Pulgasari1991

"Not available" usually means "don't want", "not interested", "ambivalent", "might get a better offer", "I thought I wanted but that evolved into not sure then nah I don't", "I had better defer the commitment and wait to answer the guy or delay confirming in case I more want later", "I won't be direct in case I don't want to alienate him because I may want him another time on my terms, so I prefer to hedge based on my alleged time-starved life", etc etc.
 
At this point, the detailed descriptions do not assist the reader to better grasp all the aspects of the problem. We all know about human nature in general and in the context of intimacy trade.
 
Rather than journaling all the details ad nauseum, I suggest going forward a structured tally (that can be formatted in a few words) of the proportions, say, over six months, that meet versus cancel/unshow. Not a particular week or weekend or spate of misfortune, as outliers either direction can occur over short time frames.
 
Just shift the nature of the formulated info about the theme in the rather vast amount of time you seem willing to invest in chronicling.
 
When you do not initiate a similar topic on discouragement we do not know if not hearing from you means things are going well or your bad booking experiences are simmering until you get organized to present here.
 
There is systematic research on cancel/no- show rates for other services, some with penalties others not.
 
We cannot judge the scope of the problem for you without a larger sample of providers, so the next best thing is to see your specific data across a long duration.

Not really. I once happened to turn a 3-day trip into a 4-day trip without additional expenses beside meals and accomodation, for a longterm client.
The rationale was that, having he already set up the budget for me for that occasion, there wasn't more gold to dig, so to speak, so I was just giving him some more without taking away from the rate (I had nothing scheduled for the 4th day anyway); in order to improve relationship with him.
 
Now, if somebody's good enough that he gets 10 bookings from the same guy, I'm very persuaded that he wouldn't need at all to give freebies.
You wouldn't buy 10 mediocre experiences to get a free one, isn't it?
On the other hand, you wouldn't back off from 10 great experiences just because you won't get the 11th one for free.

Not really. I once happened to turn a 3-day trip into a 4-day trip without additional expenses beside meals and accomodation, for a longterm client.
The rationale was that, having he already set up the budget for me for that occasion, there wasn't more gold to dig, so to speak, so I was just giving him some more without taking away from the rate (I had nothing scheduled for the 4th day anyway); in order to improve relationship with him.
 
Now, if somebody's good enough that he gets 10 bookings from the same guy, I'm very persuaded that he wouldn't need at all to give freebies.
You wouldn't buy 10 mediocre experiences to get a free one, isn't it?
On the other hand, you wouldn't back off from 10 great experiences just because you won't get the 11th one for free.

Notably, he registered on 20th June and hasn't any reviews. Perhaps he's experimenting with price discovery?

From anecdotal first-hand experience, it changes from uncomfortable and mildly painful to very smooth and pleasuring, depending on the lube (so far found myself noticeably better with durex eternal) and most importantly, on using disposable gloves; as mentioned above, bare fingers can be quite rough.

LMAO.
 
Why conflate a poster adding to the discussion a price reference point concerning any location or point in time with braggadocio?
 
Pricepoints hinge on many variables including purchase power parity, subjective value-based considerations independent of objective value, location trends and standards, dynamic currency exchange, and the geo-specific legality of commercial sex and related infrastructure.
 
Moreover, value-based cost assessments may evolve and shift with increasing exposure to experiences abroad. If you are able to grasp economic global relativism, you might not use one centric context (eg USA) to arbitrarily predict or control prices or gratuity leanings in another setting.
 
You might knit together your own particular take and judge typical fees within a specific setting to be exorbitant, fair, or concessionary. The latter does not equate to exploitation; for example, overall client volume or individual repeats may influence rate.

LMAO.
 
Why conflate a poster adding to the discussion a price reference point concerning any location or point in time with braggadocio?
 
Pricepoints hinge on many variables including purchase power parity, subjective value-based considerations independent of objective value, location trends and standards, dynamic currency exchange, and the geo-specific legality of commercial sex and related infrastructure.
 
Moreover, value-based cost assessments may evolve and shift with increasing exposure to experiences abroad. If you are able to grasp economic global relativism, you might not use one centric context (eg USA) to arbitrarily predict or control prices or gratuity leanings in another setting.
 
You might knit together your own particular take and judge typical fees within a specific setting to be exorbitant, fair, or concessionary. The latter does not equate to exploitation; for example, overall client volume or individual repeats may influence rate.

Good question... I started hiring in 2000's and it was 140 (more or less).

Good question... I started hiring in 2000's and it was 140 (more or less).

So that you see how he can beat you even on your field..!

***unregulated service business.
 
And yet..
 

I've never been on Grindr, but that's what I've also heard.
 
I think you can also look to porn. It may be possible that a lot of guys who hire view a lot of porn. When certain gays get horny, their speech can quickly turn into a bad porn script. They wrongly assume that every escort is like them when they are horny, and they assume escorts are horny all the time and enjoy hearing shit talk. It never made any sense to me. I find that most men who attempt to talk dirty actually fail miserably. Language is an art form and many Americans are suffering. Some argue it's the decline in reading. Others blame the internet and social media.
 

Wow. Imagine any other service provider making such a statement to a consumer. To me, those chosen words are a bigger turn-off than someone talking shit. Words matter.

It can come off as a form of bargaining

What is that?

He should have been ready to go. My suspicion is he prefers to not bottom for clients and wanted to use that as an excuse to persuade you not to top him. Sounds unprofessional to not be prepped.
As for asking for the time back, that’s a sticky situation. Pun not intended.

Let it go and think ahead. If there’s even a chance you might want to top a versatile escort, let him know ahead of time.

Don’t worry about it dude.
 
You asked an honest and legitimate question. If someone else
decides to get their panties in a twist over it, that’s their problem.
 
I doubt you’ll find any takers but then again there are as many
escort “business models” out there as there are escorts. It never
hurts to ask. In my experience, anyone who gets butthurt with
their customer’s questions, won’t have customers for long.

I may be in the minority but I have always believed that these poor boys would be doing exactly what they're doing whether they work in Gay Porn or at Pollo Loco. What Gay or G4P porn affords them is the cash and often a fan base willing to send them cash that supports the addiction in a way that an ordinary job wouldn't. I look at someone like Kyle Dean, a teen star athlete competitive teen body builder who got into drugs followed by arrests for petty crimes all before 19 and then followed by gay porn. And this beautiful young boy is gone by 21. It's heartbreaking. But I've always believed the adult career simply fed the problem that was already there, it didn't create it.

You asked for a cancellation fee for what? Based on YOUR DESCRIPTION, you had no confirmed appointment.

From an escort’s perspective. The less I know about a client, the better, whether it be good or bad. Your successes or shortcomings serve no relevance to our time together. I remember when I was just starting, I was fearful of meeting the Park Ave’s and the super successful for fear of them being pretentious and disrespectful. Very nice text exchanges didn’t alwyas pan out in person and there were a lot of uncomfortable power play moments. You requested he be your date for the wedding. Sounds simple on your end, but could potentially be a little stressful on his. He’s your date, you’re clearly well established from what I gathered from your post. It doesn’t just require the escort to be your date but to be social, entertain questions and be pleasant in front of a plethora of others. You’re essentially hiring him and putting him on stage. It’s easier to just have sex, truthfully. But again, this is just speculation. I wouldn’t get sad, it’s seldom personal. Sometimes it just doesn’t feel right or we don’t feel comfortable. I always kindly communicate when I feel like this as I think transparency is important. Not so easy for others to elaborate, remember that.

Didn't he price himself above average already? He must have figured out that bb is usually regarded as premium-worthy.
 
The offer from the poster blows my mind a bit, as it contradicts the market at a first glance; but also, it puts on the spotlight the unicity and potential irreplaceability of each provider.
Want condom with that exact guy? Sorry, we don't do that here despite what the vast majority says or does.
That's neat in his own way.

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It's not uncommon to have clients messaging a provider to know if he does bareback even if the profile already specifies he doesn't.
But there are also clients who wouldn't touch you with a pole if the profile is anyhow bareback-friendly, no matter what.
Maybe this provider doesn't want to scare away the second group (on the contrary, reassuring them in first place by explicitly stating he doesn't bareback), while staying open for business for the first one.

It's not uncommon to have clients messaging a provider to know if he does bareback even if the profile already specifies he doesn't.
But there are also clients who wouldn't touch you with a pole if the profile is anyhow bareback-friendly, no matter what.
Maybe this provider doesn't want to scare away the second group (on the contrary, reassuring them in first place by explicitly stating he doesn't bareback), while staying open for business for the first one.