nycman

Good message, but I thought it was a poorly written article. A large chuck of it came off as “poor me and my evil dead boyfriend”, which really has little to do with today’s pandemic. I’m never a fan when someone paints an unflattering picture of a dead person who can’t defend themselves or tell their side of the story. Not that it really matters, the connection is so tenuous as to make the point irrelevant. There are many things we can learn from the AIDS pandemic that will help us get through this one. I just don’t think this article does a great job of pointing out exactly what those lessons are.

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Frank Sinatra. I always thought he was a mediocre hack. Seinfeld. While I liked the show and cast, I loathed the lead.

If your doctor is putting more direct pressure on our prostate than your “poo”.....get a new doctor.

Amarula is indeed delightful. But to truly enjoy it one must have it in their morning coffee, while on safari in a private South African game reserve, watching the sunrise over a herd of amarula nut eating elephants. Otherwise, it tastes like shit.

I have a nice personality. Does that count?

Get a new doctor. Seriously, you take a shit every day that’s bigger than his finger. Yes. Will he care? No No. And.....”cover story”?....WTF? If you can’t be open with your doctor about getting fucked up the ass...get a new doctor.

One side only. Hated it. Never bothered to learn the rest.

I’d still fuck him. Perhaps to my detriment.

I’ve done it. It’s weird at best. All the pubic spa areas are closed. They take you straight from spa registration to the room. You and the provider are masked. Even with therapists I know and like, it was awkward. The rest of the casino wasn’t much better. Thankfully, masks became mandatory while I was there. The Wynn as absolutely fanatical about enforcement, which I appreciated. The pool was a bit of a shit show, but it was outdoors so I didn’t get too crazy about it. Table games seemed stilted and strange, but not horrible. Most people I saw were really trying to do a good job with the masks. I saw a Wynn manager do a verbal take down on a obvious frequent high roller who was being an asswipe about wearing a mask. “While we’re thankful for your past business, if you don’t comply you will be removed. We can’t risk the entire Casino for you, I’m sorry.“ The asswipe left in a huff, and the floor broke out in applause.

I beat myself (off) constantly. Does that count?

I pretty much hate gambling, although it can be mildly fun with the right arm candy. In other words, I care more about your ability to get fucked than I do about your dice rolling skills.

Embrace your body, heart and soul. Well, that and no one looks good in a toupee.

And it loves you back. Even when you were in the dreaded sights of FFF‘s caustic criticism, you responded with style and grace. That’s wasn’t always an easy thing for some of us to do. And I’ve never once been steered wrong by one of your recommendations on here. You're a Prince in my book.

“Let’s hit the showers champ”. Only a moron doesn’t know what that implies. And only a moron doesn’t jump at the chance to clean up with you so that he can get a Grade A blow job.

Blush. Flattery will get you everywhere. Oh, Hell yes. Its usually pretty obvious when an escort is trying to play coy and fend off your advances or slow thing down so that you never get to the main event. Once in Key West a “straight” stripper pulled the dodge and delay stunt. When I promptly got out of the bed naked, opened the door, and told him to leave, he just grinned ear to ear, pulled his pants down, rolled over and threw his ass in the air. We had a blast. Don’t be afraid to call someone on their bullshit. They're the professional and they play this game better and more often than you. Never forget that.

Because every FFF thread should be resurrected at least every 5 years, so that we all remember the greatness that has gone before us! Always a FFFan, nycman

I’m a top so it’s not a deal breaker for me. But the same thing happens on the flip side. “I can’t bottom today”, gets politely shown to the door. I make it clear prior to the hire that “I’m a top who likes to fuck.” No fucking = no money. It‘s like a plumber showing up without a wrench.

I hate walking / running too. In fact, at the height of the local pandemic panic, I asked a work out buddy if we could go for a cross country run in the woods. His response?...”Wow, it’s gotten that bad, huh?” To answer the question, I’d suggest finding a trainer that can bring some workout equipment to your house. You don’t need much, you’re just looking to keep moving, not be the next Arnold. You avoid the unwashed masses, you get to spend some time with a cute dude, you get some exercise, and you don’t have to walk. Win, win, win, win.

Can anyone confirm if the pics are recent? I don't care if he's 92...if those are his real pics.

Eastern European = Avoid until verified. Even then, think twice. Such a simple formula.

It’s the Post, so don’t waste too much time on it. However, I do believe that masks will be with us for quite some time. Just like they became de rigueur for sick people in Asia after the last SARS outbreak.

I agree. The issue isn’t wether or not we think your friend is racist. The fact is you perceive his behavior to be racist. Personally, I’d have no problem hooking up with him. I’m looking to get off, not have an intellectual discourse on racial inequality in America. Then again, I’m really good a separating sex from love from friendship. Could I be his friend or boyfriend? Oh, hell no. Could I bend him over and fuck his ass all night long and maybe even get off on making that dumb ass racist my little bitch for the night? Oh, hell yes.

I think the therapist needs to acknowledge (at least to himself) that it will be an issue. Transference, counter transference, the whole messy life of the patient and the therapist is all a part of the therapy game. It happens in all therapy, wether or not the therapist was an adult entertainer. It just one more factor that may or may not enter into the mix. If the therapist can’t handle that, they should seek another profession. If the client can’t handle it, they should seek another therapist.