Vegas_Millennial

That's the beauty of staying out in public and my going back for a private dance. If the dancer stops performing to my liking, I simply stop paying. And if I'm not paying enough, the dancer leaves. There's no need to negotiate up front that way.

Yes, yes, yes, yes My rule of thumb is to pay a dancer about 1/2 his private dance rate to stay with me in public and grope/kiss/massage/caress/suck. In the US where prices are typically $20-$25/song (3-5 minutes) for a private dance, I'll give the dancer $10/song to play with me publicly. At 69, where the dancers are fully nude in public, I gave 200-500 pesos ($11-28 US) every 5-10 minutes. In hindsight, I probably gave too much; because, it was impossible to get rid of a guy after I've had fun with him and was ready to move on to a new guy. If I had paid less, perhaps they would have moved on.

I went through this when I first lived alone at the age of 20. Although still single at middle-age, I find it a comfort that I rent 2 of the bedrooms in my house to single straight men. Just hearing the movement of someone else in the house is comforting.

My good friend insists Mississippi is the land of straight black muscle. He drives through the state with his Grindr on and lots of closeted black men are available in every county to fuck his brains out on the down low. My frind is a chubby older white dude who doesn't hire; and, he says the black men there just crave his white fat ass.

If looking for a group of people known for: - Not changing their mind. - Always in the mood to have sex. - Not playing mind games. Women may be the LAST group you're looking for.

I was going for the tight on top look, no? Oh....I wasn't looking on top. That's a "Hey, eyes up here" picture indeed!

This is why I always insist on watching the register as the cashier rings everything up, so that I may double check the prices. I see too many people be distracted by starting to bag their own groceries or simply not watch the monitor to double check every price.

The OP didn't specific a city in the title. As has been started repeatedly throughout the Deli, not including a city in the subject title yields little, if any, fruitful responses.

Here's a sample of my during opportunities in Puerto Vallarta this week: Hired: 1. Massage, which included bareback fucking. Paid 3000 pesos ($165 US) 2. Massage only. Paid 900 pesos ($50 US). Masseur asked if I wanted to suck his cock for 3500 pesos, I told him no thank you. Then he asked if I wanted a happy ending for 2500 pesos, I told him no thank you. 3. 2 hour massage and escort outcall. Paid 3000 pesos ($165 US). He reached out to me on Grindr 3 years ago, and I see him once or twice every visit. 4. 1 hour escort with a stripper from Wet Dreams at my hotel. Paid 2000 pesos ($110 US), plus Uber each way (150 pesos each way). Included lots of kissing, oral, and bareback fucking. He reached out to me on Grindr after seeing me in the Wet Dreams strip club. Turned down: A stripper at Wet Dreams wants 6000 pesos ($330 US) to come to my hotel, and a stripper from 69 wants 8000 pesos ($440 US) to come to my hotel. Just to give you an idea of the price ranges out there. In summary: my best hires have been men who reached out to me on Grindr. I found a few others at massage parlors or strip clubs, but have turned down more offers than I've accepted at these places.

I went back to 69 on Wednesday night, after visiting the shower shows again at Wet Dreams next door. I like the slower Wednesday night compared to Saturday. There was room to sit, and a dancer paid good attention to me for several hours. Lots of hot men at 69, and they were a little less pushy than the men at Wet Dreams. I avoided the private rooms tonight. But I had plenty of non-private fun on the couch with a dancer on my arm/lap.

Yes, Yes, Yes. For all of my cruises or tours, I always arrive in the departure city at least one day in advance for this very reason. When I did a men's Danube River cruise in 2023, I arrived in Vienna 5 days before my tour. That gave me chance to see the city but also, most importantly, a day of rest after the flight and time changes to get adjusted. There were several men on the river cruise who flew in from the US that morning, and they skipped excursions and meals for the first few days of the cruise because they were still exhausted from the flight. Also, some men lost their luggage, and the airlines kept trying to deliver it to them but were always a day behind the cruise. So, Yes, arrive at least one night before, and possibly more.

It's just one man in the shower at a time, and he is typically nude except for flip-flops on his feet and a smile 😊

Tonight I popped into Wet Dreams. It was much more enjoyable to me tonight (a Tuesday) when there are fewer customers than when I popped in on Saturday. The highlight was the parade of gorgeous men taking turns in the shower 🚿. Edwin remembered me from my visit last year, and came over and welcomed me and made me feel wonderful throughout the night. I had 2 private dances. The house charges 600 pesos ($33 US) for 10 minutes in a private room. My 2 dances were very fun, but newbies just be warned to negotiate a price before hand. I gave my 2 dancers more than I usually do, because they were really good and that is on par what I might pay for similar time/action with a dancer in the US. However, I am in Mexico so I'm sure I could have come to a price half that amount had I negotiated before going back to the booth, especially on a slow Tuesday night. The shower shows were the highlight and the reason I will go back later this week.

I am in Puerto Vallarta for the week, and stopped into the 3 strip clubs adjacent to each other on Saturday night: Wet Dreams, 69, and B Mine. Wet Dreams was standing room only, and no one in the shower when I entered, so I quickly left for 69. I stayed at 69 for 2 drinks. The "performances" were lackluster...3 guys on stage at a time and all of them not doing much more than standing still. Every guy but 1 had a belly. I waited for the 1 fit body builder to come my was, but his body odor was off the charts so I left and went to B Mine At B Mine, there was a wide assortment of guys but the only one I found attractive was covered head to toe in tattoos, which is not my cup of tea. I left and went home having visited 3 strip clubs and not tipping a single stripper: a first for me.

On the contrary, my experience both in hiring and hookups have been that the guys with a fat fetish are themselves fit bodybuilders. I've ran across a few Rent Men profiles of fit body builders that said "Into Bears/Big/Chubby Men". I've hooked up with several fit bodybuilders, but alas they won't leave their husbands who are all bigger, fatter, and older than me. (And I'm self-described morbidly obese). There's a couple in Vegas who goes to the local Bear bar to pick up big men (I was one of their pick-ups). They use the fit jock bodybuilder as bait, but the truth is both of the husbands are into big men.

Yes, they do

Have most providers stop treating you as a customer? Even though I always pay in cash, I can't remember ever receiving a receipt from a provider which is customary to give a customer. For the gentlemen older than I, did escorts ever give you Green Stamps with your purchase?

I'm at a restaurant in Puerto Vallarta right now, and the menu says pay in cash gets a 10% discount just ask your server. I'm hearing every table around me asking to pay in cash (as I always do anyway).

The Search 🔎 feature is your friend:

The guys dance on elevated platforms in the middle of the dance floor. Patrons are dancing around them. Lap dances are available. Each private lap dance area has a timer that displays the price in Dollars as time ticks by, in full display of the lap dance patron, so there is no confusion about price. It's quite a nice invention, actually. The dancers wear fashion underwear. Demographics: The dancers are 100% all young men.

And New Year's, too:

Ask in advance, and it's no different than any other holiday hiring:

Conversely, there was no mention of property maintenance and repairs (roof, HVAC, plumbing, landscaping, etc.) which is an extra cost for homeowners that renters don't see.

To hell with discipline. If you had the ability to make an extra payment every month, get a 15 year mortgage instead. The longer term gives one flexibility in case life changes, such as a job change or loss, call for the lower monthly payment until one's salary recovers.

Only call from a land line, using an 800 number. Pay with cash unless you need to finance it with a credit card. Always do cash withdrawals and check deposits in person at the teller, so you don't need a debit card.