nycman
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+ nycman got a reaction from Your Man in Arlington in A cautionary tale
As my father once said to me when I asked for a loan, "Son, if the bank doesn’t think you’re a good risk, why the fuck should I?"
He had a point and I learned a lesson.
Whenever someone asks me for a loan, I either say "no" or I give them the money and never expect it back. I will not ask nor hint to be repaid. I will however, never make another "loan" until the first one is repaid.
So far that has worked for me. I’m not an ass about helping others. But I’m also not a sucker. And in general our friendships have remained intact. Whether or not they repaid me.
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+ nycman reacted to tenderloin in Tighternnrighter in NYC
Yes, I am embarrassed that I went for it. I was tempted to keep my idiocy private, but then the value of this site is that we have the opportunity to educate each other. So I hang my head in shame but hopefully will help someone else.
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+ nycman got a reaction from thomas in Should gay porno embrace body positivity?
Holy crap, that was you in town yesterday?
God, I wanted to run you over.
grin
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+ nycman got a reaction from Njguy2 in Should gay porno embrace body positivity?
Holy crap, that was you in town yesterday?
God, I wanted to run you over.
grin
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+ nycman got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Should gay porno embrace body positivity?
Holy crap, that was you in town yesterday?
God, I wanted to run you over.
grin
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+ nycman got a reaction from + APPLE1 in Gay people often have older brothers. Why? And does it matter?
It sounds like you think those are two different groups of people?
grin
“Do I contradict myself?
Very well then I contradict myself,
(I am large, I contain multitudes.)”
― Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass
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+ nycman reacted to pubic_assistance in Should gay porno embrace body positivity?
I enjoy being myself. Always have.
Maybe the "limpwristed" crowd don't enjoy my frankness, but enough of the gentlemen here do...So I refute this accusation that any opinion about physical appearance on a site that frequently discusses physical appearance is "mean" if it's not pretending to be kind.
No victim/ no crime.
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+ nycman got a reaction from BonVivant in Looking like an old queer
Don’t wanna be a sad old gay man?….then don’t be a sad old gay man.
It really is that simple. Don’t overthink it.
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+ nycman reacted to NYXboy in Nicholasnyc NYC
good luck finding a provider who is less than 300. look for a new hobby if that is out of budget
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+ nycman reacted to + azdr0710 in Nicholasnyc NYC
We don't need to make arrogant replies to our fellow forum members. There are ways to tell somebody to go to hell and they'd be glad to do it!
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+ nycman got a reaction from thomas in Gay people often have older brothers. Why? And does it matter?
It sounds like you think those are two different groups of people?
grin
“Do I contradict myself?
Very well then I contradict myself,
(I am large, I contain multitudes.)”
― Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass
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+ nycman reacted to Chancealot in YoungTallAthelete in NYC. Brand new.
guy asks for $1k
then says I’m good no more
and some here want him more
what a marketing case study
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+ nycman got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Handsome newbie in NYC: SweetnFitNYC
That’s a very "kind", but I'm willing to bet incorrect, interpretation of the facts.
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+ nycman reacted to + tassojunior in Friday Funnies
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐥𝐝 𝐃𝐢𝐚𝐫𝐲 (@theheralddiary) on Threads
WWW.THREADS.NET 😂😂
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+ nycman reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in A cautionary tale
Or, depending on your camp, the wisdom, wit and words of Marlowe.
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+ nycman reacted to pubic_assistance in Best African country for boys?
No he's not.
Plenty of people are more realistic about it than you want to be.
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+ nycman reacted to pubic_assistance in Best African country for boys?
Don't even bother trying to explain. There are many gays who so desperately want to bareback with everyone that they purposefully ignore the actual statistics on PreP.
"ALMOST" 100% EFFICIENT is all they hear.
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+ nycman got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Best African country for boys?
I don’t think you understand how math (or Russian Roulette for that matter) works, but good luck.
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+ nycman got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Best African country for boys?
Statistics aren’t shaming and they don’t care about your feelings. They’re facts.
Sex is always a game of Russian Roulette. I’m just pointing out how many bullets are in the chamber.
Best of luck.
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+ nycman got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Best African country for boys?
Statistics aren’t shaming and they don’t care about your feelings. They’re facts.
Sex is always a game of Russian Roulette. I’m just pointing out how many bullets are in the chamber.
Best of luck.
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+ nycman got a reaction from + augustus in A cautionary tale
As my father once said to me when I asked for a loan, "Son, if the bank doesn’t think you’re a good risk, why the fuck should I?"
He had a point and I learned a lesson.
Whenever someone asks me for a loan, I either say "no" or I give them the money and never expect it back. I will not ask nor hint to be repaid. I will however, never make another "loan" until the first one is repaid.
So far that has worked for me. I’m not an ass about helping others. But I’m also not a sucker. And in general our friendships have remained intact. Whether or not they repaid me.
