FrankR

I cant wait!

Special: $10 off on Sunday before 10am... I agree, btw, he is a nice guy and was a good experience when he visited Philadelphia a while ago, but this special struck me as a little odd.

I gave this a try last night. Created a new account with ‘generous’ indicators and tapped some of the hot guys that never responded to my original profile. About a 30% success rate in responses. To be clear, these guys were of a certain age (over 22) and had no indicators in their profile that they were looking for generosity (like rose emojis). I am traveling to another large city next week and will see if the results are the same. Before I meet a guy off of Grindr I will of course take some common sense precautions...

He reached out to me on A4A this past weekend after I viewed his ad. Indicated that he would be open to a more interactive massage for more money and sent me a list of what he was open to via text - wasnt a match, so I declined politely. Then he became very rude and went on a rant... Based on this I would say avoid.

Clearly I am under invested in porn...

Thank you for sharing your thoughts here based on your personal experience. Grabbing a pill can feel "american" or even "western" in some respects, but it is good to have options! I have no problem with anybody that choose to abstain from drinking; but I am also aware that it can make social occasions more than a little awkward at times. I have two drinks a week - max; my personal choice, as I have learned how harmful alcohol can be when taken to excess. There certainly is a mental or spiritual component to overcoming addiction - something we can certainly learn from more "eastern" type healing practices. And, like you, I don't suggest that means "pray away the addiction". Healing has many component, sometimes you need to apply a combination to get to the desired outcome. Not sure I would agree that Miller was looking to continue drinking; my takeaway is that he noticed how many people were not being helped by the existing treatment through AA and started to look for other potential treatment methods. I could be wrong...

Right...because that happens to me all the time.

You may want to PM @BostonTom; he may be able to make a recommendation.

Eli has his fans -here is a recent thread. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/eli-nyc.147898/ Choice is a beautiful thing - move on and find somebody more to your liking - NYC offers many great options.

Also known as The Sinclair Method - has been used with great success (about 78% long term success) by taking naltrexone an hour before the first drink of the day (approx $50 for 30 tablets). I've been aware of this for years but whenever I mention it to people they get this blank look on their face - everybody knows about AA but hardly anybody seems to know about this approach. It is a shame, really. It's classified as a disease - so take the pill!!

I am already there. Made an effort over the Christmas holidays to cancel all the subscriptions I don't use every week - it adds up quickly!

Sounds about right!!

Also a good idea to check if the software protects mobile devices - i have a A/V product suite installed on my android mobile phone that provides A/V protection, password security, lost device tracking and protection as well as social network privacy scanner. Very cool.

So many 404 jokes, so little time...

The guys I am attracted to has no stamina. I enjoy long sessions but they keep cumming after a few minutes. And then leave me wanting. Any advice?

I am heading to Philly next week. I find it hard to believe that a city like Philly does not have many more great options. It’s a huge university city with a large population of hot, young guys that need to make rent and pay for college... How can this be?!?!

Amazon actually lists the "best sellers"! https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-Camera-Photo-Hidden-Cameras/zgbs/photo/12909791

He's has been advertising as a pro in NYC on Adam4Adam for years now. Same pics. https://www.adam4adam.com/profile/view/AdamSportsMan Also immortal - has been 25 years old for years now!

You do not have to name an executor - in that case the probate court will appoint somebody, usually by looking at the beneficiaries and asking if one of them is willing to administer the estate, but every state is different... So yes, your beneficiaries can get together, nominate somebody and propose that person to the probate court. That being said, selecting an executor by committee can go wrong in so many ways....

Your situation is clearly more complex than most. Seek out an attorney for a consultation and take a list of assets with you so he can help you navigate the state specific nuances. Any answer I give here would not serve you well...

This is exactly what I recommend. Living revocable trust and a pour over will that takes care of any small items not yet in the trust by funneling it straight to the trust for distribution. Avoid probate and all the related expense and drama...

Thank you for indulging my curiosity! I learned from your experience...

Hey @Smurof - how does the story end?? Did you get it resolved?