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A recent NYC jury has restored my faith in my fellow citizens. 🥳

So many fall for the "deposit" hustle it's sad.  Also, use your brain's queens.  Any boy nowadays with a perfect body and a beautiful face doesn't even have to do porn for a studio to make a ton of cash, much less hook up with the typical "John" for $.  They're all doing collabs and making $ fucking other cute young guys.  Creating a profile is as easy as "right-click, save" - stop believing these profiles are real.  You're probably online chatting with a fat woman in Moscow or Beijing.  LMFAO because at some point, there will come a cash app request.  HA!

Use lotsa spit. Spit has some germicidal qualities. 

While some providers are kind and good-hearted people, a majority are not. Many are "entrepreneurs" turned on only by the easy money. Others have figured a way to scam older, often mild-mannered, sensitive, and kind but vulnerable gay old men who are often lonely.
I have learned this lesson the hard way. 
Look out for yourselves out there, guys. Without money, nobody's gonna give a shit when you are old and frail.

The nude parties don't actually have a "party" environment. Some guys do go with their friends, but you're much better off hiring a stripper or going to a club with gogo dancers.

While some providers are kind and good-hearted people, a majority are not. Many are "entrepreneurs" turned on only by the easy money. Others have figured a way to scam older, often mild-mannered, sensitive, and kind but vulnerable gay old men who are often lonely.
I have learned this lesson the hard way. 
Look out for yourselves out there, guys. Without money, nobody's gonna give a shit when you are old and frail.

I disagree - I’ve found the opposite to be true in personal experience. 
It’s all about the selection process & treating people well, meaning providers are treated exactly like any other guest or person providing a personal service.  I also pay attention to what my instincts say - sometimes it’s just a look in the eyes that tells me no. 
there are some guys that go into this work thinking it’s easy money, with bad intentions or w overwhelming personal problems - they generally don’t last, are not well-reviewed and can be avoided.
I’ve never been asked for a loan by a provider.  If it happened, I wouldn’t hire that person again because it’s just unprofessional.  
get used to saying no to people for any unreasonable request or something that just makes you uncomfortable- makes life much easier. 

You got scammed dude, it happens to the best of us. Move on and don’t make the same mistake again. Sorry he got one over on you. It sucks. 

sorry to hear that! You got scammed! 
When it comes to escorts is "pay as you go", he needed money... hire him several times a week or for overnights and pay him after the deed is done, never before. 
Are you considering getting a lawyer? 

This is what I hire for. Almost exclusively. But I'm a giver. Again, almost exclusively.

Also he has been "29" for several years now.

Run for congress as Republicans.

Also he has been "29" for several years now.

Also he has been "29" for several years now.

They will. I am pretty sure. When Meta, Google eventually start going the route Yahoo did, and as they start scratching bottom of the barrel for new channels for revenue, and as politics of the land takes a hard right, the search phrases you enter into Google, Insta, Facebook, the sites you visited, the messages you sent, the Venmo/CashApp payments you made will all come back to haunt you. I bet Google already has an AI tool to tell who you are and what you will do next.

Also he has been "29" for several years now.

Yes, so far I have been doing $500 - $1k a month on providers . Still have my job, and have well above median US savings in retirement accounts ( IRAs and 401K).
 

They will. I am pretty sure. When Meta, Google eventually start going the route Yahoo did, and as they start scratching bottom of the barrel for new channels for revenue, and as politics of the land takes a hard right, the search phrases you enter into Google, Insta, Facebook, the sites you visited, the messages you sent, the Venmo/CashApp payments you made will all come back to haunt you. I bet Google already has an AI tool to tell who you are and what you will do next.

I couldn't agree with you more, we're not that important to be concerned about this now!
This thread is directed at whether one day Alexa, Zuckerberg, AI, and others, will turn against us. 
We know everything we post on X could be trace back to us and get us "cancelled" yet some get surprised about it. 
Employees of the NSA occasionally check the messages of their dates. The technology exists already, and there are things we don't even know, the question is when someone will find out the hobby that brought us here, expose us and harm us. 
Did you watch the movie "Snowden", they can simply find out your weakness and turn you into a pawn without you even knowing. 
 

No lies detected! 
truth be told I would have been happy to be one of his harem. R kelly too. I’m a freak like that lol.
A girlfriend ran the tides hotel on south beach and they used to stay there and decades ago she called me gagging because they weren’t even that discreet about it. He would always have girls there to set it off but in the end it was always just the fellas. And they kept ordering more champagne and more condoms.
In some ways it’s the same as with Afrika Bambaata. When you’re still very young and have same sex attractions coupled with internalized homophobia, and then you’re in a position of power, you can end up basically being a predator without even realizing it’s happening. This is not to excuse sexual assault or inappropriate behavior in general, but some of these “victims” were not damaged or harmed but rather were given the opportunity to do what they always wanted to do but never felt safe enough to do it. So some are victims and some are volunteers.

Life is full of choices - sometimes you make bad ones or feel like you don’t have any other option but to go along with whatever is happening. Especially when you come from nothing and have no one else who makes you feel seen or offers you opportunities to be someone and have something.
The karma follows the intent. That said, malignant narcissistic sociopaths tend to be the ones who rise to positions of power. Hence the fall of the house of Usher. Pun obviously intended.

You, Sir:

That didn't stop a certain other politician from winning an even higher office.

I dont quite understand Coolwave's rape allegation. Oral play and anal play are both common acts in gay sex. So if during the same play session, the masseur performed one sexual act, it's ok, but if he performed another sexual act for which no explicit 'no' was said, it's rape?  Very confusing. 
Does this mean during consensual sex one has to get separate consent for every act? 
 

Thank you all for the guidance. As a left-brained person, I am not particularly money-savvy, but know enough to get by. I have been able to maintain a diverse portfolio of investments mostly in ETFs. I also use robot investors like Wealthfront , Betterment etc since I do not know how to pick stocks myself.
In my early 50s I am feeling pretty lost in life as I don't know where I am headed next, what kind of support system I will have as I become old and frail etc. Friends from 20s and 30s left me due to political differences that peaked during COVID.  Lost my father last year, and Mom is in her last years. 
This forum has been a good support system .. especially sage advice from the people ahead of me in this journey called life.

By the way, this part of depending on someone scares me the most. Today, hygiene with respect to this bodily function is super important to me. I can't even properly evacuate myself if i hear people outside a toilet. I find it very difficult to share a bathroom with someone. That's probably why i have never been able to have a relationship. I always wonder how boyfriends remain attractive to each other despite sharing a bathroom and potentially hear the other person 'go' in small hotel rooms.
A guy's ass and the hole are such sensual things for me and i consider it unfortunate that its other function is to handle the most disagreeable odor and substance to come out of a human body. I think the wires in my brain that are able to handle the co-existence of the two contradictory functions haven't crossed well.
I pray to god to take me before i have to get my ass wiped by a hot str8 guy.
PS: I realize this post will come across very shallow to folks who have found their soulmates. Love, affection transcends any bodily function. So i apologize in advance, but this is the only forum where I can speak my mind about these things.