Vegas_Millennial

13 hours ago, socurious said:

Well, someone that has an erection to have sex with another man can't be straight.

I am not straight or bisexual.  Whenever I get my balls and penis waxed, whether by a man or woman, I always get an erection.  I also get an erection when disrobed at the doctor's office alone in the room and waiting for the nurse or doctor to come in to examine me, not knowing if the nurse or doctor will be man or woman.  I don't want to have sex with these people, yet I get an erection.

I'll get an erection when the wind blows and I'm naked, alone, by the pool.  Same when I'm close to a water jet in a hot tub.  The wind or water jet is neither male nor female, yet it gets me hard!

The statement above is akin to saying a gay escort can't get an erection with a client that they are not attracted to.  Bologna.  Besides, straight men get erections all the time when having sex with their own man hand during masturbation.

6 hours ago, socurious said:

Would you rather hire a bi, gay or straight provider? I ask because a lot of clients find the idea of having sex with a straight or bi man more exciting. Most of my clients usually assume I'm straight. Do you think identifying as bi, gay or straight makes a different when trying to find potential clients?

Sexual orientation makes absolutely no difference to me.  I've had great and poor paid sexual experiences with all three orientations.  I do not sort or screen my providers by their orientation.

But like @APPLE1 says, we prefer honesty.  If you're lying and say "straight" or "bisexual" when you're really gay, just to try to drum up business, your clients will figure it out and not return.  You don't need a good memory or need to be a good actor if you don't lie.

1 hour ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Insane behavior because as a bottom, I generally can't feel the difference. 

As a bottom client, I can feel the difference with a condom and without.  I won't hire an escort if he's going to use a condom (I verify in advance if bareback is okay).  With a hookup, I don't mind if he uses a condom for whatever reason.  I just don't want to pay for that experience.

54 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

How old where you when you got vaccinated?

 

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

Because you have $ and no kids to take care

Actually, a good deal of my time and money is spent voluntarily mentoring kids as a youth activity leader and supporting children all over the world (like some good fathers mentioned earlier).  That's part of what makes my lifestyle so rewarding!

So far, none of my kids I mentor have come out as gay.  I'm not going to spend too much time looking for them amongst the larger families with many older brothers.  Although this study (the topic of this thread) does correlate a higher likelihood of gay men in families with older brothers, that is still a very small contributing factor (only around 1-3%) of the total odds of being gay.

2 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Same as NYC? 400$? 

In my experience, most male escorts and masseurs charge less in California than they do in most of the rest of the country, especially New York, Virginia, or Florida.

19 hours ago, GCMan said:

What is the most you have ever paid for an overnight?

I've only ever had one overnight so far.  I paid 250 Euros (200 plus 50 tip) for an overnight in Vienna in 2023.

Otherwise, the most I've paid to date is $500 for 2 hours with 2 men (couple) back in 2019.

2 minutes ago, ShortCutie7 said:

...I had no more exposure to gay culture than anyone else living in NYC.  

But that's still a lot of exposure compared to most of the world!

2 hours ago, Peter Eater said:

It’s 2024, and still the ludicrous fiction of a “gay lifestyle” is being used! 

My 2024 gay lifestyle is pretty fabulous. 🤩

My brothers' lifestyles are all pretty nice, but not quite as fabulous.

17 hours ago, SunshineGuy55 said:

Visiting SF on a business trip in a couple of weeks. 
How much should I expect to pay?

Same as NYC? 400$? 

The last time I hired in San Francisco I saw a few men and paid $150-$200 for 90 minute sessions (all were erotic massages with bareback anal penetration), but this was back in 2018.

Just now, socurious said:

I wouldn't do it for 250 honestly.

The feeling is mutual.

I like an escort that is a great kisser, and is open to both being a top and bottom.

But each person has different tastes and desires.  There's a market for everything.  But some markets are larger than others.

17 hours ago, SunshineGuy55 said:

Visiting SF on a business trip in a couple of weeks. 
How much should I expect to pay?

Same as NYC? 400$? 

My favorite well reviewed, popular porn-star escort in San Francisco has an advertised rate of $300 for an hour outcall.  I saw him twice last weekend while he was traveling.

15 hours ago, socurious said:

300 not in NYC anymore. 

14 hours ago, APPLE1 said:

I read in another forum the rate in NYC was down to 200 or 250 😉

I met a traveling NYC escort last weekend that advertises $250/hour in NYC.  I will book with him when I visit NYC in two months.

He is a great kisser, and totally versatile for both oral and anal.

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

We're just taken aback about how you described him instead of just saying you have an older brother.

 

2 hours ago, soloyo215 said:

  5 hours ago, Kenny said:

He sounds like a jerk

We need to get used to the idea that families, like people, come in all shapes and sizes.  My dad, too, is a wonderful dad who has children that live all over the world. 🌎

It's interesting, and sad, that the people who preach tolerance the loudest are too often the first to judge others who are different, by calling them a "jerk" simply because of for whom they work, for whom they voted, or where their children live.

My father sired 8 children, of which the youngest two boys are gay.

To the tops out there reading this: Don't despair, Maus is very versatile!

2 hours ago, caramelsub said:

A lot of people speculate this. But ironically my mother was very distant growing up, at least to me. My father was the more nurturing parent. 

My father, too, was very present and very nuturing.  My mother was very controlling and narcissistic.  For years I didn't think I was gay solely because I was attracted men; but, rather, I thought it was because I was repelled by the idea of being with a woman such as my mother.  Yuck! 🤢

20 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Interesting!

I wonder if with smaller families less kids will be born gay in the future. 

These studies have only focused on the number of children (fewer children or more children), not their value (less or greater).  😉

To be clear, the gay younger child phenomenon is scientifically observed, but accounts for a very small amount of the cause of being gay.  Having gay relatives on the mother's side of the family is a much larger contributing factor.  Being a younger son increases the odds of being gay only by about 1-3%.  I'm sorry I don't have the article to cite where I read this.

10 hours ago, musclestuduws said:

One wonders what kind of church you attend. 🤣

We practice the laying on of hands 

46 minutes ago, KrisParr said:

This story was on NPR this afternoon - sorry, I’m traveling and just barely was able to get the title. Perhaps some kind member can post the link.  Interesting story about gays (both men and women) and the frequency of having older brothers. The more older brothers you have, the higher the chance of the youngest male/female being gay. I have two older brothers, both straight.  My gay cousin has 3 older brothers. And several friends all fall in this category. 

I have seen similar stories, and it has to do with the mother's built up resistance to a protein made by the Y chromosome from the previous sons.  Mothers build up antibodies with each male fetus.  The presence of those antibodies in later pregnancies affects the development of the male's brain to become homosexual.

We may know why younger brothers are more likely to be gay

WWW.NEWSCIENTIST.COM

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An immune response in some pregnant women’s bodies may explain the “fraternal birth order...

6 hours ago, RKD said:

He claims to no longer do escorting. Says his massage is strictly therapeutic.
In one text message, he asked me if I have got coke for him. 

I take the opposite approach.  I tell all my escorts/masseurs/hookups to "close the door so my upstairs roommate won't be disturbed", even when I have no roommates in the house.  For my safety, I like having them think someone else is in the house.

1 hour ago, NYCguy123 said:

I just wish the neighborhood (the Village) was better -- lots of homeless and drug use on the streets. 

It used to be called The Gay Village, and it was a lot better.  Now, to be more inclusive of all, the authorities removed the discriminatory word "Gay" and allow the urban campers, drug users, and the like.

35 minutes ago, DunwoodyGuy said:

If you're looking for a rub-with-release, you may or may not find that, but go and be open to something more spiritual and you will leave healed.

This sounds a lot like my pastor... Altough he is sometimes into more than a rub with release 😈

I hired Sherman Maus twice this weekend. My hole can't get enough of him!