nycman

You got all that from “I’m looking for tops at the moment”? Seriously dude....your paranoid insecurities are showing. Take it at face value and don’t overthink it. It’s not a match...move on. Too many fish.....

Horrible camera work and editing....even by crappy YouTube standards....but he is cute!

In my experience all the guys dance on a rotation. It’s funny to me that it’s the dancing part he has a problem with. They all seem to do it (albeit some are better than others). In fact, sometimes I’m more attracted to the “tragically arrhythmic” ones than the ones who are more naturally gifted at moving their bodies. I don’t think it’s the “no dancing” that’s going to be a problem for him, but he should contact @Buffdaddy directly to discuss his limits and what he thinks he has to offer. I’m sure there are rules for the guys, although some rules may be flexible. In my experience, @Buffdaddy is a nice guy and a straight shooter. What will be a problem is if he thinks he’s going to make bank just walking around naked. I may hand out a few polite $1 bills, but nothing more than that for just looking and occasional light touching. That’s just going to lead to a long frustrating night for him and maybe $20 in his G-string when it’s all over. Unless he’s doing it to satisfy his own fetish, that’s not really worth it IMHO.

I wouldn’t say “many” but “some”...yes. Mostly you’ll be stuck either with the few passing through to the Hamptons/Fire Island, importing from NYC, or heading into NYC to hire. Personally, I suggest the last option as it will give you the greatest variety of choices. There are no “native” Suffolk County escorts of which I am aware.

Sorry about the multiple posts. That’s what I get for tying to post at 38,000 feet over the Atlantic.....lol

He could have made his rent payment... If he’d wrangled a few “snakes”. Just saying.....

I’m sorry about your loss. I’ve just gone through this and my only motivation to writing an obituary at the time was to leave breadcrumbs for future generations to find and piece together. For genealogical purposes they are indeed priceless. As an unexpected benefit, I too “enjoyed” writing it and I heard from many people I never knew existed. Indeed, the deceased had a much fuller life than I had ever dreamed and a wide range of friendships over decades that I knew nothing about. In the end, it unexpectedly helped comfort me. Also, a few financial and legal places required that I submit a copy of an obituary in addition to the legal documents. I thought it was odd, but it’s true. So, I say do it. If for no other reason than for future generations. It’s not crazy expensive. The cost will be based on the column inches and the newspaper’s circulation. So yes, 12 inches in NYC will cost you more than 6 inches in Albany. That’s math we all understand here....grin

Ginger And/or Carrots Or kale/cucumber/celery Or pear I know I broke the “no veggie” rule...sue me.

On an Emirates marathon as we speak. 8 hour flight to Dubai then 14 hours to JFK. On the first leg right now and they ran out of Dom (seriously?) so I’ll raise a glass of Paradis in your honor. The shower says “max 2 people”. Any escorts up for joining the ultra-rare gay mile high shower club with me? Btw...they block this site and RM (with a somewhat frightening “site banned in the UAE” splash screen) but VPN works fine.

God she’s brilliant.

Bingo! Stop spending money on rent boys (for now) and start spending it on a personal trainer. I’ve always said my trainer is worth a thousand therapists and ten thousand rentboys...and I mean it. He pumps me up. He makes me feel good about myself. And as a byproduct I get a rocking body out of it. Now when I hire rentboys it’s not so much out of desperation as it is a matter of convenience. It’s a long and at times painful road....but you can do it with help. Go to your local gym and “workout” so you can scout out the local trainers. Look for someone that’s physically attractive to you and seems to pay a lot of attention to his clients. Believe me....he’s fishing for a desperate fatty just like you to reel in and change their life. He knows it’s a goldmine if you become a regular. Stick with it. Respect his boundaries. Work your ass off. And in about 2 years you be wondering why you ever took antidepressants in the first place and your therapist will be looking for a new client.

Theraguns are amazing. They allow someone without much training to do a decent massage. With training, they’re very impressive. They are, however, ridiculously expensive and loud. It sounds like you’re building a deck. There are cheaper and quieter options available that are just as good and in many ways better. The Hypervolt in particular is very nice. https://hyperice.com/hypervolt

Good doctors know they’re good and they know they can command a premium to off set caring for less patients and delivering a better product. It’s supply and demand plain and simple. You get what you pay for. It’s also diagnostic of the problem with “socialized” medicine. Everyone wants free care, as long as they can go onto the free market and purchase better care if they want it. Unfortunately, true Socialism doesn’t work that way.

I’d bet the legions of drag queens who work their asses off at being camp would disagree. Nonetheless, I agree that it’s incredibly difficult to be or create camp. I thought it was a dumb and frankly near impossible concept to pull off the minute they announced this years Met Gala theme. When 99% of the guests at a “costume ball” miss the mark....it’s an unmitigated failure. This may well go down in history as the year Ms. Wintour’s fabulous party....jumped the shark.

I know gay men are obsessed with staying in ketosis on low carb diet.... but that is taking it a step to far don’t ya think? Grin

But is it camp?

I too would give Madrid the slight edge. It’s more cosmopolitan. Barcelona can feel a bit touristy. Although the architecture is amazing. That said, I would love to visit either or both anytime.

Striking?.....yes. Camp?.....no.

There is nothing about me that is “typical”....grin

My next bathroom will be a palace. It will have.... A full floor urinal A full sized oval high toilet. A proper European bidet. (not one of those horrible “squirt gun up your asshole” Japanese ones) A walk-in gym style shower big enough for 4 men. A tub big enough for 2 men to bathe each other in. And it will be heated by a large marble slab in the middle like a Turkish bath. It will be heaven.

WTF?....come on google translate!

We need clarification. Georgia (home of the B-52s)?....or Greece (home of modern civilization)?

A link would be helpful.......

Never tried it and never heard of it before. It looks interesting. They tried an intranasal version years ago, but it raised blood pressure too much. So they reconfigured it to be administered by an auto injector and they’re targeting it to female sexual dysfunction. I can’t quite figure out the logic other than dudes already have an easy to use pill, so why enter a market that already has stiff (pun intended) competition when there’s one just as large with no competition. It’s very different from Viagra et al. This drugs seems to work directly on the brain increasing libido. If it works, hold on to your hats....it will only be a matter of time until gay men get their already horney hands on it.... Personally, I don’t inject things from overseas pharmacies. We all have to decide the risks we’re will to take. That’s my line. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bremelanotide

Come on...the wildly fake almost cartoonish dick pic was the first clue. Anyone too stupid to get bad RM reviews removed....is bad news. And finally, to me “prefer men over 45” or similar text always sets off alarm bells. The only real reason an escort would prefer “men over 45”, is because a built 35 year old Client isn’t as easy to intimidate and is more likely to throw your fake ass to the curb empty handed. Cynical, but true.