providers because it requires a real telephone number. I got burnt by a “provider” by using my real number some time ago, and so since then I use an app. I haven’t had issues. I use it too call too. In RM Messener though, ✔️✔️ means the guy has looked at the message. Let me be clear, I’m all about giving folks leeway. I know I’ve opened texts and things are going on and I forget to answer. That happens. But when it’s the opening overture and it goes unanswered as is the friendly followup, that gets under my skin and any grace I may have had evaporates very quickly.

Old age can be a curse.

? I can see clearly now... @marylander1940 wanted to have the conversation here so he could continue his geriatric cat fight with @WilliamM.

@marylander1940 wanted us to talk about RM Messenger here. There’s an aversion on this forum to having multiple threads on the same or similar topics – so much so that some long-time members would have threads that have gone silent after several years (ie. “died”) resurrected than a new one started.

My error. Even still. I didn’t think it directly germane.

Glad we’re both entertained then!

@marylander1940 – I’m not supposed to write in threads by @Jarrod_Uncut. You yourself told me to ignore it. And Jarrod says move along. Which is it? I’m sure @Monarchy79 has an opinion he’ll be delighted to share. (Yes, Monarchy79...that was meant to be sarcastic.) Furthermore, I didn’t think my comment about replying was exactly pertinent to this thread. That’s why I named it “Another thing...”

I’m talking not even responding to the initial reachout. Either way, as you say, got to move at some point. It’s a shame because, to my mind, it’s indicative of a wider problem beyond escorting.

I’m just stating my opinion. Does it bother you?

So what are you to make of it? As a general rule, I’ll engage people. I never understood how shooting off a quick response was that much of a time saver. What do you do with that extra 10 seconds spared by not responding? This, I am aware, is a refrain of mine. But it does seem like it’s a problem. Courtesy is no more...At least in communication.

One of the most frustrating things is when you see the ✔✔ in RM Messenger and don’t get a response. Assuming the best, you follow up with another “Hey, I’m just checking in” and get ✔✔ again, no response. It’s one thing to ghost after a bit of conversation and another simply to not respond. Simply venting...

Oh you misunderstood, @marylander1940. Just because you (or anyone) suggests it doesn’t mean I’m going to do it.

@marylander1940 is right though. You do complain. Objectively speaking you expressed your dissatisfaction and annoyance about client expectations (specifically the gym) and their behavior. complain- v. express dissatisfaction or annoyance about something

I’d rather pay for the real thing...I’m tired of porn.

As a general rule, I’m not interested in OF.

I’m beginning to think he’s nice to look at but that’s about it.

Aha. Is the OF worth the price?

Did you text or use RM Messenger?