CuriousByNature

6 hours ago, Luv2play said:

As an example, I have a date tomorrow with an escort who is going to fuck me silly. That makes me happy tonight with the thought. Tomorrow I will be filled with joy. And other things. Lol

Who is the mystery man?

On 10/30/2023 at 5:03 PM, Simon Suraci said:

Turning the tables here…a client today requested I mail him a letter instead of texting. He’s 91 years old. I think that’s my oldest client to date. I get it. He’s not great with text communication.

We’re good with phone calls and communicate that way whenever I’m free, and he leaves a VM when I can’t pick up, which really helps. During our session, he brought up some ideas for other things he wants to hire me for besides massage. I gave him a brief rundown, but he needs a list to mull over. I’m going to hand write and snail mail him a menu of additional services to review for future appointments.

Maybe send him a telegram?

33 minutes ago, viewing ownly said:

...Ding Dong remnants in my mouth. 😜

The chocolate cakes with the creamy filling, or something else with a creamy filling?

I think the difference between living happily and living joyfully comes down to whether or not we strive to be grateful in the circumstances we find ourselves in.  The important distinction is being thankful IN a given situation, not necessarily FOR a particular situation.  We all face many things in our lives that we would not wish on our worst enemies, and while we may not be thankful for those things, we can still try to remember things to be grateful for despite our present circumstances.  When the world seems to be swallowing me up for whatever reason, I have found that recounting various blessings I have experienced over the years to be an anchor that stops me from drifting further into despair.  It's easy to compare ourselves to those who seem to have everything we would want for ourselves, but it's more difficult to think of those people who have things much worse than what we have ever suffered.  I believe perspective is really important. 

And as cliche as it may sound, loving others is also key.  Not simply loving someone because they have deserved or somehow earned our love, or loving them because we want something from them.  But instead, loving others simply because you want the very best for the other person - no strings attached - even if they could never hope to deserve it.  Love as a proactive extension of yourself in creating good, not as a reactive response to something good you have benefitted from.  

39 minutes ago, Danny-Darko said:

Just like the "F" word and the "N" word. I feel those that claim they are trying to "reclaimed it" do so in poor taste and poor judgment doing themselves and all of us a disservice. But that's just my opinion. Others obviously think differently about it. Language does change though not always for the better. Call me old-fashioned.  

I had a great-aunt who would say, "I'm feeling a bit queer," if she wasn't feeling 100%.  We used to laugh under our breaths because we all thought she was probably a lesbian anyway, regardless of how she was feeling.

I hear he may be in Belgrade trying to reunite the former Yugoslav republics...

1 hour ago, Lucky said:

 

Since you put this in a travel section, can I assume you want information hotels, restaurants, or tours? You give no idea on what you are truly seeking.

I would be seeking the best Taiwanese Beef Noodle Soup and Pineapple Cake... but that's just me.

13 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I was repeatedly molested the summer I was 8 years old.
 

30 years later, I had a masseur that would always blow me at the end of our sessions. I loved it. I looked forward to it. I saw him probably 24 times over 3 years. It was great. He was great. 
 

At my last appointment, he raped me. I was on my stomach looking forward to my blow job when I rolled over.  He got on top of the table, spit on his dick and popped it in. I froze. I felt 8 years old again and trapped. It was awful. I didn’t give him any indication that I wanted penetration. We never spoke of it. I didn’t insinuate that I wanted it. There were no misinterpreted signals. He saw my bare ass and he took it. I couldn’t move. I had no idea what to do and just laid there. 
 

I agree that there is a rape culture in America.  I also believe that people find themselves in sexually charged situations and freeze. I think when you have a little bit of distance from the trauma, you realize that you weren’t giving consent.  I also think the regret is tied to the inaction. I was so mad at myself for not stopping him. I regretted not beating the shit out of him. 

I'm really sorry this happened to you - both the earlier molestation and the later rape.  

4 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

Actually there are rare cases and my younger sister was one where her chickenpox vaccine as a child did not take. I and my two brothers all got the vax.  

My sister developed a case of shingles and chickenpox simultaneously about 10 years ago in her 60s. It was very painful and affected her entire torso. Her doctor told her it was one for the medical books! 

Now that I've hit 50 I'm planning to get the shingrix vaccine. 2 doses about 3 months apart. I know some people can experience pain for months or even years from shingles, so I'd like to avoid that if possible - or reduce the effects at least.

On 10/24/2023 at 1:31 PM, Tygerscent said:

I was just reading g an article about shingles breakthrough in the 30’s 49’s age group…  
 It’s on the uprise in that age group population~     
 My wonder is, if somehow those getting vaccinated for shingles are getting mild cases of it, but, also carrying and spreading a variance form of it, not realizing that they actually have shingles. And some variance displaying symptoms in that younger age group is becoming stronger, more virulent and/or more communicable 

I could be wrong, but I don't believe a person can spread shingles.  I haven't had it, but my former neighbour did.  I used to do his grocery shopping, and my doctor told me that I couldn't catch anything from him because I had already had chicken pox.  Perhaps I am mistaken, but my understanding is that someone with shingles can transmit the infection as chicken pox to those who have never had it before, but that you only develop shingles when the old chicken pox virus is reactivated as shingles later on - normally when a person's immune system is stressed.  That neighbour ultimately had shingles two times before getting the vaccination.  

On 10/6/2023 at 1:10 PM, pubic_assistance said:

All very true. But based on the little bit of inside information I get from my wealthy Canadian friends who are well connected with local leadership....things are not looking good up there. There are storm clouds brewing and they are also concerned about the future.

Personally I would move to Copenhagen if I were to plan an escape of the USA.

I'm not sure that storm clouds are brewing, but Canada is not the utopia some people may think it is.  There are many good things, but especially if you are wealthy, white, have strong family connections, and live in a decently-sized city with available services.  I have lived here all my life, in various places both urban and rural, but I cannot see myself staying here once I get older.  While the medical care will never bankrupt you, you get what you pay for in terms of wait times, access to treatments, and general anxiety about finding a family doctor.  And the reserved nature of many Canadians means that it isn't very easy to get to know people, and for anyone who is single and living alone, this can translate to a feeling of isolation - even in big cities like Toronto and Vancouver.  If I stay in Canada, and if I assume I'll live into my elderly years, I expect to either check myself in to a care facility while I still have the capacity to do so - or risk being found dead in my apartment/house only after the smell starts bothering the neighbours.  I haven't lived anywhere else, but I could definitely see myself living in some parts of Europe where taxes may be higher but services are much better, or in Asia, where there is still a healthy respect for and acceptance of the elderly as valued members of society.   Of course there are many, many places where it is far worse to live than Canada, but I think Canada makes a fool of itself whenever it tries to come across as being superior to others - particularly in relation to our neighbour to the south.  We have many of the same problems but ours don't become the focus of global media attention like they do in the States.  

In the spooky spirit of the season...

1 hour ago, Quincy_7 said:

Tragic, but how does a man of his (relatively young) age end up with kidney failure?

There can be a variety of reasons - chronic high blood pressure, diabetes, infection, autoimmune issues, etc.  

5 hours ago, m4same said:

I was just in New York and I attended a lunchtime gathering in a private space.  It cost $30 and there was a 3 hour window for play.  Everyone had to check their clothes at the door. We could wear underwear if we chose. And shoes. People were respectful and took no for an answer.  There was lots of fucking, sucking, and JO.  Most of the guys were older but there was a nice variety of ages, ethnicities, and body types.  I found the experience positive and exciting. I would guess there were around 50 guys attending while I was there.

This was at the Guggenheim, right?  I've read they sometimes incorporate interpretive live performance in some special exhibits.

3 hours ago, BSR said:

It's on my bucket list as well, although I do wonder if the idea (poshness, glamour) is better than the reality (7 days, no ports).

The best tip I found about transatlantic crossings was to fly east and sail west so that you get an extra hour on 5 days of the journey.  If you sail NYC->Southampton, you lose an hour on 5 days and will likely sleep through all those terrific English breakfasts.

I have really enjoyed the transatlantic and Hawaii cruises I've done because I find the days at sea to be enjoyable and relaxing.  Sitting on deck with a book, exploring the ship, and getting to know crew members are highlights for me, and equally important as the days in port from my experience.

But can they cook?

1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Unfortunately that is becoming the norm on many cruise lines who now have exclusive restaurants, swimming pools, and lounges reserved for suite occupants.  (Celebrity and Norwegian come to mind).

At least Cunard still enforces a formal dress code for evening dinners and entertainment.   It is ludicrous to attend an "exclusive" restaurant for a five course meal only to be sat next to people wearing Tshirts and denim.

Yes, I noticed that was happening.  It's nice to have specialty restaurants that you might pay extra for as long as anyone on board can book reservations, and it isn't just open to those in specific suite categories.  I have seen that some mainline companies have started to have segregated lounges, clubs and dining spots for their 'premium' guests - I guess so those who need to feel exclusive and separate can still feel special as they slum along the coast for 7 days with the rest of us peasants... hahaha.  And I think it's great that perks are available to those who are loyal to a particular line and who manage to acquire mileage or points.  Free laundry, free internet, free specialty restaurant dining, etc.  But I draw the line when someone is turned away from a restaurant simply because they happen to be in an inside stateroom rather than a signature suite.  Especially single travellers who already may have to pay hefty 100% supplements but receive only half the included bonuses.

I have not, but mostly because they maintain the old system of 'classes' on board, with certain pay categories allowed to eat in certain dining rooms, etc.  I hate the feeling of missing out because I can't afford a luxury suite...lol

In the 90s I thought the cast and the show were really funny.  But rewatching episodes in the 2020s, I find pretty much every character on that show incredibly annoying.  I doubt the original would have done as well if it were made today.

On 7/29/2023 at 3:58 PM, BenjaminNicholas said:

He's still jacked from doing the new film about the Von Erich wrestling family, The Iron Claw.  He's playing Kerry.

The real KVE was a stunning man.  Movie star face and an incredible body.  Sadly, he also inherited the family depression.

And the next generation also includes Marshall and Ross von Erich - hopefully they'll live long and happy lives.

And at the other end of the spectrum, a daytime soap actor (Joseph Mascolo) had parents who were married 80 years and 9 days.  He himself 'only' lived to be 87.

What always amazes me is the number of people born on their birthday.  Nearly 100%  I think.  But then again, I also moved to a new city after I read that most car accidents happen within 10 blocks of home.

Hello all - probably a stupid question, but what does it mean if someone says they're a side?  I've heard of top and bottom, but is side a position or is it a role?  

Has anyone heard anything from @colonexstacy?  He took quite a beating from some forum members a few weeks back, and he's also been dealing with serious health issues.  I'm concerned.