One of the smarter things I did was to hire a pro for my first time with a guy. Message me directly if you have specific questions on how i went about it, but the advice here is sound. Look for an experienced pro that is willing and able to work with you. Be clear on where you are coming from and what you want to experience. A short conversation (in person, not text) will help you get a sense for the personality and how compatible you are. Be safe and have fun!