AceHardware

You may have reviews, but your attitude is far from professional.

@Gar1eth posting here over 15 years
@ParkLaneDallas posting here like the last 12 hours.
Who has the credibility?

The first escort I ever hired was John from Atlanta, formerly Smalltown John. We had communicated extensively about my lack of experience, etc, and made an appointment for an afternoon session when my kids would be in school. That morning, I got a call saying one of the boys had gotten sick and needed to go home. I nervously called John to explain, assuming he'd think I was flaking-- and he couldn't have been nicer. He said he completely understood and asked if I wanted to reschedule. We did, for two days later (a weekend so I had to hire a baby sitter) and it was completely awesome.

Saw Viking. A huge fucking disappointment. Great body true to his pics but he just lays there like that’s enough. Couldn’t have been any more uninterested in providing a fun experience. What a colossal waste of time and $300. His ad says he’s a great conversationalist. Oh? I must have missed that part when he immediately jumped from the bed to burying his head in his cell phone and appointment book. #neveragain

Hi guys, I'm new here, new to everything (& trying to learn M4M etiquette). Been soaking up your wisdom as I get ready to take the plunge myself--thanks for your candor and generous advice.
 
Just wanted to point out what's kinda funny to me. One of https://rent.men/Timonxxxl 's 5-star reviews on RM was by https://rent.men/sugarsweet, who reviewed 2 other people with the exact same photos as Timonxxxl in the last year. Truly a revolving door for those photos (which are definitely hot).

The little I know about you tells me you have a big heart and this is further evidence that you truly care. That's sweet, but sometimes doesn't get you anywhere. Personally, the moment I notice I'm dealing with a timewaster, I cut off the conversation immediately. No sad stories, no back and forth, no seeing what might happen - just end it. It might feel cruel or rude, but it's not up to you to figure out what's going on with the person on the other end - they are wasting your time, intentional or not, cognitive impairment or not.
 
Anyway, I love that you also pivoted to learn more about CP. It's not something a lot of people understand.

The first time I met him, he was great. You can read my review at https://daddysreviews.com/cruise/2018-02-09/warren_parker_portland. However, the second we met, he was super high (just weed) and spaced out - he really should have not charged me - but I paid and later complained and got 50% back. When I told him I wouldn't need his services anymore, he started attacking my integrity which made no sense at all.. So he's great but not always dependably so.

The facts are spent numerous times coordinating a weekend and after finally having all details worked out, dates flights.dollars etc, he just completely fell off the face of the earth. Not into time wasters or games.

I suspect this is a bit of a toss off line, but it's more than a bit harsh and callous. "Randy" appears to be a young man facing a difficult time in his life. Neither you nor I nor anyone who isn't close to him knows what factors have contributed to his current situation, but I doubt it's as simple as "ego" or thinking they're "invincible and irreplaceable". Many young men turn to porn because they lack other opportunities or they face a short term financial crisis. They lack the resources (family, friends, connections, educational opportunities, etc.) to thrive, so they get involved in porn. If they become accustomed to the fleeting adulation that may accompany acting in porn, whatever it says about them, it says at least as much about the rest of us who watch them, seek them out and folow them on social media, fawn over them, and then turn our attention to the next shiny new model.
 
Much like with the escorts we hire, it's worth remembering that porn actors are people, too. Compassion rather than dismissal and derision can be good for the soul.

The comments from the reviewer:


I left after 10 minutes because this man physically assaulted me. This person is a danger and should be removed from this site.

This is the very first post from the @Iamajohnson12 account that was created less than an hour before.

Sorry you had a bad experience, but in Sydney there's Big Zac https://rentmen.eu/BIGzac
He's sexy as fuck, a ton of fun and a really nice guy to boot! He was just visiting NYC when I met him but WOOOOOOF he would make a great "boyfriend" if we lived closer
 
If you're traveling I recommend checking out the forums first for guidance before hiring....that's saved me thousands of wanted dollars and hundreds of near-miss bad experiences!

No negative review of an individual Sydney escort here, but a cautionary tale. I was in Sydney Australia the other day, and decided that hiring an escort would be a good idea. Very few reviews on this forum for Sydney guys. So I took a chance on a handsome Rentmen.eu listed escort. But I didn't ask if he really liked to kiss (which I do and he didn't), or if his photos were up to date (they weren't). His version of the Boy Friend Experience was a lot different from mine ("just look at me and admire my beauty and charm"). I could and should have avoided this bleak (and expensive) experience by asking the right questions. Shame on me.

I have met with Mike Gaite numerous times over the past several years. He NEVER disappoints. I wish I could say that about others I’ve met, but I can’t.

I admit that virtually all (with very few exceptions) of escorts I've hired have been those I feel that are the most "safe" - that is, reviewed on Daddy's, or otherwise clearly "legit." I've hesitated to go through with hires that aren't - I've had potential offers from guys on Doublelist, for instance, that I've just been too leery of, without the assurance that they'll be for real. How do you approach this with guys on sites like Grindr? Is it just blind trust, or are there ways to be mostly assured that they're not scammers or even cops, etc?

Took plunge Underwhelming.

Once within the past year went to an in-call, 260 CDN. My world was not rocked, but I did not feel cheated.
 
Also have witnessed him dance once at a gay strip club.
 
As you know, hint hint, many macho straight guys have to concentrate to top you properly.
 
He comes across more African American than Caribbean Canadian. I did not sense any diva 'tude.
 
My one reservation occurs with lack of neck-up photos, hell, any photos ... Face and smile fit a fantasy such as "hot built cop" mid-30s just fine. I was very relieved at first glance in person.
 
Note: I am prepared to course-correct if this is too "review-y", but I hire from web ads merely once every 4-5 years and do not have a Hx of formal reviews.

You have the right of it to not take this personally. Even in this somewhat narrowly focused forum, hysteria is not limited to imagined issues with escorts, and when questioned, the hysterics frequently don't respond. 'Tis the nature of the web...

mmmm...flannel
 
I'd like to know what "morbid" comes from in Spanish; I've seen it on profiles for cam hosts. I also see "I am very complacent," which seems to translate from "easygoing," but of course sounds like "dull" in English.

This has happened to me on multiple occasions. Very transparent their "situations" were fictional. So I always play the game they are playing. If they ask to "borrow" money for an "emergency" I give them a laundry list of the "emergencies" that I have. Telling them I would love to loan them the money, I then follow up with multiple reasons why I can't. I tell them: 1) My adjustable rate mortgage just got jacked sky high so my house payment just went up $2,000/month 2) My mother just got placed in a facility and I am footing the bill of $4,500/month 3) I was just hit with a huge IRS bill of $9,700. I then tell them I am lucky to scrounge up the money just to continue seeing them. This shuts them up fast, as they count their blessings at least they have not lost me as a regular client. They never ask again, just happy I am not dropping them. Works every time. Two can play this game.

Yet...we still find MANY fake pics being used on RM. why?

Here's one of the comments on Rentmen:
 
He did not look like the pictures. He was late. He ordered food during our session. He wanted his full tip up front. He gave a very mediocre backrub and then proceeded to beat off to a straight video on his phone until he came on my chest. I paid for 90 minutes and barely got 60. He is a sweet talking scammer. Watch out for this one!
 
He's real, he's just not the guy in the photos and he's running multiple ads in the same cities.

If there is a spy among us, or he himself is spying...I hope he knows that after he blackmailed / extorted my client and friend; I went ahead and compiled everything but the kitchen sink on this guy, just in case he didn’t care for my comments. I armor up before I go to battle. ??
Now I said my peace, I’m done with it. But this is a circle that protect its own; or SHOULD.

Well then! If I'm lucky enough to ever have the opportunity, Ranier it is Good on all of you to rally around a quality guy!

Won't send a verified selfie. I say FAKE.