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These pieces of advice are all good, but I also do think that a little water is not the end of the world. I always put a towel down when I bottom regardless. And yes sometimes some liquid comes out when I'm fucked, but it really is just a bit of water and any top that isn't an asshole understands that and won't be grossed out. I think we can sometimes get a bit neurotic about being super-duper clean down there. The reality is that the asshole is a part of the body that really shouldn't be super-duper clean and we have to accept that.

This is great news. Thanks for finding that out. Hopefully Matt can take a nice break he needs and will go back to being one of the best escorts around.

If they use their automatic messages in a thoughtful way, I think it's great. Providing rates, availability, and preferred contact method are all great!

Unfortunately, I'm leaning towards not escorting/taking a break. I tried contacting him both text, email and through the web site and no answers through any means. This was in January when I was wiling to travel to Las Vegas mostly just to meet with him. But yeah unfortunately could not reach him at all. And we have met twice before (both great experiences IMO) so I don't think this is even a "only seeing former clients" thing. But someone else should try and see if they had better luck. It was in January so who knows. But with the ad expiring, I'm not feeling great about him still escorting right now.

I definitely get that as a pet peeve. I really do prefer to set up things a few days in advance. But it's surprisingly common that providers cancel last minute on me and then I'm sort of left trying to find someone to meet. This often happens when I visit a city. I'll be there just for a few days and have like the Saturday evening available for meeting a provider. Then the provider cancels and I'm left trying to see if I can find a new guy. And it is often the case that the locals are booked and only available after I am gone. This is often why I've started to communicate with a few guys before a trip and then if the first once cancels, I already kind of have another I've talked to as a backup. But I know that is also a PP for some escorts too....

I've typically had pretty successful threesomes. The main thing I'd suggest is the power of the reset. If things are kind of not going the way you would like (or one person likes), feel free to just take a break. Sometimes I like to have porn playing and just have a little moment where we're all just jacking off and kind getting hyped again.

Haha! I love Matt Lucas' smiling, dutiful wife.

I feel like with the safe-sex question, this can be the only way. I think it just varies too much from encounter to encounter for it to be in the item record. Let's keep it simple though. Condoms used? Yes/No. That's pretty straightforward.

I've definitely had difficulty communicating with non-English speaking escorts. Fortunately I do know Spanish and kinda French/Portuguese so knowing they speak those languages can be useful. Maybe we do a few ones that we feel are common in escorts (Spanish, French, Portuguese and Russian come to mind) and if it's a very unusual language, it can be put in the text. I'm wondering if part of the problem is that we are basically relying on RM instead of our own experiences for a lot of these things. "Ask Me" is an option for orientation on RM (https://app.rent.men/MildToWildCMT is an example). I've found that a lot of the "bisexual" guys tell me they are gay once I get to know them. With safe sex, they can advertise they use condoms but if they don't with you, then what should you put? Maybe the drop-down should be based on your experience? We're condoms used? Yes or No. Did the escort say they were on Prep? Yes or No.

I've actually hired escorts that used condoms the first couple encounters and then stopped using them subsequently. Could like "Sometimes safe" be an option?

I don't know if its necessary to have "orientation." This is such a personal thing and an escort may tell one client he's straight and another he's gay. To me, sexual orientation is personal and subjective and honestly doesn't even come up that much for me. I assume most of the time, the escort I hire is gay, but I actually rarely ask that and do not know that necessarily. One thing I would add is spoken languages. We not only have quite a few who speak languages other than English here in the US but this would be useful for those who travel internationally. If we're going to France, does the escort speak both French and English or only French (or at least mostly). Thanks for the work on this as well!

I think first you have to build a relationship with them. The reality is most messages on Grindr are ignored or regarded as bullshit so there probably is no point in directly asking someone on Grindr. The only time I was successful in doing this (and actually the only time I tried), I actually hooked up with the guy first. And we got to talking and getting to know each other. And basically I learned that he was a broke college student and was interested in some similar things as myself. So I offered to take him on a trip to the mountains and offered to pay him for that and pay for the trip itself. He agreed and we occasionally did things here and there. After a while he finished school and was no longer interested in doing things with me, which I understood and respected. We still occasionally chat and I'd be open to meeting with him again if he initiated it, but I try not to push anything with him.

So wishing I could have been there in person this year. Definitely keep the updates coming!

Yes, I've been with all these guys.

There's been a bit of turnover in Denver recently but these are all good choices for what you're looking for: https://app.rent.men/BlackEuropean https://app.rent.men/ZaneKnox https://app.rent.men/BennRey https://app.rent.men/Rivco The last two are a little on the shorter side but still cool and BFE.

Denver only has mountains so it lacks the water/mountains combination that elevates the beauty of Seattle and Vancouver. That said, I think Denver has a slightly better climate. We have quite a lot of sunny days even in winter. I've been to the Pacific NW in the winter and the constant drizzle is pretty depressing in my opinion. But that does mean both Vancouver and Seattle are more "lush" and green. Denver can get pretty brown and dry by late summer. All three have lots of homeless so there's no difference there in my opinion.

G is usually GHB, a easy-to-make and easy to consume drug that increased libido and produces euphoria. It's usually what people think of as the "Date-rape drug" and can actually be pretty dangerous when combined with alcohol.

Denver is definitely $250-$300. You can still find a few that do $200. I also find that guys will price shave pretty easily. I was quoted $350 recently and just told them that was higher than I willing to go and they immediately went down to $300. I think sometimes they just try to get the higher rate if they can but once they realize they're talking to a client that knows the market, they go down.

I went to Paris last spring and met with https://app.rent.men/Lucas_Frenchy. We're both vers and he is a really nice guy with a great ass and a beautiful body. No experience with any of the guys you posted but Nolan, Alex and Bruno caught my eye when I was there too.

And my experience is almost the opposite. I've very seldomly been asked except for the couple who were actually really into meth and in both cases , they were clearly already high and saw me as a way to get more drugs. Both were bad experiences, which is exactly why PNP is a red flag for me. I do know at least one escort who listed PNP who doesn't do it regularly and just offers it for clients who are into that thing. He definitely didn't strike me as a hard drug user so I believe him. In fact, he told me he is pressured into doing it and doesn't always want to but often those sessions are the ones that are longer and pay more. I was one of the few that did an overnight with him where drugs weren't involved (except 420).

I really like Steamboat Springs, Colorado. Technically not a big gay scene but there are some great restaurants and nightlife options. But the best thing is Strawberry Hot Springs which really does get pretty fun at night with lots of nude dudes and definitely some cruising. It's not exclusively gay but there is enough space where you can find a nice little nook. And you can stay there as well so it wouldn't be hard to bring a guy over. I think it's ideal for bringing an escort date. Ski during the day, stay in a cool mountain cabin and relax in the amazing hot springs.

I don't know about casinos. But I do know that several escorts in Denver are also go-go dancers and/or work at gay bars around town (often shirtless or even in their underwear). And one of them told me he has gotten clients from that. I think the already sexual nature of those businesses makes that a bit easier to make that transaction happen. I don't know if that's something you're able to do or interested in, but that could be a good offline option.

Well the profile has only existed for a few weeks and there's not much to go on in there. So to me, the PNP stands out as does a few pics that reinforce that this escort is probably into PNP. It may be somewhat common and that's fine. But I just did a search in Denver and less than 20 percent of escorts listed PNP in their profiles. So whether you're looking for a PNP escort or not, this particular thread now points that out pretty quickly. I think that is likely useful either way.

I guess that's possible but PNP is pretty common slang for "Party and Play," typically meaning more hardcore drug use than just pot. If you're really just into smoking pot, you put in 420 like my man Jake. I will also say that there's no judgement here. If you're into PNP, then that is your business and feel free to seek that out. But I've personally had bad experiences with escorts who are into PNP, which is why it's a red flag for me.

Interesting that you thought it slow. I kinda liked that each new travel location was kinda its own section. It sort of held my attention more than if it was more straightforward. The twist isn't super crazy but it is a nice cap to the story.