nycman

Looks like he’s back in NYC. Any info?

Without seeing the video....this is all academic posturing. Nonetheless, in my book if you’re filming your own “assault”....you're consenting.

I’m sitting in some random hotel room in the middle of nowhere....crying. You fucker! I’m ecstatic that it went well. Although we all knew it would. You’ve obviously raised amazing young men....congratulations to you all.

The problem with having money.....someone else always has more. In the end @Unicorn, you will have to find ways, that don’t involve power or money, to bond with him and please him. And he will have to find ways to please and bond with you, that don’t involve his looks or youth. It can be done. Differences in looks and money don’t have to doom a relationship. It will create friction....but then again, so does his using my toothpaste. You just have to pick a good man. Work hard at it. And hope for the best. All the money and abs in the world....won’t change that simple math.

She is amazing.

And that’s a “bad” thing? Grin

So, the mountain came to Mohamed....we met in NYC. Thank god.....I was NOT looking forward to that trip to St. Louis!....grin And Holy crap!....he’s real....and real fun.

My advice to your man....”learn to take a compliment”....it won’t last forever. My advice to you....”lighten up and enjoy the moment”.....it won’t last forever. My assessment of the situation?......I’m Hell-a-jealous of both of you....enjoy!

I hate not having the rates posted clearly on RM. A few times I’ve been 1/2 way through the session and realized we never discussed price. Each time I’ve panicked a little and thought, what the Hell am I gonna do when he says “my rate is $1,000 per hour” at the end of a 2 hour meeting??? So far I haven’t been burned, but I really do hate discussing rates.

Never hosted in my home. Never will. I’m glad others are comfortable with it, but it’s just not for me.

He had me at.....”Versatile Muscle Boy Looking For Daddy”

I say he made a bad move...after all...today’s “newbie” might be tomorrow’s “regular”. As a regular.....I understand my guy may already have other plans. No problem. As a newbie, I wouldn’t have been offended if he asked if I had any other time open because a regular just called. Nonetheless, if I didn’t t have other avaiablility, I’d expect him to keep our original commitment. Otherwise, I’m sorry.....You’re a flake.

Which of course means he’s at least 40

Ahhh....the vagaries of men. There are thousands of possible reasons....which means there is no reason. Just move on.

I’m not a huge fan either, but maybe it’s just adjusting to something new.

Best quote from the comments..... “The younger the mother...the sillier the name”

Really cute guy. Very good massage skills. Playful and fun.

It’s kind of obvious that he is. I mean it’s fun and all.....but it’s not quiet THAT orgiastic.

Around the holidays I try to give everyone who works for me a bonus. In general, I try to make the bonus equivalent to 2 weeks worth of work. So if I get my haircut every week for $50....I’d give a $100 bonus at Christmas. If I got my hair cut every 4 weeks for $40....I’d give a $20 bonus. Not sure that helps, but I think it’s generous and it makes my life easier.

Around the holidays I try to give everyone who works for me a bonus. In general, I try to make the bonus equivalent to 2 weeks worth of work. So if I get my haircut every week for $50....I’d give a $100 bonus at Christmas. If I got my hair cut every 4 weeks for $40....I’d give a $20 bonus. Not sure that helps, but I think it’s generous and it makes my life easier.

Knowledge is a double edged sword. I wish I didn’t have the same doubts and confusion as you, but the truth is I often have. In the end, I did the simple math. I’ve been with hundreds of men. Many of them had to have been HIV+. I just didn’t know it at the time. Take a deep breath. Realize that the man who has had the honesty to tell you the truth about his status is thousands of times more trust worthy than the men who have kept silent. If it really freaks you out (and it’s ok if it does, you’re human), I’d say be open and honest with him. Discuss your fears and concerns. If your willing to try and get over your phobia (and in this day and age, it is a phobia) discuss with him what you’re comfortable doing. You may find that this openness, honesty, caring and compassion takes your sexuality to an entirely new level.

Such a brilliant counter point!

Whenever one of my friends starts playing "I don't know how to love him"..... I drag them out for a night on the town....before the blinders get too tight. Otherwise....it always ends in tears.

https://rentmen.eu/DDanyy/#platinum "I am a mature young serious and complacent" com·pla·cent /kəmˈplās(ə)nt/ adjective showing smug or uncritical satisfaction with oneself or one's achievements.

But...but....but....his ad says "no tricks, no games, no rush!" Oh yeah....and...."orientation: ask me"....and...."position: ask me"....sigh. I'm not gonna ask....I know the answer.....PASS!