jessmapex

This is a pretty standard response on the site.. the same 10 questions about hiring have been asked a million times. So people tend to want you to share before asking questions.

Also suspicious…very new account with professional pics…

I **HIGHLY** recommend against hiring or interacting with JesTwink.  
I have not hired him, but:
He's harassed multiple members of this site begging them to remove any discussion of him. He's created more than a dozen accounts to contact people who have blocked him or ignored him. He's submitted DOZENS of reports for various reasons (ranging from DMCA to harassment to stalking) in an effort to get content removed. He's sent dozens of emails/contact us messages threatening the site with legal action. At the end of the day, he's batshit crazy and if he will do these kinds of things... he's most likely not going to respect your privacy and will have no problem continuing to bother/harass you afterwards if he does not get his way or disagrees with what you might say.  
Save yourself the headache and the harassment and avoid him.  
 

Seems like he’s pretending to be ‘on tour’ to push his OF.  Judging by the few videos I saw, definitely “meh” as stated above.  Not worth  $1.99/month.

He is a flake and likely a fake. Asked me 40% deposit just before the scheduled meeting time (never mentioned that when we scheduled) . The insta pix are highly doctored 

He is a flake and likely a fake. Asked me 40% deposit just before the scheduled meeting time (never mentioned that when we scheduled) . The insta pix are highly doctored 

He is a flake and likely a fake. Asked me 40% deposit just before the scheduled meeting time (never mentioned that when we scheduled) . The insta pix are highly doctored 

I have to ask...
Which provider decided to dump the site? I'm assuming they didn't give a reason, but we all know what it is.

Greetings folks...
As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday.   Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us.  Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up.  This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.  
While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team.  So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.  
And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.  
There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them.  For example, email may only be partially working.  I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam.  There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet.  (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
But anyway... you get the idea.  No... we're not going anywhere!  This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward.  Thank you all for your understanding and support!
Rob

I have met him and posted about him in another thread. He is real. He is highly unavailable, selective and not very enthusiastic about new business. I suspect this a side-hustle for him that he does whenever he fancies. 

I am in Istanbul this week. But hiring providers (many are available on RM or Hunqz) is proving difficult. Hotels do not allow visitors to the room ..even if you have booked a room for 2. The second person must be registered with ID at the time of check in. The hotel workers watch you like a hawk in the lobby or elevator entrance. So disappointing.  Some guys host incalls, but as someone new to the country / city, I was hoping to host in my hotel room. 
I dont like bathhouses or steamy hamams, but looks like those are my only options.

Unfortunately, as much as your feelings are real, they are based on a lie.  He is an escort having sex for money and you are a client looking for acceptance and intimacy.  A great escort can fake intimacy for a long time, years, even a decade or more, but, a closer examination reveals that this kind of relationship is very one sided.  The money flows one way and most of the affection and attention flow the other way.  Escorts, for the most part, reveal just enough of themselves to make the experience you have with them have a basis in reality.  Ultimately, there is a lot you do not know, will never know and that, I am afraid, is the nature of these interactions.  There are exceptions.  Many of us, including myself, have thought that this is one of the real ones.  Ultimately, it is usually self delusion and the wishing for it to be so. 
As hard as it is, move on.  You are paying for a service and you are getting tsuris.   Translated from the Yiddish  Aggravation, Heatache.  

Sorry man, but you know the answer here. Time to move on.

https://www.menofporn.blog/2025/06/passed-away-last-month-travis-youth.html
He had his demons, but when he was level-headed... he was just as kind and sweet as he was sexy.
I met him a number of times and we always had a great time. We just had a very good rapport. We lost contact a few years after he went to prison for drug related issues. When he got released early last year we picked up where we left off and we talked frequently. He was trying to turn his life around. We were planning to meet up but never could synch schedules. A number of months ago he fell off the wagon and said he probably be put back in jail or rehab. That was the last I heard from. I just learned of his passing. 

Also: they are doing this in Singapore where it was illegal to engage in m4m sex up to 2022. There might be a huge social stigma also. So they are blackmailing the clients. Always exercise extreme caution in countries where the society or law is against you.
sorry this happened to you. 

My loss, for sure.
But feel free to send me a notice for the wake and funeral.

Would you mind posting your own photo so we can dissect it too?
The OP's comments (and many others) were not only incorrect, but really shitty.
Of course you don't mind the comments: You're safely ensconced in front of your laptop, without any real skin in this game.  
Wake me when those photos get uploaded.
 

This isn't the only provider who is shaving more than 2-3 years off their profile.

What happened to Brent Corrigan? He has disappeared from the face of the internet.

username Topmanstuddddd left in the middle of an overnight session after he said he was "going to the bathroom" he came out and said he had to leave. When I checked his profile he was on rentmen at the same time and got another client. Wouldn't refund me any portion
 
 
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It’s unfortunate, but a single instance of deceit is enough for me to not even consider hiring someone. No matter how stellar their future reviews are.

Yep, Never Ever pay a deposit.......The overwhelming majority of those deposit request are from fakes or flakes.  Buyer Beware!!

So if you suspect his pics are stolen and he is TGTBT…why title the thread “Awesome NYC provider”. That is a statement, not a question.  It is misleading. 🧐

Very pretty - no obvious hits on the pictures outside of the site. I agree, the pictures plus request for deposit makes it suspect. 

Tried to book with him. He wants $500 with $200 deposit for a massage with release. Told him since his profile is new and has no reviews, can he verify it's really him in the pics by sending a selfie with him holding a piece of paper with RM written on it. I was rebuffed. 
Exercise caution and temper expectations with this one. But please let me know if you were able to meet