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I feel like with the safe-sex question, this can be the only way. I think it just varies too much from encounter to encounter for it to be in the item record. Let's keep it simple though. Condoms used? Yes/No. That's pretty straightforward.

I've definitely had difficulty communicating with non-English speaking escorts. Fortunately I do know Spanish and kinda French/Portuguese so knowing they speak those languages can be useful. Maybe we do a few ones that we feel are common in escorts (Spanish, French, Portuguese and Russian come to mind) and if it's a very unusual language, it can be put in the text. I'm wondering if part of the problem is that we are basically relying on RM instead of our own experiences for a lot of these things. "Ask Me" is an option for orientation on RM (https://app.rent.men/MildToWildCMT is an example). I've found that a lot of the "bisexual" guys tell me they are gay once I get to know them. With safe sex, they can advertise they use condoms but if they don't with you, then what should you put? Maybe the drop-down should be based on your experience? We're condoms used? Yes or No. Did the escort say they were on Prep? Yes or No.

I've actually hired escorts that used condoms the first couple encounters and then stopped using them subsequently. Could like "Sometimes safe" be an option?

I don't know if its necessary to have "orientation." This is such a personal thing and an escort may tell one client he's straight and another he's gay. To me, sexual orientation is personal and subjective and honestly doesn't even come up that much for me. I assume most of the time, the escort I hire is gay, but I actually rarely ask that and do not know that necessarily. One thing I would add is spoken languages. We not only have quite a few who speak languages other than English here in the US but this would be useful for those who travel internationally. If we're going to France, does the escort speak both French and English or only French (or at least mostly). Thanks for the work on this as well!

I think first you have to build a relationship with them. The reality is most messages on Grindr are ignored or regarded as bullshit so there probably is no point in directly asking someone on Grindr. The only time I was successful in doing this (and actually the only time I tried), I actually hooked up with the guy first. And we got to talking and getting to know each other. And basically I learned that he was a broke college student and was interested in some similar things as myself. So I offered to take him on a trip to the mountains and offered to pay him for that and pay for the trip itself. He agreed and we occasionally did things here and there. After a while he finished school and was no longer interested in doing things with me, which I understood and respected. We still occasionally chat and I'd be open to meeting with him again if he initiated it, but I try not to push anything with him.

So wishing I could have been there in person this year. Definitely keep the updates coming!

Yes, I've been with all these guys.

There's been a bit of turnover in Denver recently but these are all good choices for what you're looking for: https://app.rent.men/BlackEuropean https://app.rent.men/ZaneKnox https://app.rent.men/BennRey https://app.rent.men/Rivco The last two are a little on the shorter side but still cool and BFE.

Denver only has mountains so it lacks the water/mountains combination that elevates the beauty of Seattle and Vancouver. That said, I think Denver has a slightly better climate. We have quite a lot of sunny days even in winter. I've been to the Pacific NW in the winter and the constant drizzle is pretty depressing in my opinion. But that does mean both Vancouver and Seattle are more "lush" and green. Denver can get pretty brown and dry by late summer. All three have lots of homeless so there's no difference there in my opinion.

G is usually GHB, a easy-to-make and easy to consume drug that increased libido and produces euphoria. It's usually what people think of as the "Date-rape drug" and can actually be pretty dangerous when combined with alcohol.

Denver is definitely $250-$300. You can still find a few that do $200. I also find that guys will price shave pretty easily. I was quoted $350 recently and just told them that was higher than I willing to go and they immediately went down to $300. I think sometimes they just try to get the higher rate if they can but once they realize they're talking to a client that knows the market, they go down.

I went to Paris last spring and met with https://app.rent.men/Lucas_Frenchy. We're both vers and he is a really nice guy with a great ass and a beautiful body. No experience with any of the guys you posted but Nolan, Alex and Bruno caught my eye when I was there too.

And my experience is almost the opposite. I've very seldomly been asked except for the couple who were actually really into meth and in both cases , they were clearly already high and saw me as a way to get more drugs. Both were bad experiences, which is exactly why PNP is a red flag for me. I do know at least one escort who listed PNP who doesn't do it regularly and just offers it for clients who are into that thing. He definitely didn't strike me as a hard drug user so I believe him. In fact, he told me he is pressured into doing it and doesn't always want to but often those sessions are the ones that are longer and pay more. I was one of the few that did an overnight with him where drugs weren't involved (except 420).

I really like Steamboat Springs, Colorado. Technically not a big gay scene but there are some great restaurants and nightlife options. But the best thing is Strawberry Hot Springs which really does get pretty fun at night with lots of nude dudes and definitely some cruising. It's not exclusively gay but there is enough space where you can find a nice little nook. And you can stay there as well so it wouldn't be hard to bring a guy over. I think it's ideal for bringing an escort date. Ski during the day, stay in a cool mountain cabin and relax in the amazing hot springs.

I don't know about casinos. But I do know that several escorts in Denver are also go-go dancers and/or work at gay bars around town (often shirtless or even in their underwear). And one of them told me he has gotten clients from that. I think the already sexual nature of those businesses makes that a bit easier to make that transaction happen. I don't know if that's something you're able to do or interested in, but that could be a good offline option.

Well the profile has only existed for a few weeks and there's not much to go on in there. So to me, the PNP stands out as does a few pics that reinforce that this escort is probably into PNP. It may be somewhat common and that's fine. But I just did a search in Denver and less than 20 percent of escorts listed PNP in their profiles. So whether you're looking for a PNP escort or not, this particular thread now points that out pretty quickly. I think that is likely useful either way.

I guess that's possible but PNP is pretty common slang for "Party and Play," typically meaning more hardcore drug use than just pot. If you're really just into smoking pot, you put in 420 like my man Jake. I will also say that there's no judgement here. If you're into PNP, then that is your business and feel free to seek that out. But I've personally had bad experiences with escorts who are into PNP, which is why it's a red flag for me.

Interesting that you thought it slow. I kinda liked that each new travel location was kinda its own section. It sort of held my attention more than if it was more straightforward. The twist isn't super crazy but it is a nice cap to the story.

Listing PNP is a bit of a red flag and his photos also reinforce that to me a bit. Not sure I would go for this one, but YRMV.

I like the new version but it's way too buggy. Just today, the search wasn't working at all for me. I probably would like the new version once it's in better shape, but I feel in its current form it's not as useful as the older version.

Talk about some erroneous information. 😆

Vegan chili and vegan tater-tots should not be really challenging. I mean the Ore-Ida tater tots you can get frozen at the grocery store are already vegan. I have several vegan friends, so when I go to a potluck, I like to make my vegetarian chili. I use sweet potato, beans, tomatoes and chipotle peppers. I provide cheese and sour cream on the side if people want to add those, but it's vegan otherwise. Most bean-based chilis would be the same. I've had pretty convincing vegan nacho cheese made of cashew cream. My boyfriend is allergic to tree nuts though so that would make him sick. I'm not vegan but there are lots of regular foods that happen to be vegan that don't require "vegan versions." Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, pasta with a simple marinera sauce, tacos with veggie fillings and guacamole.

In my experience in talking to escorts, the vast majority of clients want to bottom when they hire. One of my regulars actually is more of a bottom and has vers/bottom as his description on RM. Even so he told me that 70% of his clients want him to top. To me it makes sense. I am not sure how is in other cities, but Denver has way more bottoms than tops. If I want to top, it's quite easy for me to find someone on the apps. But I very seldomly can find a good top on the apps. That's when I find a great true vers escort....that's the best!

A close friend got into a horrible relationship scam on Grindr. His mother had just passed and he was really vulnerable. This guy really spent a lot of time on him, even calling him on What's App and eventually he got money from my friend for his mom's "cancer treatments." Somehow they're able to spoof that they are nearby even though they are often in Hong Kong or Malaysia. It was when my friend tried to meet with him and noticed inconsistencies with his stories, that he realized he'd been scammed. I felt for so bad for him. He was pseudo-in the closet because his mom was quite religious and this was his first "relationship." People really suck.

I have to give some props to my city of Denver. Colorado has long been considered the fittest state in the country. Men are really active here. We got a lot of bearded, lean mean that spend all their time rock climbing, biking, running, skiing, etc. Every time I go on a run (often even the winter), I see dozens of incredibly sexy men often with their shirt off. Probably most are straight but still. 🥵