Aaron_Bauder

A preference is "I like X, but I enjoy Y" more. Not "I won't even consider X." That's total exclusion, not preference. 
Writing off and excluding entire races based on race is racialized exclusion. White supremecy is still a major thing among Americans and American gays, especially ages millennial and up, who were brainwashed by Sean Cody, Bel Ami, and Corbin Fisher to only find white jocks with abs attractive. But American gays love to think of themselves as open-minded, progressive, LoveIsLove stans so they try to sugarcoat social segregation as "preference" and delude themselves that if they're just nice about it and hide it, that makes it okay. Whatever. I guess it's progress from the gross NO BLACKS NO ASIANS days. 
The sexual thing is meh (fuck whomever you want) but I'm disturbed that in the US, even in diverse cities like Los Angeles, *friend* groups are racially segregated. 
It's changing with Zoomer gays, who actually are as open-minded and non-racist as millennial gays pretend to be. In the meantime, I suggest black providers travel internationally where the white supremacy thing is less prevalent. There still, but as bad.
For Asians, I dunno. Even in my extensive travels I've seen and heard too much derogatory anti-Asian crap. I don't know where in the West that Asians can escape the hate, but for hot black America gays/providers: go to Europe. You get treated there the way mediocre white gays get treated in America. 
 

I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past. 
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand. 
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms. 
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.

Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
 
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
 
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.

I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past. 
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand. 
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms. 
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.

I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past. 
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand. 
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms. 
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.

I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past. 
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand. 
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms. 
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.

I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past. 
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand. 
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms. 
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.

My ad states that I may ask a client to send an Uber/Lyft for outcalls, depending on the distance and situation. It's not an issue. Rarely a client asked to do this won't do it, and c'est la vie. On to the next. 

I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past. 
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand. 
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms. 
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.

I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past. 
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand. 
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms. 
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.

I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past. 
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand. 
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms. 
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.

I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past. 
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand. 
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms. 
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.

I'm a provider who participates under a pseudonym. I also don't participate as much as in years past. 
One, my honest answers drew negative attention, with some clients here saying things about me and my profile that were false and thus damaging to my brand. 
Two, after nearly a decade working I think many if not most clients posting here are not a representative sample, but rather a self-selected sample. Much of the conventional wisdom around here does not reflect my experience, in ways both positive and negative. Positively, clients here generally seem more savvy at effective communication with providers, compared to most who reach out to me. Negatively, clients here also seem generally more high maintenance than my real-world client base. Not all, but speaking in general terms. 
Thus posting here is not as useful to me as I felt it might be when I joined. Would love to join a provider-only forum.

I agree. I participate but I do wonder how useful it is. I guess it’s an insight into what clients are thinking about but it’s probably not very representative. 
It can be amusing to engage but I agree there are plenty of people just wanting validation of things they’ve already made their mind up about. There’s also some with misconceptions and prejudices about providers that are revealed in their questions. 
I participate in a forum on a website that’s created by providers for providers (only providers can join) and I find that much more useful to connect with other providers and find out helpful information. 

My ad states that I may ask a client to send an Uber/Lyft for outcalls, depending on the distance and situation. It's not an issue. Rarely a client asked to do this won't do it, and c'est la vie. On to the next. 

Okay, thanks! It's 55523--
 
Hey! Wait a minute....?

Okay, thanks! It's 55523--
 
Hey! Wait a minute....?

Is this happening for anyone else?

Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
 
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
 
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.

Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
 
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
 
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.

Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
 
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
 
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.

Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
 
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
 
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.

Never worked CPAC, but the Republican convention was traditionally a great event for providers, full of the typical sexually repressed, wealthy, country club hypocrites who demonize gays, blacks, and libertines publicly while privately trolling for black cock and gay sex.
 
That has changed in the GQP's Trump era. The country clubbers have been replaced with truly dangerous right wing extremists, who've also driven away the Young Republicans and with it the once-legendary fratboy party scene around conservative events. I think I saw a headline about CPAC's dwindling youth attendance over the past few years.
 
Subtraction is no way to win elections, if you ask me.

Rentmen has a monopoly. They know it. And their arrogant customer service reflects their dominant market share.
 
It is what it is.

Yes, obvi. I have on occasion declined a donation from guys I would have hooked up with on my own accord. Usually they've insisted on donating anyway.
 
This has occasionally been problematic and amusing with guys (sometimes other escorts) who assumed, wrongly, that I'd find them super hot. It's like they're waiting for me to agree to meet them no charge, and then get confused and/or bitter when I politely inform them they're not my type. There's a couple of looks in the gay community that nearly everybody swoons over that I'm just not into.
 
I have a super l sexy massage client who I am super into and who I would leave the industry for immediately. Our sessions started as an hour massage and have gotten more and more intense each time, finally culminating July 4th weekend with an entire night of making out, edging, and frottage -- in addition to our usual long conversations. I could tell he was shaken up by it, and he has been radio silent since. Two weeks ago, I refunded every penny he's ever given me with the message "No charge." There is a serious connection there, but I think he's troubled at the thought of seriously dating a (former) sex worker.