Coolwave35

I think findom is less about sex and more about power. If I was into it, I think I’d want to be findommed by someone feminine, perceived to have less power than me, perceived to be remorseless and exploitive etc. I’m not, but I could see why this dude checks the boxes. 

7 hours ago, Archangel said:

Perhaps money isn’t an issue per se, but the Client wants to know simply to know?

I don’t think that this statement can be true. In my personal experience, (not escorting) when a client starts with how much will it be, it’s because they have a problem affording it, OR they still use money as a resource things should be measured by.  When you get to a place where financial freedom allows time to become the resource by which to measure everything, you stop asking “how much” in my experience.  There are escorts that only want to target those people.  I think that may be what he’s doing, and God bless him, that’s the level of service he offers so more power to him. Only one provider I’ve come across in 20 years has been better. 

Every time I’ve been at Walmart or Target and the person in front of me asks the cashier to scan something for a price, 80% of the time they don’t buy it.  I’ve been around lots of folks with money and lots of folks without. No rich person has ever asked the waitress how much the dinner special was simply because they wanted to know. 

When I’m hiring, my last sentence after agreeing to terms is always “Thanks for making that so easy! I want to be prepared for our meeting, how much cash should I have with me?”  And then they tell me. 

When I was spending time with this provider, we’d go shopping to Best Buy. He didn’t ask me for a budget, he just picked what he wanted. When we went shopping in Paris, we went into the designer stores and picked what he looked good in. The only thing he wanted that I didn’t say yes to was a gold Louis Vuitton bangle bracelet and it wasn’t the price that had me say no.

When we picked out the French provider to join us one evening, we didn’t sort by lowest priced. We picked the guy we were both into and got him there quickly. 

This isn’t a dig at anyone for being price conscious. I certainly was until I wasn’t. It’s merely an observation of what I see in my experience of a minority of clients and how they shop. 

There was an influencer I was REALLY into visually. I liked his content. I wanted to meet him. I DM’d him and said I want to meet you this weekend and I’ll Venmo a $3k deposit. He said “what if I don’t show”. I said then you’ll lose a follower.  That’s your risk. But if you do show, you’ll gain much more than that. He showed. 

These guys know how to get what they’re looking for, and they follow their intuition. I’ve gotten 2 PMs already from people that went for the $1k and weren’t disappointed. They also got more than an hour. 
 

“does anyone actually like Anderson Cooper?” 

4 hours ago, robberbaron4u said:

This is RB4U signing off on this one.

Yay! 

You got scammed dude, it happens to the best of us. Move on and don’t make the same mistake again. Sorry he got one over on you. It sucks. 

2 hours ago, robberbaron4u said:

The title to the Mercedes and the deed to the condo...

I’ve missed your jealousy motivated snark on my comments. It’s good to be the subject of your contempt again. 

2 minutes ago, nycman said:

It’s like an unfinished symphony!

I usually finish things. This one is out of the ordinary. 

4 hours ago, cany10011 said:

If it is unfinished... what was left unsaid/undone? Will you see him again to close/reopen the chapter? 

I’m unsure.  This was how it was left. He had messaged me and invited me to lunch. Then the plan just kinda didn’t happen. No more was said. He’s still in my will though. 
 

We went to Paris. It was amazing. I know I wrote about the whole trip here somewhere. He was the guy. I feel ok identifying him now that he’s on RM. 

We spent a lot of time together over the course of a year I think. We had some crazy sexual adventures with another provider and some really fun club nights. 
 

Of all the paid providers I’ve enjoyed over the past decade, he’s the only one I miss and it feels unfinished. 
 

I realize I have a distorted view of money because I have it in abundance so I can’t really weigh in on whether a thousand for a session is worth it for a first timer. Sorry. 😕

Brogan linked above is amazing. 

7 hours ago, newdad said:

Did he not find any sugar daddies on seeking? He seems really good looking to not have found any.

We’re out of touch so I’m not sure what the last 18 months in his life has looked like.  

1 hour ago, Whatsupandstuff said:

who Leo????

Collin

My blonde buddy is going as a first time dancer. He’s a cutie. Enjoy fellas! 

Ahhhhhh the memories….. 

I have had many many many amazing experiences with him. I met him on seeking years ago. I’m not surprised he’s escorting. He’s very good at what he does and you won’t be disappointed. 

1 hour ago, RichArt said:

This is a catfish.

Called it!

When I give them a house key, they’re regulars. 

21 hours ago, JesseT said:

Do you do pay-per-meet? Or are your sugar dates on monthly allowances? Wonder what's the market rate now.

I only do pay per meet these days. The allowance model didn’t suit me. 

Seeking is where it’s at in Orlando. I see this guy a few times a year when I head down and have never have a bad time. Blonde, blue eyed, great teeth, nice dick. 

59 minutes ago, jmichaeliii said:

We never met.  The logistics did get messed up again.

We texted and all is cool.  When he comes to Philly again we are gonna take another shot.

 

You know what they say, 4th time is a charm! 

3 hours ago, Atlanta_Guy said:

Any recommendations for hotels close to the Adonis lounge nude party? 

Hampton inn and suites on 24th. Cheap clean easy to bring boys home to. 

#catfish

On 12/19/2022 at 2:59 PM, KensingtonHomo said:

I think my roll is at the correct speed. 

I laughed too loud at this. I can’t wait to use it in real life. 

My friend is a prominent porn star. He ALWAYS gets reported on Grindr as impersonating himself which is hysterical to me. 

“Codes”, symbols and phrases that still work that I see creeping up in cities and suburbs off the top of my head are. 

pampered spoiled 👑🌹

I don’t like going Dutch 

The most clever I had ever seen in a headline was 

I’m Jenna Russ

I got the DJ naked with a very nominal amount of money, guys are getting easier and easier. It was great overall.  I got to hang with many forum guys, which is always nice. Brogan remains a star.