I'd Stay Away From Dallas Masseur/Escorts ParkLane

[+ Gar1eth]

https://rent.men/ParkLaneDallas

 

 

The following entails my entire message history with them. I didn't even contact them first, and I only replied to their query to be polite as I didn't really have any interest in two tops.. I will admit to looking at their ad from time to time. But I browse thru most of the Dallas ads when I'm bored.

 

And of course posting about them just gives them more publicity which might be increase their business. But sometimes egregious behavior ought be be called out

 

 

 

Gman

Edited November 30, 2019 by Gar1eth

[+ aeikaryoko]

Whoa!!! That escalated quick and that last response, such unprofessional hostility.

[Skip]

Well, look at them....do they look professional? I think you were the winner here.

[+ poolboy48220]

Am I reading this right? He contacted you first?

[blightuponyou]

That is so bizarre! I have seen them for a session that was an hour of massage and an hour of play. At the time it did not seem like much of an issue!

 

Also, it is insane that they had this reaction after contacting you and getting your honest response. I don’t like to throw this out as an excuse but...drugs?

[MrMattBig]

I think part of the issue too is the ghosting and blocking that has become norm as a passive form of rejection. So when someone is encountered by an active rejection like "I don't think it would work out" they don't have the skill set and perspective to deal with that and lash out. Which can then be exacerbated by drugs and desperation.

[+ Gar1eth]

Whoa!!! That escalated quick and that last response, such unprofessional hostility.

 

There were several days between the last two responses. I had looked at their ad between the two responses. But I look repeatedly at lots of ads when I'm bored.

 

Gman

[MrMattBig]

There were several days between the last two responses. I had looked at their ad between the two responses. But I look repeatedly at lots of ads when I'm bored.

 

Gman

Good point. There's an attitude of some out there that they don't want anyone looking at their ad if they are not going to meet and pay. That's extreme for a public ad on RM. That's what onlyfans and the like are for.

[hypothetically]

Good point. There's an attitude of some out there that they don't want anyone looking at their ad if they are not going to meet and pay. That's extreme for a public ad on RM. That's what onlyfans and the like are for.

 

Yes, but due to OnlyFans and similar services, there is an uptick in people who subscribe to RentMen just to view content with little intent to hire. This behavior was already unnerving for a lot of escorts, but it has increasingly become the norm. A lot of escorts lack the communication skills and professionalism to deal with this behavior in stride, and here we are. No, that’s not why the platform exist but a member is also entitled to do as they please with their membership.

[+ Gar1eth]

Yes, but due to OnlyFans and similar services, there is an uptick in people who subscribe to RentMen just to view content with little intent to hire. This behavior was already unnerving for a lot of escorts, but it has increasingly become the norm. A lot of escorts lack the communication skills and professionalism to deal with this behavior in stride, and here we are. No, that’s not why the platform exist but a member is also entitled to do as they please with their membership.

 

Personally I think clients and potential clients have always window-shopped. I know I have. I looked at ads repeatedly for years, starting with pre-Rentboy sites when I couldn't even imagine myself hiring (and didn't have the money)-->to Rentboy and M4RN days when I finally hired and did have money-->to Rentmen now when I would hire if I could, but I don't have the money.

 

The main difference that I see is that on RM, unless you turn the option off, the escort gets notified of people looking at even their public profiles without the viewer sending a request for, or if a paid member, clicking on the semi-privates.

 

Gman

[Guest buffwolverine]

That is so bizarre! I have seen them for a session that was an hour of massage and an hour of play. At the time it did not seem like much of an issue!

 

Also, it is insane that they had this reaction after contacting you and getting your honest response. I don’t like to throw this out as an excuse but...drugs?

 

I’ve met with them twice before and had a really positive experience. I also met with David at least 6 times before he partnered up for massage only and had an excellent experience.

[BaronArtz]

I think part of the issue too is the ghosting and blocking that has become norm as a passive form of rejection. So when someone is encountered by an active rejection like "I don't think it would work out" they don't have the skill set and perspective to deal with that and lash out. Which can then be exacerbated by drugs and desperation.

 

I will say that I often browse RM like I would IG. Just looking at what's new and interesting out there. If anyone puts up an ad on RM, you are putting yourself into the public domain and opening yourself up to scrutiny. That is just part of selling a service to the public. Not every prospective buyer will actually proceed. A good service offered at a reasonable price will find buyers. You mention 'desperation'. I am sorry to read this. I would just say - if the business model is not working - you are better off rethinking what it is you offer. I find in crowded markets like NYC, where I live, a high number of providers offer a questionable service at a price that is way too high. Instead of being desperate because business is bad, think about what it is you are doing and make changes.

[MrMattBig]

I will say that I often browse RM like I would IG. Just looking at what's new and interesting out there. If anyone puts up an ad on RM, you are putting yourself into the public domain and opening yourself up to scrutiny. That is just part of selling a service to the public. Not every prospective buyer will actually proceed. A good service offered at a reasonable price will find buyers. You mention 'desperation'. I am sorry to read this. I would just say - if the business model is not working - you are better off rethinking what it is you offer. I find in crowded markets like NYC, where I live, a high number of providers offer a questionable service at a price that is way too high. Instead of being desperate because business is bad, think about what it is you are doing and make changes.

Just to clarify I hope you mean "you" in a collective sense. In my perspective I mentioned desperate in relation to the escort in the OP, because when the OP stated they would not be a match sexually, the escort then proceeded to still get an appointment and payment by pressuring them into a massage appointment. And it was how they phrased it as well.

"Ok I see, well I do offer massage sessions as well if you would be interested in that"....cool, perfect.

"So you never get massages on here, just sex?"

That's some passive aggressive nonsense which in the circumstances of involving payment to me indicates at least some form of desperation.

[+ Gar1eth]

Am I reading this right? He contacted you first?

 

YEP!!

 

Gman

[+ Hung_Cody]

YEP!!

 

Gman

 

LMFAO, I clicked on their profile about half an hour ago after reading this post....and sure enough they emailed me and asked if I want to set up and appointment. Obviously I am not going to engage!

[marylander1940]

https://rent.men/ParkLaneDallas

 

 

The following entails my entire message history with them. I didn't even contact them first, and I only replied to their query to be polite as I didn't really have any interest in two tops.. I will admit to looking at their ad from time to time. But I browse thru most of the Dallas ads when I'm bored.

 

And of course posting about them just gives them more publicity which might be increase their business. But sometimes egregious behavior ought be be called out

 

 

 

Gman

 

people have bad days... let it go.

 

Am I reading this right? He contacted you first?

 

We've had a few threads on escorts reaching out to guys who simply saw their ads. I can't seem to find them now. I wouldn't recommend that practice, but some told me it works for them because some guys are just too shy to even dare to contact.

Edited November 30, 2019 by marylander1940

[marylander1940]

Yes, but due to OnlyFans and similar services, there is an uptick in people who subscribe to RentMen just to view content with little intent to hire. This behavior was already unnerving for a lot of escorts, but it has increasingly become the norm. A lot of escorts lack the communication skills and professionalism to deal with this behavior in stride, and here we are. No, that’s not why the platform exist but a member is also entitled to do as they please with their membership.

 

@Mocha are you back?

[+ Gar1eth]

https://rent.men/ParkLaneDallas

 

 

The following entails my entire message history with them. I didn't even contact them first, and I only replied to their query to be polite as I didn't really have any interest in two tops.. I will admit to looking at their ad from time to time. But I browse thru most of the Dallas ads when I'm bored.

 

And of course posting about them just gives them more publicity which might be increase their business. But sometimes egregious behavior ought be be called out

 

 

 

Gman

people have bad days... let it go.

 

On one hand I could respond that my name isn't Elsa.

 

But in actuality I'm fine. I had no intention of ever hiring them. And as they have no private pictures as of now, I can always log out and view their ad non-stop if I should somehow become overwhelmed by lust for either of them.

 

However the level of vitriol they express for simply looking at their profile and not hiring them moves them "beyond the pale." If they are going to react like this to people viewing their profile and not hiring, what might they do if they got upset and you were seeing them in person?

 

Gman

[marylander1940]

On one hand I could respond that my name isn't Elsa.

 

But in actuality I'm fine. I had no intention of ever hiring them. And as they have no private pictures as of now, I can always log out and view their ad non-stop if I should somehow become overwhelmed by lust for either of them.

 

However the level of vitriol they express for simply looking at their profile and not hiring them moves them "beyond the pale." If they are going to react like this to people viewing their profile and not hiring, what might they do if they got upset and you were seeing them in person?

 

Gman

 

You're overreacting... they got mad with you and others, maybe they're having a bad day as I said before.

 

They reacted (to you) in an unprofessional way.

 

Have you ever regretted saying something to someone because you got mad, or misunderstood their intentions? Rude reactions happen more often online. Next time if you're not interested in hiring someone just don't answer and make them waste their time reading your reply and wondering if you're a potential client. They might spend even more time then you do online, because that's part of their job...

 

This can't be the first time someone blocked you or call you names online? Here they might get temporarily banned yet some have called other names and got away with it.

 

Move on, plenty of other guys available. They shouldn't be worth your time!

[+ Gar1eth]

You're overreacting... they got mad with you and others, maybe they're having a bad day as I said before.

 

They reacted (to you) in an unprofessional way.

 

Have you ever regretted saying something to someone because you got mad, or misunderstood their intentions? Rude reactions happen more often online. Next time if you're not interested in hiring someone just don't answer and make them waste their time reading your reply and wondering if you're a potential client. They might spend even more time then you do online, because that's part of their job...

 

This can't be the first time someone blocked you or call you names online? Here they might get temporarily banned yet some have called other names and got away with it.

 

Move on, plenty of other guys available. They shouldn't be worth your time!

 

Yes, I've occasionally gotten mad. And sometimes there have been consequences.This is their consequence. But in the long run isn't really a major consequence. It might keep a few clients away, but it also might drive some people to see them.

 

And I'll repeat the same thing I said to your first post. I'm fine. I've let it go-so maybe I am Elsa after all. However although I've let it go, I still think people should see the interaction. Even if I had the money and were a bottom, they never really appealed to me. That doesn't mean I would never look at their photos. I'll look at a lot of guys I would never hire when I'm bored.

 

Gman

[newhudson]

Yes, I've occasionally gotten mad. And sometimes there have been consequences.This is their consequence. But in the long run isn't really a major consequence. It might keep a few clients away, but it also might drive some people to see them.

 

And I'll repeat the same thing I said to your first post. I'm fine. I've let it go-so maybe I am Elsa after all. However although I've let it go, I still think people should see the interaction. Even if I had the money and were a bottom, they never really appealed to me. That doesn't mean I would never look at their photos. I'll look at a lot of guys I would never hire when I'm bored.

 

Gman

You are quite active on here yet you don't hire. There's plenty of free porn on the internet if you're bored and have no money.

[+ Gar1eth]

You are quite active on here yet you don't hire. There's plenty of free porn on the internet if you're bored and have no money.

 

Thank you for your contribution to the thread.

 

Gman

[+ Gar1eth]

While I've definitely Elsa'd them ("Let it go"), a friend just informed me their original ad is gone. I wonder if they read the Message Center, or someone told them about the thread.

 

And they've changed their name to this.

 

https://rent.men/DallasFourHand

 

Gman

Edited November 30, 2019 by Gar1eth

[+ OliverSaks]

Why even respond if you have no intention of hiring them (or anyone?) so you can roast them publicly on this forum?

 

They were foolish to respond like that, and I don’t condone that, but you’re basically just admitting to being a time waster.

[+ Gar1eth]

Why even respond if you have no intention of hiring them (or anyone?) so you can roast them publicly on this forum?

 

They were foolish to respond like that, and I don’t condone that, but you’re basically just admitting to being a time waster.

 

You're wrong, Oliver. I did not initiate the contact. I only responded to tell them I wasn't interested. They were the ones who texted me again after that. I explained why I didn't want only a massage.

 

As I didn't initiate the texts, and only responded to their requests, I don't think I can be accused of being a time waster-well you could-but I'd disagree and would if it had happened to anyone else too. As for the roasting, I'm not the one that went way, way overboard to someone that had done them no harm at all.

 

So I guess I've had my say. I'll bow out of the thread now.

 

Gman