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I was in Paris this spring and they have some beautiful Metro stations. I think my favorite was Arts et Metiers, which is clad in copper and designed to look like the Nautilus from 10,000 Leagues Under the Sea. Beautiful!

I would definitely not assume the guys are into each other or like each other at all. Unfortunately, I know from previous experience that some escorts really do have drama with each other. So definitely vet the escorts with each other beforehand.

Unfortunately, he flaked on me twice. Tried a third time and then didn't respond. Seems like a nice guy but I couldn't make it work even with days notice and specific times.

You're getting a bit too much into politics IMO. And this isn't actually that accurate. Econ 101 tells us basically that in a healthy economy, there is usually inflation of about 2-3 percent per year. But it's almost always the case that prices of some things go up and some things go down. For example, new technology products become cheaper after several years. The price of Smart TVs 5-6 years ago was often $5000+ but now you can find many under $1000. And the prices of many things can be very variable based on supply and demand Food, gasoline, travel, etc. Even within the course of a year, prices can vary quite a lot. But we're talking about escorts here, and escorts are a service industry. Since wages/costs are one of the big components of inflation, of course service industries tend to be more sensitive to inflation. I've noticed this in other service industries as well. A few years ago I could find a decent haircut under $30 but that's pretty much impossible now. Because of the general increase in inflation and wages, I think the $300 an hour is here to stay unless something goes pretty crazy with the economy.

I sometimes enjoy a fresh face, so I will specifically go after new guys with new profiles. There's a search function on RM that lets you do that. Some of those "new" guys are clearly vets just restarting their profile. But many of them are actually new to escorting with new profiles. I think I kind of enjoy being one of the first to review sometime even one of the first clients of a new escort. Maybe it's my former teacher background, but I kind of enjoy giving them a few pointers with their presentation (if they ask for it). In general, I think I feel I am a pretty good client in most ways. So I think it helps to be with a client early on that's not a time waster or a druggy weirdo. You'd be surprised how many guys I've met who stop escorting after a few months (or only accept existing clients) because of the barrage of terrible inquiries and clients. Sometimes, the experience doesn't work out well. But often it does and I've made many of these newbies into regulars.

I checked Mr. Number once and didn't have any comments. Phew.

What you describe is similar to gay bars in Denver even just a few weeks ago. I guess I am curious if you've noticed anything has changed since the Club Q shooting.

Ah yeah...that's much worse. Looks like he deleted his profile so maybe he got called on his bullshit.

First off...this is not a political discussion on the Club Q shooting. Rather, I am curious if LGBTQ establishments outside of Colorado are experiencing increased security in light of the Club Q shooting. In Denver, many gay bars/clubs have implemented new security measures. At one popular gay nightclub, they've implemented almost stadium-style security including metal detectors, pat downs and prohibiting any bag or large items. Almost all have extra security personnel at both the door and roaming the floor. Just curious if this is something you're seeing at LGBTQ establishments around the country or is this something more localized to Colorado?

If I were an escort, I would probably not go to Dubai. There have been numerous instances of escorts of both genders being arrested.

In general, I'm pretty skeptical of any profile with "Cash" in the name or descriptions of "FinDom" or anything similar. Not kink shaming....if FinDom is your thing, that's great. But in my opinion, a lot of these "FinDom" guys are really just trying to extract maximum cash for minimum work. And it's been rarely worth it trying to get a more typical escort experience from them.

Andor is very, very good. You really feel how it would be to live under an oppressive government like the Empire. And such a great cast. I've always had a crush on Diego Luna and he has a great shirtless shower scene about halfway through. But I also love how you really see the conflicts in his thinking reflected in his eyes. And also Andy Serkis, Genevieve O'Reilly, Stellan Skarsgaard....so many great performances. Definitely looking forward to the finale.

Did anybody catch this interesting and somewhat sexy documentary about Giancarlo Granda and his affair with the evangelical Falwell couple? It's really Giancarlo's story and he's incredibly handsome. I feel really bad for him because the Falwells really seemed to have manipulated and entrapped this young man into basically becoming their guy for their cuckold fantasies. In some ways, I would consider what happened to Giancarlo to be fairly similar to prostitution except for instead of just money they offer him business dealings and access to their luxurious, Christian lifestyle. Don't want to get to into politics but this all happens in the backdrop of Jerry Falwell endorsing Trump and there's some interesting connections involving Michael Cohen as well. I thought it was really interesting though maybe a bit too political actually. Worth watching just to stare at Giancarlo for 90 minutes. Not only is he handsome but I found him smart and well-spoken. Felt really sorry for what he had to go through.

Consent is important. I would ask him about the morning thing in particular. Personally I usually have to piss really bad when I wake up so that would not be appealing to me. But definitely you should be able to have a few rounds of sex. To me it's not necessarily asking each time so much as we just start getting into my kissing and getting more physical. But of course if there is something you want to do specifically, just ask.

Do: Make it a provider that you have already met and have a good connection with. Don't: Try someone new. Do: Find a mutually enjoyable activity(ies) that you can do with your provider. Something as simple as a movie or dinner or perhaps a play, comedy show, art exhibit, etc. Don't: Allow yourself to be pressured into doing things you're not comfortable with just because it's a longer session. Sometimes providers can get a bit too comfortable with drugs, alcohol, sexual, etc. Set firm boundaries about that and if the provider does not respect your wishes, I think it's perfectly okay to pay him for the time spent but to cut off the session early.

Looking at this, it's clear that they are using the facial recognition software and cross-referencing it to Rent.men. So basically the advice really should be do not use face photos at all on Rent.men. Perhaps you can share pics with prospective clients over a secure channels like WhatsApp, but it's clear that Rent.men has been compromised and the pics on there are no longer safe from the eyes of the US (and probably foreign) governments.

Yikes! Yeah my advice would be to not post any travel any longer on the forum or on Rent.men. Probably both client and provider TBH.

I hate needles so the pills will be fine for me. But a good alternative to people who maybe have a hard time consistently taking their medication.

I agree with the pros. It's the provider's duty to keep track of time. I always do an extra $20 almost always but if a provider demands more money because we went "over" that's really on him not me. It had happened a couple of times and in one case he got kind of aggressive with me. But all I had was the money I had so 🤷‍♂️. In all cases, I am very upfront with time and money that we both agree on. I would like 2 hours at $500 or whatever. That's what I pay at the end unless we mutually agree otherwise during the session. Not at the end because oops it went over.

I feel like Denver is kind of rough lately. A lot of former reliable regulars have stopped escorting for the time being and a lot of the new guys are either flakey or expensive or both. Personally I think you might weirdly have better long contacting people the day before or even the day off. And also multiple guys. This weekend, I contacted 5, only two messaged me back in time and one of them wanted a very high amount for his time. I'm trying to find another great Denver regular, but no luck. I'll definitely let you know if I do though.

I think if you have zero interest in other guys then that's a good thing and you really probably don't need to hire or open anything up at this point. Relationships change though and maybe at some point you (or your partner or both of you) will want to open it up in some way. That could be months or years or might never happen. In some ways I feel like masseurs would a better way of opening it up. I guess there is the stigma of hiring a sex worker, but I also feel like such relationships are more temporary and transactional and not likely to result in developing feelings (though that can sometimes happen too). Anyway good luck with your new relationship. I'm kinda in one too and we'll see where it goes and what this means with hiring. I'm not sure yet either.

Even now that I am a more experienced bottom, I would say that anal still hurts some. It almost always hurts for me right at the first penetration I think because my sphincter has to relax and get used to the dick. After that it's more pleasure than pain though sometimes it can still hurt a bit...almost in a pleasurable way actually. The biggest difference between an actual dick and a dildo is the human being involved. I actually really enjoy seeing someone enjoying my hole and love watching their sexy body on top of mine and hearing their moans. The way another guy fucks is also more unpredictable and not controlled by you, so that makes it hotter than a dildo that you are controlling.

Yeah, I may just have to wait. I had kind of a short window because I had a CD mature in September so didn't really have the money until this month. Oh well. I guess I'll try at the newer rate. I am planning 10K so it'll still be a decent payout.

Yeah unfortunately I had to give up on it. It wouldn't let me make a new account after several days of trying. Oh well.

Damn that sucks that some people are such assholes to providers. It's like even if the deposit thing isn't for you, just move on instead of messing with you. That really sucks Jarrod.