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I can't believe I'm just seeing this hunk for the first time...John Fenoglio on KTLA in LA.
 

I can't believe I'm just seeing this hunk for the first time...John Fenoglio on KTLA in LA.
 

It almost sounds like she's bragging about having diabetes, because now she gets to use JARDIANCE!, as she proclaims, extending her arms as if to praise the heavens. So now she (and her background singers) can enjoy being overweight.
And then there's that yellow dress !!!!

I can't believe I'm just seeing this hunk for the first time...John Fenoglio on KTLA in LA.
 

I can't believe I'm just seeing this hunk for the first time...John Fenoglio on KTLA in LA.
 

I generally don't ask to view the private pics unless I'm seriously considering hiring. When they DO unlock the gallery, I make it a point to thank them and THEN start a dialog and take it from there.  When my request is met with a big red box that screams "Request Rejected" with no other communication or reason, whether intentional or not, it comes across as hostile and unfriendly. Like they're not interested in my business.  So goodbye potential hire.  I get tired of trying to prove my sincerity of interest.

Well then it's a "Mexican stand off", to use an old phrase. The whole RM system is set up to simply push a button and ask for pics that I assume the provider willingly makes available and uses as an enticement. THAT is my way of opening a conversation with them. And I've had plenty of providers using that opening salvo as a reason to bombard ME with requests to close a deal. My time is valuable, too.
If they don't want someone using the simple push button request provided on RM, they could say in their ad "please contact me directly to see more photos" or something to that effect. 

I am ready, willing and able to pay top dollar for top escorts. But I am very picky. The way I afford this hobby is by picking only guys who flake on me, change travel plans abruptly, or, my favorite, don't respond to me at all. I haven't closed a deal in years. I save a lot of money that way. 🙂

I am ready, willing and able to pay top dollar for top escorts. But I am very picky. The way I afford this hobby is by picking only guys who flake on me, change travel plans abruptly, or, my favorite, don't respond to me at all. I haven't closed a deal in years. I save a lot of money that way. 🙂

I am ready, willing and able to pay top dollar for top escorts. But I am very picky. The way I afford this hobby is by picking only guys who flake on me, change travel plans abruptly, or, my favorite, don't respond to me at all. I haven't closed a deal in years. I save a lot of money that way. 🙂

I am ready, willing and able to pay top dollar for top escorts. But I am very picky. The way I afford this hobby is by picking only guys who flake on me, change travel plans abruptly, or, my favorite, don't respond to me at all. I haven't closed a deal in years. I save a lot of money that way. 🙂

I am ready, willing and able to pay top dollar for top escorts. But I am very picky. The way I afford this hobby is by picking only guys who flake on me, change travel plans abruptly, or, my favorite, don't respond to me at all. I haven't closed a deal in years. I save a lot of money that way. 🙂

As per an email received this morning, ALL LA Adonis shows, nude and otherwise, have been suspended thru October. (And when I read statements like that, I see 'thru November or even December'.)  I feel bad for Matt.  It can't be an easy job for him by any stretch of the imagination.

This thread is about MaiconMax 411.

Thanks; this is exactly how I should have handled it. I can be so stupid sometimes. Hope I get another chance with this provider.

Thanks; this is exactly how I should have handled it. I can be so stupid sometimes. Hope I get another chance with this provider.

Thanks; this is exactly how I should have handled it. I can be so stupid sometimes. Hope I get another chance with this provider.

I think the answer as you guessed is everyone’s different. But it’s also worth remembering that escorts likely receive far more messages than clients do. So it makes sense some might delete chats just to stay organized or avoid clutter.
Next time, I’d say go ahead and treat it as a continuation. Something like:
“Hi, we spoke back in January. I see you’re visiting again. I was hoping we could finally arrange a time. How does [insert date/time] look?”
That way you jog their memory while making it easy for them to respond. Nothing wrong with giving a little context. Good luck.

There is a fairly high profile escort who is high on my fantasy hire wish list. (Also in high demand, I'm sure.)  He visited and advertised in my town in January and I decided to go for it. I contacted him on the Rentmen message board, giving my real name and phone number in case he preferred to communicate via text.  He responded to me on the board, and we began a pleasant back-and-forth trying to hammer out a time. (He was only visiting for a week.) Alas, we never reached a time or day that worked for both of us. His online demeanor lived up to his nice guy reputation and he expressed his regret that we couldn't work things out.
Flash forward to last week and I see that he was once again visiting my town (for five days). I decided to give it another try.  Now when I have a text/conversation with someone on the Rentmen message boards, I tend to 'keep' the conversation in my account.  But it occurred to me that the escort himself doesn't necessarily retain the page in his account.  In fact, I assume he deletes it, otherwise he may have a million 'chats' going on. Therefore, when I approached  the same escort this time, I guess I kind of wrote it as if it was our first time contact, without mentioning our prior text chat. Although I did give my real name and phone number again.
This time I got zero response, which seems to be my lot in life. I was a bit surprised by that with this particular provider because he seemed so friendly and responsive when we 'chatted' on RM in January. I wonder if a better approach from me this time would have been to treat my latest inquiry as a continuation of our previous friendly exchange, which is essentially what it was. But I didn't want to assume he remembered me, especially if he deleted our chat on his end.
Anyway, it got me to wondering if any providers generally 'keep' their chats in their RM account, or do they delete them right away?  On my end, as a client, I find it helps to keep them as a point of reference.
I'm sure the answer to this is 'every one is different'. Just pondering here on a lazy Sunday afternoon. 🙂
 

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Big time! I gave up on trying to hire him years ago.