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This isn’t to say that I always respond immediately to something whenever I see it, text, email, message, or otherwise. But I eventually get back. And if I know at the outset that a simple direct answer will satisfy the inquiry or close down the discussion, that’s what I do. A simple acknowledgment of receipt is courtesy. Courtesy is sadly I believe something of a dead social expectation. If I know once I’ve seen something I don’t have time in the moment to respond, but I will later, I am even going to send you a message stating so much. Again, it’s a matter of courtesy.

It’s not rocket science. For all the lambasting about clients who waste escorts’ time, there’s an equal share of providers who can’t be bothered to be respectful.

I’m pointed about it. You ignored me before. No session. Some have even plead with me. I know business is tough for them when that’s the case. Here’s a tip: be responsible and professional, deliver quality service respectfully, and you won’t need to beg clients for our money.

Just because it’s happening doesn’t make it good – nor does it mean it should stay. I was just talking with my friend yesterday about ghosting. As you say, probably here to stay, at least for a generation. In 60 years time we’ll have a bunch of geezers who won’t respond to anything anyone says to them unless they see an immediate payout. The new, younger generation might respond however with accountability. One can hope...

Is it really that hard for an escort to answer you with a “I’m not interested in providing what you’re looking for?” So much fucking ghosting...Particularly on RM messenger. They ask you what you’re looking for. You tell them. You ask them, professionally, to tell you one way or another if they’re interested. And you then see they’ve read the message, and hours have gone by since they’ve logged in, but they never respond. Clearly they’ not interested, but it’s a pattern. Not interested in providing that? Don’t even fucking bother to say so. Ignore. This ghosting thing is a phenomenon I see among many about 27 and under. Just ignore whatever you don’t feel like dealing with. It doesn’t even have to be escorting. Just in general. God – I sound like an old man. But courtesy seems to suggest that if you’re in business, you’d want to cultivate a good image, even among those who you don’t want to hire you. I can say that if and when I see the name of a particular provider who’s ignored/ghosted me come up here, I’ll be sure to relay how poor communication was. Bad for business.

I say “regular,” when what I should probably say is “go-to.” I see my go-to a few times a year, although there’s nothing regular or periodic about when.

No. It’s not.

Subjective. Communicate. Communicate. Communicate.

Wow. Nope. Good call.

When I lived in Philadelphia, I regularly saw a guy who charged $285 for a 90 minute massage with “release.” I think he charged that because he expected guys to round it up to $300. Because he was good looking and actually very good at the massage, genuinely good at the massage, I was happy to tip $15.

James Marsden...that was...what’s less than underwhelming?

And how do you determine that? How do you decide if you’re dropping your beloved cancellation fee?

You’re projecting. You’re assigning value to their motives without actually knowing. Get your shit straight. ??

I have an open invitation to reply to anything in this forum. ??

Tell me. How do you live with the bifurcated personality who is you? On one hand, you expect clients to pony up with cash – a deposit having not even seen you – and if something – like an “emergency,” as you say – would mean they need to pay you a cancellation fee. Your hypocrisy is showing. You are oh-so poor, yet demand from someone else to be treated like a king. At least, that’s how your posts here read. I’m guessing, also, that carrying your own bags up is something that a lot of escorts and clients do for themselves. That trivializes the whole thing much like you *think* comparing escorting to, say, plumbing. It must be complicated being you keeping track of your multiple expectations…Perhaps if your expectations for clients and for yourself were more closely aligned, you wouldn’t have the issues with clients you do.

? You don’t know how big or hairy I am ?

I’ve been called a bear before. ??

That’s when I drop him too. You ain’t so good you shit ain’t stink, honey. Someone has an overinflated sense of his worth. Now I do believe he’s actually 19...When I was younger, I too thought I was more interesting and worthwhile than I am. Turns out nobody’s really that worthwhile to anyone as much as they’d like to believe. Maybe he’ll find a sugar daddy who’ll drop him the day after he turns 25 and he’ll realize youth is only valuable as long as it lasts. Oh, Dorian Grey!

You ask for ID?

@Jarrod_Uncut – Don’t shit on a plate and tell me it’s chocolate.

I feel like this in a lot of the provider/client interactions.

Curious. Any feedback?

And what are you going to say is your employment when you show those texts?

Not that my opinion really matters for terribly much, but I don’t see any reason why we should go about soliciting new members, particularly clients. I could have a bit of understanding why we might want to have more escorts participate here, but I don’t see any real need to go about soliciting new membership. As people find it and believe it to be useful to them, they’ll join. There’s no impediment to that.